Atsikana ambiri amafunsa funso limeneli. Ndipo amazunza zachiwerewere zamtundu uliwonse, kuyambira zaka 10. Kwa maora amaima pagalasi, akudziyesa mozama kuchokera kumbali zonse, ndikudzifunsa kuti anyamatawa amakonda kwambiri. Ndipo nthawi yomweyo, nthawi iliyonse m'moyo wanga ndinadzifunsa ndekha, bwanji osandikonda?
Nanga, kodi anyamata omwe ali ngati anyamata ndi ati?
Kodi mungayankhe bwanji molimba mtima funso ili ndi lakuti palibe amene angatchulepo miyezo iliyonse. Palibe njira yotsimikizirika yomwe iyenera kukwaniritsidwa, yomwe ingakondeke ndi onse, popanda kupatulapo, mamembala amuna. Kwa iwo, komanso kwa ife, kwa aliyense kukoma. Koma, ndithudi, pali malamulo ochepa ochepa omwe ayenera kutsatira, kuti anyamata, makamaka, asamachite manyazi kumbali zonse ziwiri.
Yang'anani nokha
Ndikofunika kuti msungwanayo adzikonzekere bwino. Sikoyenera kutsegula solarium ndi salon kawiri pa sabata, kupanga chokoleti wraps ndi kusisita ndi mafuta obiriwira. Ngati pali mwayi wotere - ndizodabwitsa! Ndipo ngati sichoncho? Musalole manja anu kukhala ndi misomali yokongoletsera mavitamini, pamutu pali mantha a tsitsi losasamba la mafuta, ndipo pamapazi anu pali bristle la masiku awiri. N'zosatheka kuti anyamata adzikonda.
Musagwiritse ntchito toneni ya maonekedwe
Atsikana ena omwe ali ndi mawu akuti "Anyamata amakonda zokongola komanso zosavuta kuzipeza!", Valani zojambula zotere kuti ndi nthawi yoti muzitcha utoto wa nkhondo. Kumbukirani, mapangidwe amapangidwa pofuna kutsimikizira ubwino ndi kubisa zovuta, osati mosiyana. Sizingatheke kuti mnyamata aliyense akufuna kukhala ndi mtsikana yemwe ali ngati chidole.
Anyamata amakonda modzichepetsa
Cholakwika china, komanso mfundo yakuti anyamata amakonda kwambiri. Mwa kudzichepetsa mwachilengedwe palibe cholakwika. Koma mtsikana akamafuna kukhala wodzichepetsa, amangokhala chete usiku wonse, amachititsa kuti aziona kuti ndi wopusa komanso wotchuka, kapena sangathe kulankhula naye. M'malo mwake, msungwana yemwe akungomenya mobwerezabwereza, kuyesa kutsimikizira kuti iye ndi wamtendere komanso kumasulidwa akuwoneka ngati wopusa komanso wosasamala. Kotero: anyamata amakonda zachirengedwe. Khalani nokha, musayesere kuchita zinthu zomwe simukuzidziwa.
Anyamata amakonda atsikana okongola.
Osati zoona. Pazifukwa zina, pafupifupi atsikana onse, amene magawo awo amapitirira 90-60-90, amadziona ngati osadyetsedwa bwino, ndipo amazunzidwa ndi funso: anyamata amakonda atsikana okhwima msinkhu? Inde, okonda anyamata achichepere amawonekedwe a atsikana ali ambiri, koma omwe amakonda okonda akazi, ndipo kawirikawiri amawoneka obiriwira, ndi aakulu kwambiri. Apa, kachiwiri, palibe kutsutsana pa zokonda. Koma ndizo chimodzimodzi zomwe samazikonda, choncho ndizosatetezeka komanso zokopa. Mutu wanu wapamwamba!
Yang'anani maonekedwe anu
Nthawi ino za zovala. Siziyenera kukhala zokhazokha, zokhazokha, zoyera komanso zoyera, koma zowoneka bwino. Palibe chofunikira kuvala m'magulitsidwe a ojambula otchuka, ngakhale kuti izi ndi zabwino kwambiri. Chowonadi ndi chakuti ambiri mwa anyamata sangayamikire kope latsopano la izi kapena Couturier, koma sadziwa ngakhale kuti ndi ndani pamene muliyankhula. Chinthu chachikulu mwa kukhoza kuvala, kuphatikiza mitundu ndi zofanana
Chinthu chofunika kwambiri: Musayambe kudzivutitsa ndi mafunso: "Kodi atsikana amakonda atsikana otani?", "Bwanji anyamata sakonda ine?" Ndipo "Kodi anyamatawa ali ngati mafuta (ochepa) atsikana?". Anyamata, ndithudi, ngati maso. Ndipo iwo sangathe kuthandizira kuzindikira kusasamala kwanu. "Ngati sakudzidalira yekha, ndiye kuti pali chinachake cholakwika ndi iye!" - akuganiza ambiri a iwo. Dzikondeni nokha! "Pamene umadzikonda wekha, ena amakukondani" - munamva choonadi chophweka kamodzi, koma ndiye choonadi chomwe chimachokera pakamwa. Musayese kukondweretsa anyamata onse - ndizosatheka. Chinthu chachikulu, pamene nthawi ikubwera, monga iyo. Kwa chinthu chilichonse ndi wogula!