Zikuwoneka kuti chikondi, makamaka chikondi cha anthu awiri, chiyenera kukhala chimodzimodzi kwa iwo. Komabe, chikondi cha amai ndi amuna chimasiyana kwambiri. Sizobisika kuti abambo ndi amai aganizire mosiyana, kuyang'ana dziko mosiyana ndi kusanthula zochitika. Umenewu ndizoona mwamuna wachikondi mosiyana ndi mkazi.
Ngati mkazi akukonda, adzakulitsa maganizo ake. Kwa iye, muyenera kungokhala pafupi ndi chikondi, kuchigwira, kumva kukhalapo kwake ndi kumusonyeza chikondi chanu ndi zosangalatsa zabwino. Chikondi chenicheni cha amuna chimadziwonetsera mwa njira yosiyana. Mwamuna sangathe kukuitanani kangapo patsiku kuti mufunire tsiku losangalatsa kapena usiku wabwino. Tiyeni tiwone m'mene chikondi cha amuna chimasonyezera komanso momwe chimaonekera.
Zizindikiro za chikondi chachimuna
Posiyanitsa lingaliro la "chikondi chachibadwidwe", ndi zomwe zingakhale, muyenera kudziwa kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa chikondi cha amuna ndi akazi. Chikondi chachimuna sichimangokhalira kukhumudwa komanso kusakwiya kosasinthasintha. Pali chomwe chimatchedwa kuti chitsulo chamunthu m'chikondi. Chikondi cha amuna chimakhala chosamveka komanso chosasinthasintha, chimayamba pang'onopang'ono ndipo chimakula ndi tsiku lililonse.
Chiwonetsero chachikulu cha chikondi cha amuna chimakhala chifukwa chakuti chiyanjano chanu chikukula mu siteji yatsopano. Kutaya nthawi ya chikondi choyamba ndi chilakolako choyaka moto, ndipo mwamunayo amamvetsa kuti mkazi wake pafupi ndi woyenera udindo wa bwenzi la moyo. Chikondi chenicheni chachimuna cha mkazi chimawonetsa panthawiyi ndipo chimakhala ndi zizindikiro zotsatirazi.
- Mwamuna amadzizindikiritsa yekha ndi mnzake, amagwiritsa ntchito "ife" mmalo mwa "Ine," amasamala za kukhala limodzi, zolinga zamtsogolo.
- Mwamuna amathera nthawi yambiri ndi mkazi kusiyana ndi mabwenzi ndi achibale ndi chizindikiro chakuti ali wokondweretsa komanso womasuka m'dera lake.
- Mwamunayo amayamba kuyambitsa chisangalalo chophatikizana - palimodzi, komanso mu moyo ndi tsiku ndi tsiku. Amenewa ndi othandizana kwambiri.
- Mwamuna amauza wosankhidwa wake kwa makolo ake ndi abwenzi ake, ngati kuti akumulowetsa m'moyo wake, mwayekha.
- Mwamuna akudalira mkazi nyumba yake / galimoto ndi chizindikiro cha chikhulupiliro chapamwamba kwambiri.
- Ngakhale kukangana kwakukulu (ngati kukathera pa chiyanjano) kungakhale chizindikiro cha chikondi chenicheni cha amuna, chifukwa mwanjira imeneyi mwamuna amamenyana ndi mkazi ndipo amasonyeza kuti amamuganizira.
- Mwamuna samangolankhula zokha zokhudzana ndi tsogolo, koma amasonyezanso zochita zina. Ichi ndi chizindikiro chofunika kwambiri komanso chomaliza cha mawonetseredwe a chikondi cha amuna.
Kulimbikitsa chikondi cha amuna
Kotero, iwe umatsimikiza kuti mwamuna amakukonda iwe ndipo akufuna kuti akhale ndi iwe. Komabe, kuti mumusangalatse komanso musamangodzimva bwino, ndi bwino kumvetsera malangizo ena.
- Khalani okondwa nthawizonse, pangani mapulani ogwirizana, musamangokhalira kukhumudwa ndi kukhumudwa, khalani "tchuthi chachikazi" kwa mwamuna yemwe nthawizonse amakhala wokondweretsedwa, wosangalatsa komanso wosasamala.
Ndiyeno adzafuna kuthera nthawi yambiri ndi inu. - Musamukakamize, sungani mtunda, musavutike, kulemekeza ufulu wa anthu ndi ufulu wawo. Mwamunayo ayenera kuti adziŵe zolondola, kuyesetsa kwanu kumuuza "yankho lolondola" kungayambitse zosiyana.
- Sungani nthano kwa munthu, yesetsani kumupangitsa iye kuti azidziwa za inu momwe zingathere, musamutsegulire kwathunthu, dzipatseni mpumulo kuchokera kwa mnzanuyo.
- Pitirizani kuchita zosangalatsa za munthu, ngakhale kuti simukuwakonda, kapena osawasamalira.
- Yesani kusangalatsa abwenzi ake ndi makolo, chifukwa malingaliro awo pa inu ndi ofunika kwambiri kwa mwamuna.