Mkazi - chifaniziro cha mtendere, chikondi ndi chikondi. Ndizosatheka kusakonda mkazi. Chilichonse ndi chokongola mmenemo - chikhalidwe chokhazika mtima pansi, ndi chikondi chosatha, ndi chidziwitso chenichenicho. Amuna amatiyamikira, mkazi amafunikira mwamuna ngati mpweya. Nanga bwanji ngati mkazi amavomereza mkazi? Momwe mungakhalire ngati chikondi chikuchitika pakati pa akazi awiri? Chiwonetsero choterechi chimayambitsa zosiyana kwambiri ndi anthu. Apa, monga akunena, musaweruze ena ...
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Moyo umasowa munthu. Weniweni, wamphamvu, wotsimikiza ndi wosamala. Ndiye bwanji ngati amuna amenewo alibe okwanira. Ziribe kanthu kuti apasuka, tidzadikira. Mwachidziwikire, chiyembekezo chimenechi sichikuwopsezani nkomwe. Koma pankhani ya kuchita, zinthu zimasintha kwambiri. Kukhumudwa mobwerezabwereza mu ubale ndi mwamuna, kulephera kusankha mwamuna, kusowa kwa munthu wodalirika pambali pake - zonsezi sizimayima mkazi pakufufuza kwake. Zomwe "magawo" a kufufuza uku ziyenera kusintha. Ndipo mu moyo zimakhala kuti ndi mkazi yemwe amakhala chokondedwa ndi mkazi wina.
Chifukwa chake akazi amakondana - yankho la funso ili liri mu khalidwe ndi zowawa. Ngati mumayang'ana maukwati ogonana amuna okhaokha, mungathe kupeza njira inayake: mu F + F, monga lamulo, mnzanuyo ali ndi "mwamuna" wogonana, pamene winayo ndi wachikazi komanso wofooka. Kotero zimakhala kuti mkazi yemwe adawona mzimayi wina, kudzipereka, kulimba mtima, zomwe sanapeze mwa mwamuna, amayamba kudyetsa malingaliro ake ndi kuyembekezera kupeza chimwemwe pambali pake. Koma, chikondi cha amayi awiri chimabwera kuchokera ku chikhumbo cha mmodzi wa iwo kuti asamalire mnzanu wofooka. Kumva ngati "ndodo" yamwamuna, mkazi amayamba kukondana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi ngati mkazi. Komabe, yankho la funso loti amai amakonda akazi ndilolumikizana kwambiri ndi kulera kwawo, maganizo awo komanso kugonana. Ndi kulakwa kutchula chikhumbo choyimira anthu omwe akugonjera kugonana. Mwinamwake ndizo basi
Kawirikawiri, amai akhoza kukhala paubwenzi wapamtima, pachibwenzi cholimba, ndipo m'tsogolomu amakhala ndi ubale weniweni popanda kuchita manyazi pakati pawo. Izi zimafotokozedwanso ndi chiwerewere komanso chilakolako cha kugonana. Mayi akuyang'ana chisangalalo ndi mnzake yemwe ali wachikondi komanso wokondedwa, chifukwa ndi "mkazi". Kuwonetseratu zofooka sizosiyana kwa mkazi ndi anthu sizinaloledwe. Choncho, m'maganizo mwa amayi omwe mulipo mulibe zolepheretsa kugonana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha.
Amene ali ndi mawu otsatirawa, adanena bwino kuti: "Timakonda munthu, osati mwa kugonana kwake."