Ubwenzi wabwino ndichinsinsi chogwirizana mu banja ndi chitukuko mu bizinesi. Ndipotu, moyo wathu wonse umakhala ndi kugwirizana ndi anthu osiyanasiyana. Muzochita zathu ndi zamalonda, timayesetsa kuthetsa mkangano, kuteteza maganizo athu, ndi kukwaniritsa chinachake. Ndipo ndi njira ziti zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pokambirana ndi ena, kupambana kumadalira. Chifukwa cha zifukwa zazikuluzikulu za ubale wabwino pamene mukulankhulana ndi achibale, anzanu kapena abwenzi, mungapewe mikangano yambiri, phunzirani kumvetsa ena ndi kupambana mmadera osiyanasiyana.
1. Ulemu. Kulemekeza ena sikutheka popanda kudzilemekeza nokha, koma zosiyana ndizoona - popanda kulemekeza ena sikutheka kudzidzimvera nokha. Kulemekeza ndi kumvetsetsa ndi kuzindikira kufunika kwa malingaliro, zokhumba ndi zofuna za inu nokha. Kufunika kozindikiridwa ndiko cholinga chachikulu cha pafupifupi zochitika zonse. Aliyense amene aphunzira kudzilemekeza yekha ndi ena, adziwe kufunika kwa otsutsa, pamene akudziwa kufunika kwake, adzatha kuika anthu pazochitika zilizonse. Luso lolemekeza monga lidzaloleza kuteteza maganizo ndi ziganizo zomwe sizikupangitsa kuti anthu asamagwirizane ndi anzawo.
2. Kuwona mtima. Ubale weniweni ndi wolimba sungamangidwe pazinama - izi zimadziwika kwa aliyense. Koma kudzipereka sikukutanthauza kuti aliyense ayenera kunena zoona nthawi zonse. Choyamba, nkofunikira kumvetsetsa kuti aliyense ali ndi choonadi chake. Chachiwiri, sikuli nthawi zonse komanso nthawi zonse kufotokoza momasuka maganizo anu kapena maganizo anu. Kukhala woona mtima ndi ena kapena ayi kumadalira pazinthu zambiri, koma nthawi zonse ndi kofunikira kuti mukhale woona mtima ndi inu nokha. Musamanama nokha, musayesere kukhala munthu wina - ichi ndi maziko a kudzipereka nokha ndi ena.
3. Kumvetsetsa. Thupi la munthu limakonzedwa kuti tikhoze kumva. Sitifunikira kuphunzira izi, kuyambira ubwana izi zakhala mbali yofunikira kwambiri. Koma ndi ochepa okha omwe amatha kumvetsera. Ndipo, monga tawonedwera ndi anthu opambana, luso ili ndi chimodzi mwa zigawo za zomwe achita. Ngati simukuyesera kumvetsera wopemphayo, simungamvetsetse bwino, choncho, kuyankhulana sikungapindulitse mbali iliyonse.
4. Kulamulira maganizo. Popanda kulola kuti maganizo asinthe zochita ndi zochita, zolakwitsa zambiri zingapewe. Nthawi zina zolakwitsa zotero zingayambe ntchito kapena ubale ndi okondedwa. Kulamulira maganizo n'kofunika osati kuti tisavulaze ena. Kawirikawiri mtima sungalole kuti muyese bwino mkhalidwewo, kuti mupeze njira yolondola.
5. Kusasowa kwa chiweruzo. Kuweruzidwa ndi kuopa kutsutsidwa kumapangitsanso mgwirizano. Inde, sitingathe nthawi zonse kuvomereza zochitika kapena zochitika zina, chifukwa aliyense ali ndi ufulu wa maganizo awo. Koma nthawi zonse ndi koyenera kukumbukira kuti zochita zonse zili ndi zifukwa zake komanso zotsatira zake. Fotokozani kuvomereza kwanu kapena kuvomereza, podziwa zomwe zimayambitsa ndi zotsatira zake, izi ndi zosiyana kwambiri ndi kungotsutsa. Kuweruzidwa nthawi zonse kumayambitsa zokhumudwitsa, kumvetsetsa zomwe zimayambitsa ndi zotsatira zimapangitsa kupewa zolakwitsa ndikufotokozera maganizo anu popanda kuwononga.
6. Kupatukana kwa zochita ndi umunthu. Izi zimakhudza mbali yofunikira pakulimbikitsa maubwenzi. Zosavomerezeka pazochita siziyenera kukhala chifukwa cha kunyozedwa kwa munthuyo, kaya ndi mwana wanu, wokondedwa, mnzanu kapena wodutsa. Mphamvu yosonyeza kusayamika, ngakhale kuti sikunyozetsa komanso kusanyoza, ndi imodzi mwa luso lofunika kwambiri kuti mupange ubale wabwino.
7. Kufunsira. Kuwongolera mopanda nzeru kungayambitse kusamvana ndi kulephera mu moyo wanu. Koma pofuna kuyanjana kwabwino, nkofunika kuti mwapang'onopang'ono atsogolere anzake, ndikulimbikitseni kukwaniritsidwa kwa maudindowa. Chifunikiro chiyenera kuphatikizidwa ndi nzeru - munthu sangathe kufunsa zosatheka, koma sangathe kulimbikitsanso zochita. Simungapangitse wina kuti achite zinthu zomwe sakufuna, koma muyenera kufunsa kuti mupange. Kufunafuna sikukutanthauza kuti ndiwe wankhanza. Kukhala njira zofunira kulima ndi kuthandiza ena pozungulira.
8. Mphamvu yakugonjetsa. Kugonjetsa ndi njira yothetsera vutoli kwa aliyense. Koma kawirikawiri phwando likufuna kuumirira pa chisankhocho, osati kuganizira zofuna za wotsutsa. Izi zingayambitse kusamvana komanso kusokonezana. Ndikofunikira nthawi zonse kufufuza zotsatira za kusagwirizanitsa ndi zotsatira za njira yothetsera mavuto.
9. Mphamvu yakupeza chiyanjano. Kuti tipeze yankho lolondola mukumenyana kapena mikangano, wina ayenera kumvetsetsa maganizo ake. Pokhapokha pali zotheka kupanga chisankho choyenera ndikupeza njira yothetsera vutoli, zomwe zidzakwaniritsa mbali zonse ziwiri.
Kuthetsa kusamvana. Kukwanitsa kupeza njira zothetsera mikangano m'zinthu zotsutsana nthawizonse zimakhala ngati chimodzi cha makhalidwe ofunika kwambiri m'munda uliwonse. Koma nthawi zambiri izi sizili khalidwe lobadwa, koma luso lopezeka mwa kudzigwira nokha. Zonsezi zomwe zili pamwambapa za maubwenzi abwino ndizomwe zimayambitsa kuthetsa mikangano. Kukwanitsa kuthetsa mkangano kumatsegula chitseko m'mbali zonse za moyo, mu chikondi, mu ntchito, mu ubale ndi ana, achibale ndi abwenzi.