Kugonana kosakayika, chizoloŵezi chogonana, kusowa mtima kwakukulu ndi mavuto a mabanja ambiri omwe akhala pamodzi kwa zaka zoposa khumi. Ndipo ndithudi, onse awiri ali ndi lingaliro la momwe angabwerere chilakolako cha ubale - pambuyo pake, zinali zokwanira kuyesera njira imodzi yosavuta, ndipo onse, monga mwa matsenga, adalandira zozizwitsa zosakumbukika.
M'nkhaniyi, tipempha "kupulumutsira ndondomeko" ya moyo wanu wa kugonana, mfundo yaikulu yomwe imadzutsa munthu, chifukwa pafupifupi 70% mwa kugonana bwinoko kumadalira zofuna za mnzanuyo.
Kodi mungabwezere bwanji chilakolako cha mwamuna wake?
Monga momwe kugonana ntchito yofunikira imasewera ndi kutsogolera, ndi kukonzekera kwa munthu kuti chiwonetsero cha chilakolako chikhale chokonzekera. Kaŵirikaŵiri chisangalalo sichingapezeke chifukwa mwamunayo anaiwala kuti pafupi ndi mkazi yemwe samaphika zokoma, amathandiza nyumbayo mosamala, amasamalira ana ndipo amanga ntchito yabwino, komanso ambuye waluso. Tidzawonjezera pa mfundo, momwe tingabwezerere chilakolako choyambirira ku chiyanjano ndikukumbutsa mwamuna za chikhalidwe chake chachikazi:
- Zomwe zimagwira ntchito. Yesetsani kukhumudwitsa mwamuna wanu tsiku ndi tsiku: kupwetekedwa pamutu, kumpsompsona khosi, kukumbani unobtrusively. Limbikitsani kuti mumupatse kupuma kosangalatsa. Chikondi chokhazikika cha thupi chidzasinthira ku "mafunde abwino".
- Maonekedwe okongola. Popanda izo - paliponse, mwamuna amakonda kukhala ndi mkazi wokongola mwabwino ndikuitana fungo. Gwiritsani ntchito cholinga ichi mafuta onunkhira omwe ali ndi musk kapena ylang-ylang.
- Konzani mbale zomwe zili ndi aphrodisiacs. Izi zimaphatikizapo kadoko, atitchoku ndi bowa. Pambuyo pa masiku angapo ndi mndandanda womwewo mudzawona momwe iwo amachezera kukopa kwa zigawozi.
Kodi mungabwezere bwanji chilakolako chake chogonana?
Pakatha sabata mutayambitsa chilakolako tsiku ndi tsiku, ndi nthawi yogwiritsira ntchito ndondomekoyi, momwe mungabwezerere chikhumbo cha mwamuna:
- Muzitsatira wokondedwa wanu nthawi zonse, koma musamalize kugonana;
- valani zovala zapamwamba zomwe zimakondweretsa mwamuna;
- kukonzekera chakudya chamakono ndikuchigwiritsa ntchito mozungulira.
Pambuyo pake, mwamunayo akhale wokonzeka, kotero tipite kumapeto: momwe tingabwezerere chilakolako cha kugonana.
Kodi mungagone bwanji ndi mwamuna wanu?
Malingana ndi khalidwe la wokondedwa, muyenera kusankha njira: yesetsani mwakhama, kapena nthiti zapakati kuti mumuitane kugonana.
Ndibwino kuti kusintha kusasunthike, kuyamba ndi kupaka minofu (Thai ndi yoyenera kuposa ena) kapena striptease (izi zimafuna kuti thupi liziyenda bwino), ndipo pang'onopang'ono musunthire pazomwe mukudziwana bwino.