Tsiku ndi tsiku timachita zinthu ndi kupanga zosankha, pang'onopang'ono timapanga miyoyo yathu. Ndipo nthawi zina timanyamulidwa ndi mfundo zomwe timakonda kuiwala kuti chilichonse chomwe chimatizungulira ndicho chifukwa cha kusankha ndi ntchito zathu. Kotero, chirichonse chomwe chikukuzungulira, chimakondweretsa kapena ayi, mukhoza kusintha. Kodi n'zotheka kusintha moyo? Inde, inde!
Kodi mungasinthe motani moyo wanu?
Ngati mumvetsetsa kuti simukupezeka, ngati simukukhutira ndi zambiri zomwe mumawona kuzungulira iwe, ndizisonyezo kuti nthawi yafika posintha. Ngati mukufuna kusintha zinthu zonse zodabwitsa, mosamala kuti mudziwe zomwe kusinthaku kuyenera kukhala:
- Ndi mbali ziti za moyo zomwe ziyenera kusintha?
- Kodi ziyenera kukhala ndi chiyani?
- Kodi ndizochitika kapena mumazizindikira motani?
- Kodi mwachitapo chiyani kuti musinthe chilichonse?
- Kodi mungatani?
Chofunika kwambiri - musawope kusintha. Nthawi zonse zimakhala zovuta, koma nthawi zina njirayi ingakuthandizeni kukhala osangalala . Chotsani zomwe sizikukondweretsa inu, ndi kuwonjezera pa moyo wanu zomwe zingakupangitseni chimwemwe, kaya mukusamukira kumzinda wina, kusiya ubwenzi wovuta kapena kusintha ntchito.
Mmene mungasinthire malingaliro a moyo?
Komabe, nthawi zonse makasitomala samafunika nthawi zonse. Nthawi zina mukhoza kusintha moyo wanu mwa kusintha maganizo anu ndi maganizo anu .
Munthu samakumbukira mkhalidwewo wokha, koma maganizo ake. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, pokhala nawo phwando lalikulu mukumva chisoni, mudzakumbukira zokha zomwe munamva nazo. Anthu ambiri, osadzizindikiritsa okha, amatha kukhalira nthawi yayitali - mudziko losasangalatsa, losasangalatsa.
Ngati mumakonda kuganiza za moyo, onani kuti ndi zoipa, osati zabwino, zidzakhala zovuta kwa inu, chifukwa muyenera kusintha maganizo anu mozama. Yambani ndi zosavuta izi:
- Chirichonse chomwe chimachitika, tipezani mu zochitika zitatu zosangalatsa.
- Kudzudzula nokha ndi ena, ingolandira chirichonse ngati chenicheni.
- Tsatirani malingaliro anu olakwika ndi kuwatsitsimutsa ndi zabwino. Mwachitsanzo, mmalo mwa "mvula iyi yopusa" ingoyamba kuganiza "O, mvula, padzakhala bowa zambiri chaka chino."
Chinthu chachikulu ndicho chikhumbo chanu. Ngati mumadziyang'anira nokha, mukhoza kuona kuti moyo wanu uli ndi nthawi zabwino zambiri. Ayenera kukhala odzipereka mwadala, ndipo mwamsanga mudzapeza kuti moyo ndi wokongola komanso wodabwitsa.