Kawirikawiri m'miyoyo yathu pali zochitika pamene winawake atipatsa ife zatsopano, mosayembekezereka, koma izi zikuwoneka ngati njira yowonjezera ya funso lina, kenako tidadabwa kwa nthawi yaitali: "Inde! Ndikanakhala bwanji sindinaganizirepo izi kale? "Ndipo chifukwa chake chiri chosavuta - chimabisika pamaso pa munthu aliyense wosalingalira. Winawake ali nacho icho mwachibadwa. Ndipo iwo omwe amanyansidwa kwambiri angapezeke.
Kukula kwa maganizo osagwirizana ndi nkhani ya chikhumbo chanu ndi nthawi. Chifukwa cha ichi, asayansi, ochita kafukufuku ndi okonda chabe amapanga ntchito zosiyanasiyana-mikanda, zigawenga ndi mayesero. Makhalidwe awo ali opangidwa mwachindunji m'njira yoti mukhale ndi chitsanzo china mumutu mwanu. Ndipo kuti mupeze yankho lolondola - muyenera kusiya izo. Monga lamulo, mayesero a maganizo omwe si olingalira amatha kupititsidwa mosavuta ndi ana - sadakwaniritsidwe ndi zikhalidwe zambiri za anthu komanso kuganiza molakwika.
Anthu ambiri ali ndi msinkhu wokalamba samvetsetsa chitukuko cha luso loganiza. Tili otsimikiza kuti ndi kulingalira kwathu zonse ziri mu dongosolo ndi chirichonse chomwe tikhoza kukhazikitsa ndi kudzipanga mwa ife tokha anadziwika ngati mwana. Ngakhale kulingalira ndizofunikira kwambiri zomwe timagwiritsa ntchito m'moyo wamakono. Kusukulu, timakhala tikuphunzitsidwa kumvera, kuthekera kuvomereza maganizo a munthu wina popanda kung'ung'udza, monga choonadi chokha chokhazikika, monga momwe malingaliro athu atsekedwa ndi malingaliro ena.
Anthu omwe alibe malingaliro ozoloŵera amakhala ndi malingaliro olemera, maluso osamveka odabwitsa, osati kokha katswiri wanzeru.
Mmene mungakhalire malingaliro osagwirizana?
Ophunzitsidwa kuti akule payekha pamaphunziro awo amalimbikitsa kulabadira chitukuko cha kulingalira kosagwirizana, tk. panopa ndi imodzi mwa zinthu zamtengo wapatali za munthu aliyense. Amapereka malangizo amenewa:
- Gwiritsani ntchito mfundo ya "chidziwitso chatsopano." Phunzirani kusiya zomwe mumadziwa panopo, yang'anani mkhalidwewo, popanda zozizwitsa komanso malingaliro. Amaphunziro ambiri ndi asayansi, ngakhale kuti akudalira nzeru zawo, ali okonzeka kuziyika pa kutsimikizira ndi kukayikira, ngati deta yatsopano sichigwirizana nayo.
- Kupeza zochitika mwachindunji. Kumbukirani kuti ngakhale kukhala pamodzi ndi akatswiri mumakhalabe mbuye wa zochitika zanu. Musaope kufunsa mafunso ndi kufotokoza maganizo anu. Ngati muli ndi zambiri zomwe mumakhala nazo, mumakhala ndi maunyolo ochuluka kwambiri mukamapanga zisankho.
- Kugwiritsa ntchito "malingaliro a walumba." Idzakuthandizani kwambiri kuti muwone zomwe zikuchitika pozungulira, ndipo pakapita nthawi, chidziwitso chanu chidzamamatira ku nthawi zosiyana siyana za moyo, kuyesera pazochitika zatsopano ndi zachilendo. Konzani malingaliro onse omwe amabwera mu malingaliro anu, ndiye iwo adzakula mu malingaliro anu opanda chidziwitso, mosasamala kanthu kuti inu mukuganiza za iwo kapena ayi.
- Yesani kuganiza mochepa "kuchokera kwa inu nokha" ndi zina kuti mufotokoze zochitika zilizonse. Samalani mwatsatanetsatane, koma musataye chithunzi chachikulu. Ndikugwirizana kwa mfundo zonse palimodzi zomwe zidzakuthandizani kuti mukhale osamvetsetseka ndipo ndikupatseni mpata wokhala "umodzi" wa aliyense wa iwo.
Kuti mudziwe ngati malingaliro anu apangidwa, pulasitiki ndi kusintha, mukhoza kupambana mayeso osaganizira. Mfundo ya mayesero amenewa, monga lamulo, ndiyo kuika "kugona" ntchito ya kumanzere kwa ubongo wanu, omwe ali ndi udindo woganiza, ndikufunsa mafunso osayembekezeka. Mudzafulumira kuchitapo kanthu mwamsanga, ndipo momwe mungayankhire yankho lanu komanso momwe mungayesere malingaliro anu zidalira. Pamalo omwewo, ziŵerengero zimaperekedwa mobwerezabwereza momwe maganizo a anthu ambiri amasonyezera.
Chiyeso cha zosaganizira-zitsanzo
Pali mafunso ambiri kuti muwone momwe mukuganizira. Tinapereka zitsanzo za ena mwa iwo:
1. Muyenera kuyankha mofulumira, osaganiza.
- Pepala ili ndi mtundu wanji?
- White.
- Kodi chovala cha chimbudzi ndi mtundu wanji?
- White.
- Chipale chofewa ndi chiani?
- White.
- Ng'ombe imamwa chiyani?
- Mkaka.
Ntchito ina yotere:
- Kodi ndi ziwiri ziti muzitali?
- Zinayi.
- Ndipo ndi zitatu ziti m'kati?
- Nine.
- Ndipo kodi malo ake ali pati?
Zilibechabechabe, - kawirikawiri mawu a interlocutor, ubongo umene wayamba kale kusangalala ndi chidziwitso cha arithmetical mu kukumbukira, kuwatchingira iwo kuti asamveke ndi mfundo zina.
Ndipotu, mbali ya bokosi - ndi yopanda pake. Koma ife tikukamba za china chake - chiwerengero chojambula. Pangodya pamtunda ndi madigiri makumi asanu ndi anayi.
3. Nzeru imatenga pepala ndikulemba: "Nkhuku, Pushkin, Tolstoy, Apple Tree, Mphuno," ndikufunsa mafunso otsatirawa:
- Nkhuku?
- Wolemba ndakatulo wa ku Russia?
- Wolemba Chirasha?
- Mtengo wa Zipatso?
- Chigawo cha nkhope?
Pomwe mutalandira mayankho, mumapepala pepala, ndipo 99 peresenti mayankho amatsimikiziridwa (ndithudi, ngati munthu sanapezeko nyambo iyi).
Mmodzi mwa olemba otchuka kwambiri ndi okamba nkhani pagulu pazochitika zonse ndi Paul Sloan. Amalemba mabuku ndikupanga masemina pa mutu wa chidziwitso, zatsopano komanso chitukuko chosiyanasiyana.