Lingaliro la kulakwa silikupumula. Ndikufuna kubwerera kumbuyo, ndikukonzekera zochita zolakwika ndikusangalala ndi moyo wanga wonse. Tsoka, izi sizingatheke, makina a nthawi sanakhazikitsidwe. Tiyenera kukhala pano ndi tsopano, tisamalire mphindi iliyonse ya kukhala kwathu ndikupeza mphamvu kuti tidzikhululukire tokha chifukwa cha zolakwa zathu.
Mitima yamakutu
Samoothestvo kapena kudzipezera yekha ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zomwe amakonda kwambiri anthu. Kudzidandaula, kukwaniritsa chifundo kwa ena ndi chiyembekezo chabwino. Kotero psyche ikukonzekera kufunafuna zifukwa, mobwerezabwereza kubwerera kumbuyo. Anthu omwe sangathe kudziyanjanitsa ndi kudzikhululukira okha "zolakwa zawo" poyesa "peresnjat" chiwembu cha miyoyo yawo, ndikuganiza mwakuthupi kuti asankhe zochita zatsopano ndi zatsopano zomwe zingatheke. Koma tiyenera kukumbukira kuti zakale zapitazo. Ngati simungathe kukonza chilichonse, ndibwino kuganizira za zotsatira zake ndikuyesera kuwatsitsa, m'malo momadziwononga nokha.
Zinthu zambiri pamoyo sizidalira ife. Simudziwa kumene mumapunthwa ndi kugwa. Simungathe kupanga udzu kulikonse. Simungathe kulamulira nthawi zonse. "Sizinali zofunikira kupita kumeneko ndikupita mochuluka, ndiye sakanandibamba ...". Palibe zopanda pake kukangana motere. Rob akhoza komanso pakati pa tsikulo, ndipo pamalo ambiri, paliponse pomwe gulu la gangster lidzatero. Ndipo ngati ziri choncho, n'chifukwa chiyani timadziimba mlandu pazinthu zoterezi, pazifukwa ziti?
Kodi kuchotsa samoyedstva?
Kudziona kuti ndi wolakwa kumalepheretsa munthuyo "kuchira". Poganizira zochitika zomwe zachitika kale, iye samalipira kufunika koyenera kuti tiyenera kukhala ndi moyo.
Ndikofunika kulepheretsa kudzikonda, chifukwa ngati simunayese kudziwononga nokha ndi thanzi lanu. Tsatirani ndondomeko zotsatirazi:
- chonde landirani zochitika. Kuyanjanitsa ndi zomwe zachitika kale ndi chinthu choyamba muyenera kuchita;
- yesani kupeza "pluses". Nthawi zabwino zingachotsedwe pazochitika zilizonse, ichi ndi mbali ina ya psyche yathu;
- kuvomereza kuti iye ndi wosalakwa. Mu mkhalidwe wofanana, monga kubera kapena, Mulungu sangalekerere, kugwiriridwa ndi kugonana kwanu sikulipo. Izo ziyenera kuzindikiridwa ndi kusiya kumverera kuti ndizoyankhira pa zomwe zinachitika;
- kupeza zolimbikitsa pamoyo wamtsogolo. Dzilimbikitseni nokha ndi cholinga, maloto anu. Pali nthawi zambiri zokondweretsa komanso zosangalatsa m'moyo, chifukwa choyenera kukhala ndi moyo. Pezani mphamvu kuti muthane ndi vutoli, yambani kuchoka ku cholakwika ndikupitiliza ndi mutu wake wokhazikika.