Mwana wa Mamenkin - choti achite?

"Mwana wa Amayi" ndilo lingaliro limene limaphatikizapo mazenera, magazini, mafano, ndi zina zotero. Nkhaniyi imakulira chifukwa, chifukwa mawuwa ndi ofunika kwambiri kwa amai ambiri, nkotheka kuti ndi vuto la nthawi yathu. Amayi zikwi zambiri, akukumana ndi vuto ili, kufuula thandizo. Choncho, tidzayesa kupeza momwe tingakhalire ndi mwana wa mayi anga.

Momwe mungachitire ndi mwana wamayi?

"Mwana wa Amayi" - mu lingaliro la sayansi limatanthauza munthu yemwe pa nthawi yaunyamata "sanalekanitse" ndi amayi ake mwachikhalidwe .

Kawirikawiri amuna awa amasonyeza makhalidwe amenewa asanakwatirane. Momwe mungadziwire mwana wa mayiyo? - zimakhala zosavuta, ngati mukukumbukira zikuluzikuluzi:

1. Pamsonkhano wanu mnyamata wanu akuthamangira kwa amayi ake pa ulendo woyamba.
2. Popanda mapeto ndi kuyamba, amamutcha mayi, akuwuza momwe adadyera, zomwe adavala, kumene anapita, ndi zina zotero.

Chifukwa cha kusamvetseka kwa atsikana ena, nthawi izi zimapita kosazindikiridwa, koma pambuyo paukwati amayi amatha kutenga malo ake mu moyo wa munthu wanu, ndipo nthawizonse mumakhala pa bench.

Koma, ngati izo zinachitika, mwamuna ndi mwana wa mayi, ndiye "Chochita chiyani?" Chikhala ntchito yaikulu, yomwe iyenera kuthetsedwa mtsogolomu yapafupi. Ndipotu, n'zosatheka kusintha mwana wa mayiyo asanakwatirane, koma funso lakuti "Kodi mungasinthe bwanji mwana wa mayiyo pambuyo pa ukwatiwo"? Njira yopezera kubwerera m'mbuyo siikhalanso, mphete palake, malingaliro a tsogolo amamangidwa, koma palibe zotheka kuti zidzakwaniritsidwe ngati amayi anu akuima panjira yanu.

Kodi mungakonzekere bwanji mwana wamwamuna?

Malangizo a katswiri wa zamaganizo okhudza mwamuna - mayi wa mwana wake ndi:

1. Mulimonsemo, musatengere khalidwe la amayi ovomerezeka, musamalowe m'malo mwake, motero musalowe m'malo mtsogoleri wina ndi wina. Ngati mwamuna wanu akhutitsidwa ndi zochitikazo, ndiye kuti mumakhala zovuta kuchita chilichonse, kupatulapo kuvulaza kwambiri, zomwe ziri zofunikira kwambiri.
2. Muyenera kuvomereza kuti ndibwino kwa mwamuna wanu kuti amayi ake asankhe chilichonse kwa iye, kuti ali ndi udindo kwa iye, koma mumangofunika kuchepetsa kuyankhulana ndi amayi ake ndikukambirana za "zosokoneza" za zinthu zomwe sizikukhutitsani.
3. Pangani ubwenzi wodalirika ndi iye, kotero kuti amayi anu apongozi alibe mphamvu kwa iye, koma inunso. Chinthu chachikulu: palibe mikangano ndi kukangana ndi amayi ake. Apo ayi, zotsatira zidzakhala zomvetsa chisoni.

Momwe mungagonjetse mwana wa mayi?

Popeza m'mayiko amasiku ano muli mabwato ambiri a amuna oterewa, amayi ena okongola amafunsa funso ili: "Kodi n'zotheka kupambana pa mtima wonse ...." Ndipo yankho lake ndi losavuta. Kuti mupambane mwana wamwamuna, muyenera kumutsatira mayi ake. Khalani mkazi yemwe amamudera nkhawa, kuphika, kutsukidwa kwa iye ndi kuyendetsa chirichonse. Ndiwe, ayenera kumverera kunyumba.

Koma musati muwasamalire mosamala ndi kusamala, monga munthu ayamba kumverera kwa inu malingaliro ofanana. Musaiwale, kuti ndinu mkazi komanso mkazi wokondedwa. Osati kokha chimene ndimachikonda, komanso champhamvu, chodziimira ndekha, ndipo sichichotsedwa, chokoma. Ndipotu, cholinga chanu ndi kuphunzitsa mwana wa mayi anu kuti azidziimira okhaokha, "kutembenuzira" kukhala munthu wolimba, yemwe angathe kusankha yekha popanda kugwiritsa ntchito mayi wofunikira pa nthawi yoyamba yomwe amapeza.

Kumbukirani kuti, ngakhale mavuto m'banja mwathu ndi woimira chilakolako chogonana chotere, zotsatira za maphunziro ake sizidzafika nthawi yayitali. Chinthu chachikulu ndikutsatira ndondomekoyi ndipo khulupirirani chikondi chanu.