N'zosadabwitsa kuti akunena kuti atsikana okoma pa tsiku loyamba samapsopsona. Ngakhale, ngakhale, kuyang'ana pa zolinga zomwe onse akutsatira. Ngati inu simukufuna kuchita kanthu ndi ubale wosagwirizana, ubwenzi, kugwedeza pa thanzi. Koma ngati mukuganiza zomanga ubale wautali ndikupanga mgwirizano wamphamvu - fufuzani momwe mungayambire bwino.
Siyani kupita kumbuyo - mupeza zomwe zilipo
Ngati mukulirabe chikondi chanu chaposachedwapa, muziyamikira kwambiri zomwe mumakonda, ganizirani za munthu amene kale munkakonda, komanso, mwina, kuyang'ana bwana watsopano ngati iye - palibe chomwe chidzabwere. Sikokwanira kungofuna "kupeza munthu", ndikofunika kukonzekera msonkhano uno.
Choyamba, "kumasula" zochitika zanu, dzimasulireni nokha ku ubale wolephera. Chotsani cholakwikacho, kuti musachipereke icho ku chatsopano, kumverera kobadwa kumene. Siyani kukumbukira zabwino zokha, nthawi zosangalatsa. Musasunge chakuipa ndi chakukhosi kwa munthu amene sanamvere zomwe mukuyembekezera. Ndimamuyamika chifukwa cha zofunikira zake.
Kukhala okonzekera msonkhano watsopano ndi kumverera ndi chinsinsi cha ubale wautali.
Yambani kusangalala ndi moyo kachiwiri. Yesetsani nokha, kudzidalira. Sinthani kunja, fufuzani zokondweretsa zokondweretsa, chitani m'nyumba (mu chipinda chanu) kukonzanso kapena kukonzanso kayendedwe ka mipando.
Ndondomeko zotsalira ndi zitsanzo za momwe munthu wanu watsopano ayenera kukhalira. Ngati pali msonkhano wautali wodikirira, musiyeni atsegule. Yesetsani kuona, choyamba, makhalidwe ake ndi mbali zake, ndipo osapangidwira, palibe zomwe zilipo.
Chikole cha ubale wautali chimakhala ndi chidaliro pakati pa okondedwa, chikhumbo chosamalirana wina ndi mzake ndi kuyesetsa kusunga mgwirizano. Khalani nokha, musamawerenge "maudindo a anthu ena" ndipo musamange moyo wanu pazochitika zina, wina kachiwiri. Mudzakhala ndi "chithunzi" chanu cha chikondi chanu.
Gawo la zofuna ndi mapulani a tsogolo ndi chinthu china chofunikira cha momwe mungapangire ubale wautali ndi wokondwa. Fufuzani munthu pafupi ndi inu mumzimu, ndipo simudzakhumudwa.