Chikondi chosiyidwa ndi chisoni chenicheni kwa banja. Banja lirilonse liri lovuta kusunga mikangano: "Tili ndi ana wamba", "Ine ndine mkazi wabwino, ndipo palibe chomwecho", "khalani, sindidzasokoneza moyo wanu" ngati mwamuna watentha ndipo akusudzulana. Inde, ndikumvetsetsa, inunso mungathe: Ndibwino kukhala ndi munthu wosakondedwa yemwe amangokhalira kugwedezeka kapena kulira, amayenda mwinjiro wamafuta, ndi dzina la buku lomaliza limene adawerenga, palibe amene akukumbukira, chifukwa anali zaka khumi zapitazo. Komabe, mukhoza kuyesa kusintha chinachake ndikulimbana ndi kumverera kwa munthu wokondedwa, koma ngati mutakhala pansi ndi manja anu, ndiye tsoka, mwamsanga mudzayenera kudziwa momwe moyo ulili wovuta kwa mkazi wosakwatira.
Kodi n'zotheka kubwezeretsa chikondi?
Kaya n'zotheka kubwezeretsa chikondi - zimangodalira nokha: Zidzakhala zokwanira bwanji zolinga, zogwira ntchito komanso chikhumbo. Zopeka, mukhoza kubwezeretsa chikondi: munthu uyu kamodzi anakusankhani, koma patapita nthawi inu nonse munasintha, ndipo chikondi chinatha. Kotero, musanayambe ntchitoyi: kupeza chomwe chikusowa kwa mkazi pakalipano.
Momwe mungabwerere chikondi mu ubale ndi mwamuna wake?
Kuti mudziwe momwe mungabwerezere chikondi cha munthu, muyenera kumvetsa zomwe akusowa, ndipo izi zikhoza kuchitika m'njira zingapo:
- kuyang'ana. Ngati mumapita naye, tcherani khutu kwa amayiwo, omwe maso ake akuyang'ana, fufuzani mafilimu omwe amawakonda komanso ma filimu (kuti aganizire ntchito ya heroine ndi maonekedwe). Chinthu chachikulu ndikumvetsera mwachidwi ndi kulingalira za makhalidwe ofunikira, chifukwa angakonde zosiyana ndi khalidwe lake;
- funso lolunjika. Ngati ubalewo ndi wodalirika, mukhoza kufunsa mwamuna wanu kuti akufunseni zomwe akufuna kuti asinthe ndi chifukwa chake.
Ngati, komabe sizingatheke kuti tidziwe, ndiye kuti tikukonzekera dongosolo lonse lapansi: momwe tingapambulitsire chikondi cha mwamuna.
- Maonekedwe. Deta zakunja zabwino ndizofunikira kwambiri payekha kudzidalira nokha ndi kukopa munthu. Musasungire ndalama kuti mukhale wokongola: funsani katswiri wodziwa bwino (woveketsa tsitsi, wojambula, wojambula zithunzi), gwiritsani ntchito zodzoladzola zamtengo wapatali ndi zonunkhira mwatsatanetsatane.
- Chithunzi. Lembani kuti mukhale ndi thupi labwino, ngati muli ndi kulemera kwambiri - pitirirani kudya, chifukwa thupi lokongola ndi losinthasintha limakopeka kwambiri ndi mwamuna. Chovala chilichonse chidzagogomezera kugonana, komwe kudzafulumizitsa "kubwerera kwa chikondi."
- Um. Kudziwa zowona za masamu sizowonjezera, koma kukhala ndi moyo wokhudzana ndi moyo wapamwamba ndi zochitika zapachiyambi kudzakukwezani pamaso pake. Kwa ichi, ndikwanira kuwerengera mabuku a Russian kapena achikunja tsiku lililonse ndikuwonanso nkhani.
- Kodi mungapambane bwanji chikondi cha mwamuna mwa ufulu? Kudziimira kumadzipangitsa mkazi kukhala wosamvetseka komanso wosatheka, ndipo izi ndizo zomwe zingamupangitse kuti azitha kukhala mkuku: kumbukirani kuti njira yopita ku ntchito ikugwiritsidwa ntchito osati kwa amuna okha.
- Nyumba yokongola. Apa tidziwa momwe tingabwerezere chikondi cha mwamuna wake kunyumba. Munthu aliyense akufuna kubwerera kunyumba yabwino, yokondweretsa, kumene mkazi wake ndi chakudya chamadzulo amamuyembekezera pambuyo pa ntchito. Ngati tikugwirabe ntchito yoyamba, ndiye kuti sizingatheke kukwaniritsa mfundo yachiwiri: kuwononga mkaziyo ndi zokondweretsa zokondweretsa, kusunga nyumbayo ndi kuyisangalatsa.
- Kusamalira. Tsopano tikuphunzira kubwezeretsa chikondi cha wokondedwa ndi chithandizo ndi chikondi: chifukwa ichi muyenera kumudabwa munthu wanu ndi zodabwitsa. Zimadalira pa zomwe amakonda: ngati ndi chitumbuwa chokwera-khitchini, ngati njinga yamoto - mwamsanga ku sitolo yogulitsa masewera "agrade".
- Chothandizira chothandizira. Momwe mungabwezere malingaliro otayika ndikumatha kuvina striptease, simukusowa kufotokoza, chifukwa ichi ndi chithunzithunzi chabwino cha usiku wosaiwalika. Striptease ndi njira yothandiza yosokoneza moyo wanu wa banja.
- Nsanje. Yankho la mkazi wochenjera koma wolimba mtima ku funso lakuti: "Kodi mungatani kuti mutengenso maganizo a mwamuna wake?" Zidzakhala zosavuta: nthawi zonse zimayambitsa nsanje. Ndi deta yomwe mudzakhala nayo
Zidzakhala zovuta kupanga zinthu zomwe zapitazo, komabe, mukufunikira kuphunzira luso lokopana ndi khalidwe, kuti amuna amvetse bwino zolinga zanu ndi manja ndi nkhope.
Kodi mungabwerere bwanji chikondi kwa banja?
M'mabanja omwe muli ana (makamaka achinyamata), nthawi zina vuto limachoka kwa makolo awo, ndipo mwamuna ndi mkazi amzake. Ndipo zikutanthauza kuti palibe chikondi m'banja. Kukonzekera izi, konzekerani maholide apabanja kawirikawiri, ndipo sabata iliyonse sabata pamodzi: kupita kumalo othamanga, kuthamanga, kapena kukonza masewera a masewera ena.