Pemphero pa kubala

Kubereka ndi chinthu chokondweretsa mu moyo wa mkazi osati yekha, koma banja lonse. Palibe amayi omwe ali ndi mimba padziko lapansi amene sangayendere ndi maganizo ndi malingaliro okhumudwitsa za chochitikacho. Ngakhale kuti mimba ili yabwino kwambiri, madokotala apezeka, chipatala chakumayi chakasankhidwa, zonse zakonzeka kwa mwana ndi mayi, nkhawa sizidzakulepheretsani kusiya. Ndipo izi ndi zachibadwa, chifukwa kubadwa kwa mwana ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri pa moyo wa mayi, ndipo njira yobereka ndi yovuta komanso yosadziwika. Ndipo Ambuye yekha amadziwa momwe chirichonse chidzakhalire. Choncho, sizingakhale zopanda nzeru kwa amayi apakati okhulupilira kuti awerenge pemphero la kubereka bwino.

Pemphero la ntchito zochepa

Ngakhale akale, agogo athu aakazi sanachite popanda pemphero panthawi ya kubala. Zinasankhidwa kuyembekezera Mulungu ndi kupemphera kwa Iye ndi Theotokos Wopatulikitsa kwambiri za kubadwa kwabwino kwa mwanayo. Pemphero la kubadwa bwino linalimbikitsa chikhulupiliro kuti zonse zikanakhala bwino. Athandizidwa kuti azikhazikika ndi kukonzekera malingaliro pa chochitika chomwe chidzachitike.

Osati amayi okha omwe anali kupemphera, pemphero la mayi pamene mwana wake anali kubadwa linali lofunika kwambiri. Masiku ano pemphero silitchuka kotero, komabe anthu samayiwala kutembenukira kwa Oyera kuti awathandize pa nthawi yovuta. Choncho, pemphero panthawi yobereka ndi lofunikira mpaka lero. Inde, sikuti mkazi aliyense akhoza kuwerenga pemphero panthawi ya kubadwa kwake. Koma pankhaniyi, mukhoza kukonzekera pasadakhale ndi kulemekeza pemphero la kubadwa mosavuta kapena pemphani amayi anu kuti akupemphere pamene mwana wanu akubadwa.

Kodi ndi pemphero lotani limene mungawerenge pobadwa?

Wokhulupirira amadziwa yemwe angapemphere kwa mwana atabadwa. Choyamba, ndithudi, ku Theotokos Opatulikitsa. Namwali Maria anabala mwana wake mopweteka, koma atatha kukumana ndi mavuto onse aumunthu ndi kuvutika, amamvetsetsa ndi kutithandiza. Ndi pemphero pamene ali ndi mimba ndi kubala, amatsatira mafano a amayi a Mulungu "Pa kubadwa kwa Mthandizi", "Child Infantry", "Theodore", "Wachiritsa", "Skoroposlushnitsa". Mayi wina woyembekezera ayenera kuwerenga pemphero kuti athandizidwe ndi kubereka.

Pemphero la kubadwa kwa kuwala kwa Malo Opatulikitsa Theotokos :

Namwali Wodala, Mayi wa Ambuye wathu Yesu Khristu, yemwe ali kubadwa ndi chikhalidwe cha mayi ndi mwana, chitirani chifundo kwa mtumiki wanu (dzina), ndipo athandizeni mu ola lino, mulole kuti katundu wake athetsedwe bwinobwino. O Mkazi Wachifundo Wonse wa Theotokos, sindinapemphe thandizo pa kubadwa kwa Mwana wa Mulungu, thandizani mtumiki uyu wa Mtumiki Wanu, amene amafuna, makamaka kuchokera kwa Inu. Perekani kwa iwo omwe ali bwino mu ora lino, ndipo abereke mwanayo, ndipo abweretse iwo ku kuwala kwa dziko lino, mu nthawi ya kusowa ndi kuwala kozindikira mu ubatizo woyera ndi madzi ndi mzimu. Kwa inu ife tikugwa, Amayi a Mulungu Vyshnyago, akupemphera: Khalani achifundo ndi amayi awa, mwafika nthawi ya mayi, ndipo pempherani Mulungu wa Mulungu wathu yemwe adachokera kwa inu, ndikumulimbikitsa ndi mphamvu Yake yochokera Kumwamba. Mphamvu yake idalitsika ndikulemekezedwa, ndi Atate wake oyambirira, ndi Wodala ndi Wachifundo ndi Kupatsa Mzimu Wake, tsopano ndi nthawi za nthawi. Amen.

