Aliyense wa ife kamodzi m'moyo wanga anamva njira iyi yamatsenga "amuna amakonda maso." Monga lamulo, limodzi ndi kuzindikira kwa mfundo iyi, zifukwa zambiri za kuganiza zimagwera pa mkazi.
Zimakhala zokondweretsa munthu wokondweretsedwa, sikokwanira kukhala wophunzira, kuwerenga bwino, kapena kuseketsa bwino. N'zotheka kuti zinthu sizingathandizidwe ndi kulera, makhalidwe abwino kapena kuthandizira kukambirana kulikonse. Amuna ngati maso, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti choyambirira ndicho kukhala wokonzeka bwino, wonyezimira komanso wodekha. Kawirikawiri - kukhala ndi zokondweretsa, kuyang'ana. Ndipo akazi amayamba kuyendayenda malo okongola ndi malo ochiritsira, kupita kumayendedwe amitundu yonse, kuyang'ana mafashoni ndi machitidwe atsopano, ndipo tsiku ndi tsiku amadzuka maola awiri kapena atatu asananyamuke kunyumba kukaonekera kuntchito "panthawiyi."
Ku mbali imodzi, zonsezi zimawoneka zopanda chilungamo - mkazi, mwachitsanzo, amapereka chidwi chochepa pa maonekedwe a munthu. Komanso, ngati munthu samva ngati bedi la maluwa, ndipo amawoneka ngati munthu wokongola kuchokera m'magazini, akhoza kusewera m'manja mwake.
Mkazi yemwe amayang'ana munthu woteroyo amadziwa kuti ali woyenera pa moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku: amatha kumangirira pansi pamsasa ndi kukonza chophimba, amadziwa komwe galimoto amatha kukonza mpanda pakhomo. Ndi munthu wotero mungathe kukhala mwamantha popanda mantha kuti ntchito yamagetsi imagwera pazigawo zazimayi zofooka.
Nchifukwa chiyani amuna amakonda maso?
Ndi anthu, chirichonse chimakhala chosiyana. Ndikofunika kwa iye kuti chinthu cha chikondi chake chikhale chinthu chododometsa ndi chokhumba. Ndipo osati iye yekha, komanso makamaka ena. Ndicho chifukwa chake mwamuna amakonda maso ake. Kwa munthu aliyense wogonana kwambiri, mkazi wokonzekera bwino pafupi ndi iye ndiye chizindikiro cha kupambana kwake ndi kusungulumwa.
Izi sizosadabwitsa. Ziri ngati phukusi labwino la maswiti okoma. Amuna ambiri ndi zithunzi, ndipo momwe amuna amachitira maso awo amathandiza mkazi kuti amusangalatse.
Komabe, zonsezi zili ndi tanthauzo la sayansi. Asayansi ku yunivesite ya California apanga kafukufuku kuti apeze chifukwa chake amuna amakonda maso. Ndipo zinapezeka kuti m'njira zambiri amatsutsidwa ndi machitidwe a mankhwala m'thupi. Poyang'ana wokongola, wokonzeka bwino
- testosterone (hormone ya chimwemwe). Iye ali ndi udindo wa thanzi labwino ndi thanzi, kumawonjezera mphamvu, pali mphamvu ndi mphamvu kuti agonjetse chilengedwe ndi kukubweretsani inu nyenyezi kuchokera kumwamba.
- cortisol. Hormone iyi imachepetsa dongosolo la mitsempha, limakhazikitsa mkhalidwe wamaganizo ndipo, ponseponse, ili ndi phindu pa dongosolo la manjenje.
Ganizirani, akazi okondedwa, kuti mutha kulenga ndi maonekedwe anu enieni!