Njira zamalankhulidwe

Tsiku lirilonse timagwirizana ndi anthu ammudzi mwa njira zonse zolankhulirana komanso zosalankhula.

Njira yamalankhulidwe yolankhulana ikuphatikizapo kulankhula, monga gwero la chidziwitso, kuyankhulana ndi mawu, kusinthana kwadzidzidzi, monga njira yogonjetsera wogwirizanitsa. Zomwe zimakhala zosiyana kwambiri ndi njira za kulankhulirana kuchokera ku mawu osagwiritsa ntchito mawu zimatanthawuza kuti mtundu woyamba umatulutsidwa ndi kulankhula, komanso osagwiritsa ntchito mawu poyerekeza ndi njira zina zowonetsera maganizo a munthu.

Asayansi ena amakhulupirira kuti mawuwo ndi ofanana ndi osalankhula . Amatsutsa kuti maganizo a munthu pa chinthu chinachake amawonetseredwa kudzera m'maonekedwe a munthu, manja, nkhope.

Koma izi zikhoza kukangana. Chifukwa chakuti mawu opanda mawu amatha kugwiritsidwa ntchito poyankhulana komanso kuwonetsa maganizo, koma osati mu bizinesi, kumene mbali yofunika si yomwe bwana wanu adanena, koma mbali yeniyeni ya zomwe zanenedwa.

Kuyankhulana kwamalonda

Pachifukwa ichi, lingaliro la mawu omveka amalankhulidwe a bizinesi limayamba kugwira ntchito, zomwe zikutanthawuza mau ena angapo omwe angakhale othandiza kwambiri mu lingaliro la mtsogoleri-wogonjera komanso mosiyana.

Kuyankhulana kwa bizinesi, nthawi zambiri, ntchito yomvetsera (40%) imachitika, ndi yochepa poyankhula (pang'ono kuposa 35%), kufotokozedwa (9%), kuwerenga (16%).

Kuchokera pa izi, ziyenera kukumbukira kuti anthu samadziwa momwe angamvere, ndipo izi, zimakhudzanso kuyankhulana m'moyo wamalonda. Choncho, zofunikira pakufotokozera matanthauzo a mawu, kuphatikizapo kulankhulana kwa bizinesi, ndi malamulo ofunika kwambiri: zolankhula ziyenera kukhala zomveka, zofunikira, komanso zofunika kwambiri, zomveka.

Malamulowa ndi ovuta kutsatira, chifukwa si anthu onse omwe amatha kupanga chinthu chofunikira chomwe akusowa, malingaliro ambiri amatha, ndipo palibe njira yeniyeni yoganizira. Izi zimakhala vuto lapadera pamene munthu wina alankhula mosamvetsetseka, winayo amasokonezedwa kapena akumvetsera mosamalitsa. Zikatero, mungadabwe ndi momwe anthu amatha kumvetsetsana.

Njira zowankhulirana

Iwo sayenera kuonedwa ngati osatheka, osatheka kuwonetsa. Ayi, mmalo mwake, ndi pang'ono chabe kuti muphunzire, kotero kuti kulankhulana kwanu kwa mawu kunali kolondola. Timapereka njira zoyenera zoyankhulana, mau ndi ntchito zomwe zidzakuthandizani kuphunzira momwe mungalankhulire bwino:

  1. Kumbukirani kuti muyenera kulankhula momveka bwino malingaliro, ndi lingaliro lodziwika lokha, ndiye kuti mudzamvetsetsa bwino. Choyamba ganizirani za momwe zidzamvekere, ndiyeno nenani.
  2. Muyenera kumvetsera, osati kumangomvetsera, koma kumvetsetsa mwachidziwitso chidziwitso chonse chomwe chikubwera kwa inu. Ndikofunika kumva interlocutor osadodometsedwa ndi ake. Untha weniweni ukhoza kuonedwa kuti ndiwe wokhoza kubwereza kumveka kuchokera kwa interlocutor. Kodi padzakhala vuto lotere kuti adzatha kubwereza mawu?
  3. Tiyenera kudziwa kuti luso lokumva ndilolumikizana mwachindunji kumvetsetsa zomwe zanenedwa. Chifukwa, ngati munthu akunena kuti akusokoneza, mukuchita ntchito yamtundu wanzeru kuti mubweretse nkhani yonse kumapeto kwake, ndikuyika maganizo ake molingana, ndikuthandizira munthu wachikulire. Kumva ndikofunikira!
  4. Kumbukirani mukakhala mwana wolakwira "Lankhulani pa ine, mutembenuzire nokha"? Ndizokongola, ndithudi, koma zikhoza kusinthidwa kuti ziyankhulane. Popeza muyenera kuphunzira kutanthauzira malingaliro a woyimilira momwe mukufunira. Mofananamo, kuyang'ana zinthu zabwino m'mawu a wokamba nkhani ndi zolinga zabwino. Ndiye, kuyankhulana kwanu kudzakhala kosangalatsa kumbali zonse ziwiri.