Achibale ndi achibale akhoza kupempherera thanzi la mwana Tikhvin Chiwonetsero cha Amayi a Mulungu:

O Dona Woyera Wonse, Namwali,
Sungani ndi kusunga pansi pa ana anga (maina) anga obisala,
Achinyamata onse, atsikana ndi makanda aang'ono,
Anabatizidwa ndipo alibe dzina ndipo ali m'mimba mwa mayi otopa.
Kuwaphimba iwo ndi chuma cha umayi Wanu,
Kuwasunga iwo mu kuwopa Mulungu ndi kumvera makolo,
Mapemphero a Mbuye wanga ndi a Mwana Wanu,
Aloleni apereke zinthu zowathandiza kuti awapulumutse.
Ndikuwunikira ku mayeso anu a amayi,
Pakuti ndinu chitetezo chaumulungu kwa akapolo anu.
Mayi wa Mulungu, anditsogolereni ine ku chifaniziro cha umayi wanu wakumwamba.
Chiritsani moyo wanga ndi zilonda za thupi ana anga (maina),
Machimo anga atha.
Ndikupereka mwana wanga ndi mtima wonse kwa Ambuye wanga Yesu Khristu ndi kwa Inu,
choyera kwambiri, chitetezo cha kumwamba.
Ameni!

Kupempherera amayi omwe akusowa

Mu Orthodox Chikhristu ndi chizolowezi amayi asanabadwe kupita ku tchalitchi , kuvomereza ndikulandira mgonero. Si zachilendo kwa mkazi yemwe amawerenga pemphero kuti amwetse ululu, asiye magazi, makanda ayenera kubadwa athanzi. Mphamvu zozizwitsa za pemphero ndizodziwika kwa okhulupilira ambiri, sizomwe zilizonse zomwe makolo athu amadalira kwambiri. Pemphero ndilo thandizo la Ambuye, nanga n'chifukwa chiyani liyenera kutayidwa mu bizinesi lovuta komanso loopsya, makamaka lomwe limakhudza mwana wanu wambiri. Ngakhale sikofunikira kwambiri kwa yemwe mudzakhala kuyankha mu pemphero lake, ndi chithunzi chomwe chili patsogolo pake, chinthu chachikulu ndikuchita moona mtima, ndi chikhulupiriro mu moyo. Pambuyo pa kubadwa, muyenera kuwerenga pempheroli ndikuthokoza Ambuye ndi Oyeramtima onse kuti athandizidwe ndi mwanayo.

Ndikofunika kuweramitsa ndi pemphero atatha kubala mchimwene wa amayi a Mulungu asanamve "Mamatu". Amathandiza amayi omwe ali ndi mkaka atayika kapena ngati mayiyo akuvutika kwambiri ndi vuto la postpartum . Namwali Wodalitsika adzakupatsani mphamvu yakulimbana ndi matendawa ndi kudyetsa zinyenyeswazi. Ndipotu sizingakhale zopanda kanthu kuti agogo athu adyetsa ana awo mkaka wa m'mawere mpaka zaka ziwiri kapena zitatu ndipo sakudziwa kuti vuto la postpartum ndi mavuto ena anali otani. Anakhulupilira kuti Ambuye Mulungu adamuwonetsa kuti mayi ayenera kudyetsa mwana wake ndi mkaka wa m'mawere, kupitilira ndi chikondi chake ndi chisamaliro chake.