Tikamamva mawu akuti "kulankhulana mawu" m'magulu a mawu amayamba kuyendayenda, kutanthauzira kwa lingaliro: "mawu" - mawu, mawu, kulankhula. Chifukwa chake, m'chinenero choyankhulidwa, kuyankhulana mawu ndikutumizira uthenga uliwonse mwa kulankhula.
Ponena za kulankhulana kwa mawu, makalata amathandizanso, popeza kalata ili ndi mawu omwewo, mawu, malemba.
Kukambirana kwachinsinsi ndi mawu olembedwa ndi mitundu yoyankhulana. Komanso, mawu olankhula akhoza kuimiridwa ndi katswiri - nkhani ya munthu mmodzi yekha, ndi kukambirana - kusinthana kwachinthu pakati pa oyankhulana. Mawu onsewa ali kunja.
Zomwe zili mkati ndizo zomwe zimatayika m'mutu mwathu, ena akhoza kukhala ndi zokambirana, kapena ngakhale masewero. Mofananamo ndi mitundu yoyankhulana mawu, dactyl ndi njira yapadera yolankhulana ndi kuthandizidwa ndi dongosolo lapadera la manja lochitidwa ndi manja.
Chofunika kwambiri pa kuyankhulana mawu ndi kusiyana kwake ndi kulankhulana kosagwirizana ndi mawu kumakhala molondola ndi kufanana kwa chidziwitso chofalitsidwa mothandizidwa ndi mawu. Zojambula ndi nkhope, ndithudi, zimakhala zowala komanso zogwira mtima, koma zimakhala zochepa kwambiri kumanga zomveka. Ndipo poyesa kupeza othandizira padera kuchokera kwa wina ndi mzake, kulankhulana kwa mawu okha kungapangitse "mlatho" pakati pawo.
Njira zolankhulana
Nanga nchiyani chomwe chimayesedwa ndi njira zowankhulirana? Kwenikweni, kumene kuyankhulana kumeneku kumachitika. Zolankhula zonse zolembedwa ndi zamlomo zimatchulidwa ngati zizolowezi zamakhalidwe. Ndizo machitidwewa omwe amagwiritsa ntchito njira yolankhulirana.
Mwamwayi tikhoza kusinthanitsa uthenga ndi anthu athu, omwe timadziwana nawo, mabwenzi athu, omwe ali malo athu komanso nthawi yathu. Koma mothandizidwa ndi chilankhulo cholembedwa, n'zosatheka kuzindikira kulankhulana patali, koma kuti mudziwe bwino cholowa chonse cha mibadwo yambiri, nyengo zonse, mbiri, zochitika zakale pamene kulipo kwa anthu: kuchokera ku miyala yamakono kupita ku nkhani zatsopano za nyuzipepala.
Malamulo olankhulana mawu
Lamulo ndilofunika kuti mverani kukwaniritsira cholinga chomwe mwafuna, mwinamwake, chidzalephera, kukhumudwa komanso kusowa kwa zotsatira.
Kulankhulana kwachinsinsi kumafunikanso kutsatira malamulo ena:
- Kulankhula kwa wokamba nkhani kwa womvera kumasonyeza kukhalapo kwa ulemu woyamba ndi mtima wabwino kwa omaliza.
- Kupewa kuikidwa kwa malo a munthu, malingaliro pa nkhani iliyonse, kudziyesa kwa munthu, mkhalidwe. Kapena kulankhulana mosamala "zazing'ono."
- Pitirizani kukhala osasunthika pa zokambirana, pozindikira mfundo yomwe ili pamalo ake.
- Kusankhidwa kwa machitidwe oyendetsera malingana ndi kuyanjana kwa mnzanu mukulumikizana ndi mtundu wina, chikhalidwe, chikhalidwe cha anthu.
- Kuwongolera ndondomeko ya malingaliro, kusokoneza kwa interlocutor popanda chifukwa chomveka, adzakhala wokamba nkhani ngati munthu wokhala ndi chikhalidwe chochepa.
Kodi mungatani kuti muzilankhulana momasuka?
Aliyense amene amakonda njira iliyonse yolankhulana anafunsa funso lomwelo. Ndipo poti palibe wina ali ndi chirichonse chomwe chiri changwiro, amapanga zolakwitsa mu chimodzi mwa zinthu zoyankhulana. Zokongola ngati zikuwoneka, sizingakhale zovuta kuti mukhale interlocutor wokondedwa komanso wokondedwa.
Zokwanira kuti muyambe kukambirana mfundo izi:
- Ngakhale kuti nthawi ili yovuta kwambiri, musamangokhalira kudandaula kuti muthe kumvetsera mnzanuyo. Ngati muli ndi mphamvu yomvetsera - zotsatira zake zidzabwerera kwa inu makumi khumi.
- Gwiritsani ntchito zovomerezeka mu chikhalidwe chachinsinsi cha kulankhulana kwa bizinesi, mwa kuyankhula kwina, kukhala olemekezeka, abwino. Mwachitsanzo: "Ngati ndakumvetsa bwino, mumaganiza kuti ..."
- Taganizirani udindo wa wokondedwayo poyankhulana pa nthawi ya mawu ake kwa iwo. Musathamangire kuganiza, chifukwa malingaliro opangidwa ndi inu angakhale olakwitsa ndipo amachotseratu mnzanuyo.
- Pakulankhulana, samalani maganizo a mnzanuyo, angafune thandizo kapena mosiyana.
- Gwiritsani ntchito manja ndi nkhope nkhope yoyenera komanso moyenera, chifukwa wina angawopsyeze vutoli, koma wina angakuganizireni kuti "simukukhala", postnovaty. Yang'anani zomwe interlocutor anachita.