Inde, masiku a golidi amatha, ndipo mwamuna wachikondi kwambiri amakhala wamba wamba. Koma mkaziyo akukonzekera kwambiri moti amafunikira kusamala tsiku lililonse, mphindi iliyonse. Chikhalidwe chake ndi chokayikira ndi nsanje. Mkazi amayamba kuda nkhawa kuti mwamuna wake wagwa chifukwa cha chikondi, adapeza wina, sakufuna kuti akhale naye. Mwamunayo, amakhulupirira kuti mkazi wake amafuna kwambiri: amafunika kugwira ntchito, sangathe kuvina tsiku lonse pamaso pake, ndipo ambiri, alibe maganizo.
Kodi mungasunge bwanji chidwi cha mwamuna wake?
Musanadzifunse nokha, komanso momwe mungayang'anire mwamuna wanu, ndibwino kudzifunsa nokha kuti musataye. Musapereke moyo wa banja kukwawa. Inde, ndithudi, mkazi amaphika chakudya, zovala zobvala zovala, anamwino ana, koma samayiwala kwa mphindi kuti nayenso ndi mkazi.
Mmodzi sayenera kulola mwamuna kuti ataya chidwi. Iye sayenera kudzuka m'mawa, ngati kuti adziwa zomwe adzawona ndikumva. Ngati wothandizira wakale akuyitana, musayankhe mozizira ndipo mwangokhala pomwepo, mutha kulankhula komanso kukopa. Ngati khalidwe la mwamunayo likukhumudwitsa, mungathe kuyankhulapo motere, mofatsa, ngati mkazi, koma momveka bwino.
Kodi mungayambenso bwanji chidwi?
Koma bwanji ngati mwamuna wataya kale chidwi? Njira yabwino yokhalira kumvetsera nthawi zonse, yosamvetsetseka, ndi yophweka - muyenera kukhala nokha. Izi zidzakhala zokwanira kuti iye sanamve kuti ali mwini wake 100%. Adzakhala ndi malingaliro akuti gawo lina la chikhalidwe chake sali la iye, koma munthu mwa chilengedwe ndi wofufuza ndi wogonjetsa.
Amayi ambiri atatha zaka zambiri akukwatirana amayamba kuganiza kuti mwamuna wasiya kugonana naye. Musaiwale kuti mwamuna amakonda maso ake. Muyenera kudziyang'ana nokha pagalasi. Tiyenera kukumbukira momwe ubale unayambira. Kenaka mkazi wamtsogolo adakali ndi maso, adakopeka ndi wosankhidwayo, adamupusitsa pang'ono, ankanyengerera, anasankha zovala zovala ndi zovala.
Zinthu zonse zobwereranso kumoyo wa banja sizichedwa mochedwa ndipo mwamuna ndi wokongola kwambiri, atsegula pakamwa pake, adzayang'ana mkazi wake, chifukwa amamukonda, ndi chidwi - bizinesi yopezeka.