Chikondi ndi chiyanjano pakati pa okondedwa ali ndi magawo awo a chitukuko, chodziwika ndi makhalidwe ena.
Makhalidwe a chiyanjano cha chikondi
- Chiwonetsero . Gawo loyambirira la chiyanjano ndi lokha basi. Koma chikhalidwe chasamalira umunthu wa munthu kuti ukhale wojambula ndi zizindikiro zowala, ndiye nyengo iyi ndi yokongola kwambiri komanso yopanda mtambo. Iyi ndi siteji ya chibwenzi chokongola ndi kukondana kwa wina ndi mzake. Amagulu amayesa kuwoneka bwinoko, kupanga wina ndi mzake mochuluka momwe angathere, amaganiza kuti ali ndi chidziwitso changwiro. Panthawiyi, okondedwa amakonda kukondana wina ndi mzake ndi ubale weniweniwo, akukhulupirira kuti apeza chikondi cha moyo wonse. Koma patapita nthawi ikubwera nthawi yachiwiri
- Kusasamala . Ndi nthawi yabwino kuti maonekedwe ndi maonekedwe apitirire, mahomoni amaonetsetsa, ndipo pang'onopang'ono amasiya kusamala khalidwe lawo. Chotsatira chake, onse amayamba kuzindikira kuti akuponya masokosi ake kuzungulira nyumbayo, ndipo samakonzekera bwino. Ndipo miyezi ya dzulo ikudutsa pang'onopang'ono kuchokera pamimba.
- Nthawi yovuta kwambiri mu chiyanjano ndi sitepe yonyansa . Panthawiyi, zolephera zonse za theka lachiwiri zikuchepa kwambiri, zikuwoneka kuti ndizosavomerezeka. Mu ubale wachikondi, abambo ndi amai ali m'mavuto. Kusakhutitsidwa ndi kukwiya kumawonjezereka ndikusanduka mikangano ndi zovuta. Kawirikawiri ndi panthawi imeneyi kuti chibwenzi chimatha. Mwamwayi, gawo lachitatu sikubwera posachedwa, ndipo mabanja ambiri ali kale ndi nthawi yokwatira ndi kulera ana panthawiyi. Chinthu chosavuta pakali pano ndikutanthauzira khalidwe loipa la mnzanu kapena kuti chikondi chadutsa ndikupita kumalo atsopano omwe amapereka chiyero choyamba. Koma kwenikweni, m'magulu apitalo, chikondi sichinafike. Makhalidwe abwinowa amaonedwa kuti ndi otsika, mwa iwo mpaka pano zinthu zonse zimachitika palokha ndipo sizinkafunikire kuyesetsa. Anthu ambiri amakhala ndi maubwenzi awo okha m'munsimu. Malingana ndi chiwerengero, atatu okha pa awiri mwa khumi amatha kuchitapo kanthu pa siteji iyi. Ndi iwo omwe amapita ku sitepe yachinayi.
- Kuleza mtima . Kuyambira pa nthawiyi abwenzi amayamba kuyala maziko a chikondi. Ng'ombe sizitentha, sutikesi pamalopo siimaima. Banjali likuyang'ana momwe angasunge ubale, osati kuwononga. Pokhapokha pa gawo ili la chiyanjano, mabwenzi amayamba kukula.
- Udindo . Pogwiritsa ntchito Rubicon wawo, anzakewo pang'onopang'ono amasiya kuika maganizo awo paokha ndikuyamba kuganizira zomwe angapereke kwa theka lawo. Panthawi imeneyi, udindo ndi ulemu zimapangidwa. Pali nkhawa yokhudza mnzanuyo komanso mmene akumvera, kusakhudzidwa kuti amve kupweteka ndi kupangitsa mikangano. Aliyense amayamba kuzindikira ndikumvetsetsa maudindo awo ndikukhala ndi udindo wonse pa chitukuko cha ubale wachikondi.
- Ubwenzi . Panthawiyi, abwenziwo ndi osiyana kwambiri ndi wina ndi mzake, m'malo moyamba. Mwina, ndi nthawi yomwe onse ayamba kuyamikira mgwirizano wawo ndikuyamikila wokondedwa wawo, kunyada pazogonjetsa ndi kupambana kwawo. Panthawi imeneyi, kumvetsetsa, kukhulupilira, kumvetsetsa kwenikweni kwa abwenzi ndi ubwenzi wauzimu. Zigululo pa siteji iyi - chinthu chosavuta kwambiri. Kawirikawiri, banjali limathetsa mavuto pogwiritsa ntchito kukambirana.
- Chikondi . Ndipo, potsiriza, okha otsiriza, apamwamba kwambiri
gawo la maubwenzi ndi chikondi. Ndipo iwe ukhoza kupita kwa ilo kwa nthawi yaitali kwambiri.
Kutsiliza
Mabanja ena amatha kuyenda masitepe, koma patatha zaka zambiri magawo omwe sanadutse amadzimva okha. Zindikirani kuti anthu omwe amaleredwa m'mabanja abwino nthawi zambiri amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi mavuto m'mabanja achikondi. Ndipo mu mabanja achi Muslim, mwina sangakhaleko.
Mwamwayi, mabanja ambiri samapita ngakhale ku gawo lachinayi. Izi zikhoza kukhala chifukwa cha kulera kolakwika, banja losakwanira (pamene wokondedwa wina anakulira popanda kholo limodzi kapena onse awiri), mtima wokhala pakati pa anthu kuti athetse banja kapena kusasunthika mwauzimu kwa amzake. Koma, ngakhale zili choncho, ndi mphamvu zanu zokha zokha zokha.