Lingaliro la kulekerera limachokera ku mawu oleza mtima. Kulekerera ndiko kulemekeza ndi kulemekeza malingaliro a anthu ena, malingaliro ndi malingaliro awo, kuti azitenga mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya kudziwonetsera nokha ndi mawonetseredwe aumwini pawokha. Kulekerera kotereku sikuli kokha udindo wa munthu aliyense waulere, komanso zosowa zalamulo. Maganizo osalekerera ndi umboni wa kukhalapo kwa chikhalidwe cha demokarasi mmalo mwa anthu.
Zitsanzo za kulekerera zikhoza kupezeka mu Baibulo, chifukwa kulekerera mu chikhristu kumatengedwa kuti ndi chimodzi mwa zabwino zabwino. Kulekerera ndi anthu okondweretsa kwambiri komanso otukuka, makamaka ojambula ndi ojambula, ojambula. Mkhalidwe wolekerera ukhoza kuwonetsedwa ndi mawu monga "ndizosangalatsa kulankhula ndi munthu uyu", "oimira dziko lino nthawi zambiri amakhala abwino". Mawu ngati akuti "Ndimadana ndi munthu uyu", "Ndikukhumudwa ndi kukhalapo kwake", "Sindingakhale mchipinda chimodzi monga Myuda", ndi zina zotero, akhoza kuchitira umboni kuti alibe kulekerera.
Vuto la kulekerera ndiloti anthu osadziŵa amazoloŵera kuzilingalira pochita zonyenga, kuvomereza kapena kukondweretsa, kuvomereza pa chikhulupiriro cha zikhulupiliro za ena. Ndipotu, malingaliro amenewa ndi opanda pake, popeza kulekerera kwenikweni kumayang'ana dziko lapansi kudzera mwa munthu waulere.
Kupanga kulekerera
Ndikofunika kukhazikitsa mfundo zoyenera za dziko lokhalera dziko lapansi kuyambira ubwana, kotero njira yabwino kwambiri yothetsera khalidweli ndi kulera. Ndondomeko yotereyi iyenera kuyamba ndi kutanthauzira ufulu wamba ndi ufulu. Kuti tichite zimenezi, nkofunika kuti ndondomeko ya maphunziro a boma ikhale yopititsa patsogolo kumvetsetsa ndi kulekerera pakati pa chikhalidwe, chikhalidwe ndi zipembedzo, popeza njira yophunzitsira umunthu wolekerera ikugwirizana kwambiri ndi chitukuko cha kulekerera mu boma.
Maphunziro mwa mzimu wokhala ndi mtima wolekerera ayenera kuphunzitsa achinyamata maluso ena oganiza ndi zoyenera kuti apange chigamulo chokhazikitsidwa ndi chikhalidwe chonse. Mkhalidwe wolekerera sungalekerere kuphwanya malamulo ofunikira aumunthu ndi ufulu wovomerezeka waumunthu. Maphunziro ndiwopseza kwambiri pambali ya kusagwirizana pakati pa anthu.
Zinthu Zolekerera
Zochitika za khalidwe la munthu wolekerera:
- kulemekeza maganizo a wina;
- Kupirira kwa anthu omwe ali ndi malingaliro ena pa moyo;
- malingaliro oipa pa zotsutsana.
Kulekerera kungapangidwe mwa kusasamala mfundo zake, monga kulekerera ndi kulemekeza.
Kuleza mtima
- Kulekerera kwachikhalidwe. Kuwonetsedwa mu ubale wa munthu payekha kwa anthu oyandikana naye - okhala pakhomo, achibale, okwatirana.
- Kulekerera mwachizolowezi kotere. Amasonyezedwa mwachiyanjano ndi munthu ku mitundu yonse ya umunthu - gulu lina la anthu
iye, chikhalidwe cha anthu, mtundu. - Kulimbirana bwino kulankhulana. Amawonetsedwa poyerekeza ndi munthu kwa makasitomala kapena antchito awo, oimira ntchito yawo.
Kufunika kwa kulekerera sikungatheke, chifukwa ndichifukwa chake tikhoza kulemekeza ndi kumvetsetsa chikhalidwe cha mitundu ina. Ndi kulekerera komwe kumatithandiza kuti tilankhule ndi kuvomereza anthu omwe ali ofanana ndi otsutsana, osati kungokhala ndi malingaliro athu pazinthu, komanso kulola anthu ena ammudzi kukhala ndi maganizo awo.