Vuto lalikulu la kudzidzidzimutsa ndilolitali ndi lovuta lomwe aliyense sangathe kuchita, ena amatopa kale kumayambiriro kwa ulendo, ndipo kukula kwa umunthu wawo kumalepheretsedwa kapena kuthetsedwa kwathunthu.
Chofunika kwambiri cha kudzidziwa nokha ndi chitukuko chaumwini
Mu kuwerenga maganizo, kudzidzidzimutsa kwa munthu ndiko kuphunzira za umunthu ndi thupi lake. Zimayamba ndi nthawi yoberekera ndikukhala moyo wonse. Pali magawo awiri a kudzidziwa:
- Choyambirira - munthu amadziwa yekha kupyolera mwa anthu ena, kupanga chithunzithunzi cha iye mwini kwathunthu ku mawu a anthu ena;
- Kachiwiri - kusintha maganizo anu payekha chifukwa cha kufotokoza, pa nthawi imeneyi munthu sadalira malingaliro a anthu ena, koma amadzifotokozera yekha.
Potero, kudziwa kwa anthu ena ndi kudzidzimva kumagwirizana kwambiri. Mmodzi akhoza kukhala popanda wina, koma pakadali pano lingaliro la mwiniwake silidzatha. Cholinga cha kudzidziwitsa nokha sikuti kungodziwa nokha, koma komanso kupititsa patsogolo kwa munthu wina , sikungakhale kwanzeru kuti mudziwe zambiri ngati palibe zolinga zowonjezera.
Maziko a kudzidzidzidzira ndi kudziyang'ana yekha ndikutsatiridwa ndi kudziwonetsera. Komanso, podziwa nokha, pali kudziyerekezera nokha ndi chiyeso kapena anthu ena, ndikufotokozera makhalidwe anu. Pambuyo pake, pali kuzindikira kuti khalidwe lililonse liri ndi mbali zabwino komanso zoipa. Popeza ubwino wa khalidwe lomwe poyamba linkaoneka ngati loipa, ndondomeko yodzivomereza yekha imakhala yosavuta, yomwe imakhalanso nthawi yofunikira ya kudzidziwa.
Mabuku odzidziwa okha
Njira ina yodalirika yophunzirira zambiri za inu nokha ndi kufotokozera njira za chitukuko chowonjezereka ndi mabuku odzidziwitsa okha. Pali zambiri ndipo chaka chilichonse pali zambiri, pakati pawo pali zida zotsatirazi.
- "Njira ya Msilikali Wamtendere" ndi D. Millman.
- Carlos Castaneda, mabuku khumi ndi awiri, kuphatikizapo "Mitu ya Mphamvu", "Ulendo wa Ixtlan", "Silence Power" ndi ena.
- Zolemba za Erich Fromm, mwachitsanzo, "Kuthawa ku Ufulu", "Chikondi cha Chikondi".
- Friedrich Nietzsche "Munthu, munthu."
- Richard Bach "Hypnosis kwa Mary."
Kuwonjezera apo, kuwerenga mabuku ndi kufotokozera, pali zochitika zina za kudzidziwitsa, komabe, zimavomerezedwa muzosokoneza, ndipo maganizo a masiku ano sali ovuta kwa iwo. Zina mwazochitazi ndizo kusinkhasinkha, monga njira yothetsera mavuto pazovuta zilizonse, kuyesetseratu zovuta ndi njira zina zambiri zophunzitsira malingaliro anu.