Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kudalira wokondedwa wanu?

Nthawi zina, pali zochitika zina mu moyo pamene mnzanu, wokondedwa amapunthwa ndikusowa chikhulupiriro cha anthu oyandikana naye. Ndizovuta kwambiri kuti ndibwererenso maubwenzi akale. Choyamba chofunika pa gawo lanu ndi chikhululukiro , chachiwiri ndicho kuphunzira kudalira kachiwiri. Kodi ndi zovuta ziti zomwe zimakhala zovuta kupereka: kukhululukira kapena kudalira ndi vuto lalikulu la mibadwo yonse. Kumvetsetsa ndi kukhululukira, ndi kukhululukira kumatanthauza kusiya kwathunthu, kubwerera ku maubwenzi apitalo, ndipo ichi ndi chinthu chovuta kwambiri kuchita padziko lapansi! Momwe mungaphunzirire kudalira mwamuna kachiwiri ndi nkhani yaikulu yomwe imafuna kufotokoza mwamsanga!

Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kukhulupirira mwamuna kapena mwamuna?

Kotero kuti iwe sudzauzidwa za kusakhulupirika kwa osankhidwa, usamamvere aliyense. Chofunika kwambiri kwa inu: chimwemwe ndi kukhulupirira ndi wokondedwa wanu kapena malingaliro oipa a wina?

Sankhani zabwino, mafilimu abwino. Musayang'ane pa chikondi , chisangalalo ndi kusakhulupirika. Pa msinkhu wachikumbumtima, ngakhale mndandanda wa pulayimale ukhoza kufotokoza chitsanzo cha khalidwe lanu. Simukufuna kuti mukhale wansanje?

Chifukwa chachikulu chokhalira osakhulupirirana pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi ndicho kusamvetsetsa kwapachiyambi. Zonsezi zimayamba ndikuti ngati pali kusakhutira kapena kusakayikira, funsoli silinatchulidwe, koma likuyenera kufotokoza momveka bwino. Ndipo kumatsiriza ndi mfundo yakuti malingaliro opambana omwe atengedwa kuchokera padenga amathandizidwa ndi zosafunikira kwenikweni, mwinamwake, umboni wosakhalapo. Ichi ndi vuto la mabanja onse. Ngati mukufuna kusokoneza maubwenzi, phunzirani kudalira okondedwa anu, ndiye muyenera kuyamba kungoyamba kulankhula. Chotsani chisamaliro chopanda pake, lolani chirichonse chikhale choyera pakati panu. Uzani okondedwa anu ngakhale za kupambana kwanu kogonjetsa ndi kugonjetsedwa, Muuzeni zomwe mukuganiza, zomwe zimakuvutitsani komanso zomwe zimakondweretsa inu. Idzakufikitsani pafupi. Fotokozani zakukhosi kwanu ndi omvera anu. Koma musamufunse zambiri kuchokera kwa iye. Musaganize kuti nthawi yomweyo ayamba kusonyeza chikhumbo choti akuuzeni za chirichonse, monga momwe mumachitira. Musaiwale, amuna ndi osiyana kwambiri ndi akazi. Mosamala ndi unobtrusively azikhala ndi chidwi ndi mavuto ake, ndi mafunso omwe amamukhudza. Mupemphe iye kuti agawane izi ndi inu. Kotero, mu chiyanjano chanu, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndi kudalira wina ndi mzake; mumachepetsa chiopsezo cha nsanje ndi maganizo okhudzana ndi chiwembu.

Khalani okondwa!