Kodi mukudziwa momwe mungapangire mwana wanu wosasangalala? Njira yotsimikizirika sikuti mumukankhule iye chirichonse. Inde, njirayi ndi yosavuta, ndipo makolo ambiri amasankha izo, kuchotsa zifukwa zomwe pamapeto pake zonse zidzadutsa. Komabe, mwanayo mwamsanga amazoloŵera "zabwino" ndipo pakapita nthawi zikhumbo zake zimakula. Ambiri mwa iwo mungathe kukwanitsa, koma padzabwera nthawi yomwe muyenera kunena ayi ndipo kenaka chinachake chidzayamba chiwonongeko chomwe chimatchedwa chilolezo. Mwamwayi, mkhalidwe uno, nthawi zambiri si ana omwe ali ndi mlandu, koma makolo awo. Kotero kodi ufulu ndi chilolezo ndi chiyani?
Kusasunthika kumabweretsa chilolezo
Masiku ano zokhudzana ndi chilolezo m'moyo wathu ndi zokwanira. Monga lamulo, anthu omwe amazoloŵera "moyo waufulu" wotero amadziyesa okha "milungu" ndipo amakhulupirira kuti sayenera kulangidwa, chifukwa akuyenera kuti ndi afulu. Pali zifukwa zikuluzikulu ziwiri zomwe zimachititsa anthu kuchita motere:
- Kupanda nzeru.
- Chidziwitso chodzidzimutsa.
Nthawi zina ufulu umatanthauzidwa ngati kuloledwa, koma kwenikweni sizolondola. Ngati mukuganiza dziwe, ufulu uli pamwamba pake, koma kuvomereza ndiko pansi. Iwo ali kutali kwambiri moti sangathe kuyerekezera. Chilolezo chimabweretsa chisokonezo ndi masamba okhaokha chiwonongeko, chomwe nthawi zambiri sichikhoza kukhazikitsidwa. Kodi tikambirane funso ili: "Kodi chilolezo chikhoza kutsogolera chiyani?"
Mu moyo wa munthu aliyense amabwera nthawi yomwe amafunika kudziŵa yekha malire ake. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kukhazikitsa malamulo anu ndikukhala nawo popanda kuzindikira malamulo omwe alipo. M'malomwake, nkofunikira kukhazikitsa malamulo omwe angakhale abwino kwa inu, koma kwa anthu onse. Ndiyeno chikumbumtima chanu chidzakhala chizindikiro cha kuona mtima ndi kuwona mtima.