Chikondi ndi chinthu chimene nthawi zonse chimayenda ndi okondedwa ndipo chimapereka ubale wachifundo ndi matsenga. Kwa zaka zambiri akhala akukhulupirira kuti kupatsa mtsikana mphete ndizolakwika, ngakhale kuti mphatsoyi imakondweretsa kwambiri kugonana kosayenera.
Amuna nthawi zambiri amapanikizika pa momwe kupatsira mtsikanayo mphete kumuthandizira kukhala wokondwa. Ndipotu, pali njira zambiri, muyenera kungosonyeza malingaliro anu ndikugwira ntchito pang'ono. M'nkhaniyi, tidzakambirana zina mwa njira zosangalatsa ndi zachilendo zopezera mphatso yotere.
Kodi mungamupatse bwanji mphete?
Ngati mayi amakonda maluwa, mukhoza kutenga maluwa amodzi, mwachitsanzo, duwa kapena astra , yomwe imakonda kwambiri osankhidwawo. Mphukira yosasweka imayika chophimbacho, ndikuchidutsa pamadontho angapo. Ngati maluwawo sakugwiranso ntchitoyi, mukhoza kukulunga ndi filimuyo, ndi msuzi wapadera, ndikukongoletsa ndi nsalu yowala. Mu mawonekedwe awa, perekani maluwa okondedwa kwa okondedwa anu ndi kumuitanira kuti azisangalala ndi fungo lokoma.
Njira ina, monga msungwana wamkazi wapachiyambi-ndikulumikiza mphatso ku zimayambira maluwa. Mukhoza kuyika maluwa mu mphete yokha, ndikuphimba ndi dzanja lanu, perekani maluwa. Mtsikana atatenga izi m'manja mwake, nthawi yomweyo amapeza mwadzidzidzi.
Ngati mnyamata akufuna kusankha njira yapadera, momwe angaperekere mphete kwa mtsikana, ndiye akhoza kulangizidwa kuti achite izo ndi kalata. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kuika mphatso mu envelopu, yesindikizani, yesani bwino, ikani mu bokosi la mtsikana wanu, ndipo mwamuitaneni mwamsangamsanga kuti ayang'ane makalata.
Chodabwitsa n'chakuti amayi ambiri amadzifunsanso momwe angaperekere mphete kwa munthuyo poyamba, chifukwa, mukuona, atsikana okha amasangalala kulandira mphatso zabwino.