Tangoganizirani, iwe wakhala mu cafe ndipo usamayang'ane mwadala munthu amene wakhala pa tebulo lapafupi. Simukukondanso umunthu wake. Popanda kuzindikira, mukuyang'ana zomwe akuwerenga, zomwe akuvala, kaya nsapato zake zimatsukidwa, kaya manja ake akukonzedwa. Pachifukwa ichi, chidwi chanu ndichabechabe chifukwa chakuti simunayambe kuphunzira mozama za munthu uyu. Chokondweretsa kwambiri ndi chakuti izi sizikutanthauza chitsanzo chokha chokha chomwe chingaperekedwe, kufotokoza zomwe ziri zosasamala kapena zosasamala. Mwachitsanzo, mumayendayenda pakiyi, osati pafupi ndi inu nthambi yomwe inagwedezeka - mumangotembenuzira mutu wanu kumbuyo kwa phokoso lomwe lawonekera.
Akatswiri amakhulupirira kuti chidwi choterechi chachitika mu chisinthiko ndipo cholinga chake chachikulu ndicho kusamalira moyo wanu pa nthaka yodzaza ndi zoopsa.
Kusiyana ndi chidwi chodziimira mosasamala kumasiyana ndi chosamveka?
Kusiyana koyamba ndi chimodzi mwa zofunikira kwambiri ndi maonekedwe a chikhalidwe choyang'ana. Mosamala mwadala, simukusowa kudzikakamiza kuti muchite chinachake. Kotero, timakondwera kutaya malingaliro athu tikamawerenga bukhu lokonda kwambiri kapena timaganizira kwambiri za kuyang'ana filimu yosangalatsa kwambiri.
Pomwe tikuyenera kukhala pansi chifukwa cha ntchito yosavomerezeka, timadziwa kuti sitikufuna kuchita izi, koma tikuzindikira momwe ntchitoyi ikufunira. Njira yachiwiri ndi yomwe imatchedwa chidwi.
Kodi n'chiyani chimayambitsa chidwi chenicheni?
Choyamba, tiyenera kukumbukira kuti chitukuko chachikulu cha mtundu umenewu ndi zinthu zatsopano ndi zinthu. Kodi ndi zotani zomwe sizinayambitse. Kuonjezera apo, mitundu yowonjezera yowonjezera chidwi, makamaka yokhudzana ndi zaka zapitazo, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti zikhale zovuta kwa munthu kwa nthawi yaitali.
Chokondweretsa kwambiri ndi chakuti, malingana ndi chikhalidwe chathu, chiwonetsero chomwecho chimakhudza anthu m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Cholinga cha chidwi chokhazikika mwachangu chimakhala chinthu chomwe chimakhudzana ndi kukhutira kapena kusakhutira zosowa zathu. Zomalizazi zikhonza kuphatikizapo zinthu (kugula kulikonse), organic (chilakolako chodya, kutentha), auzimu (kufuna kukonda munthu wokondedwa wanu, kumvetsetsa nokha "I").