Ana amasintha kwambiri moyo wathu, tsopano nthawi yonse yaulere iyenera kuperekedwa kwa mwanayo, kusiya zofuna zake kumbuyo. Pali ana omwe ali odekha, omwe angasewere ndi zidole kwa nthawi yaitali popanda kuchititsa vuto linalake, ndipo palinso ana omwe sangathe kukhala chete ndipo nthawi zonse amafuna kuti makolo awo azisamalira. Mulimonsemo, ana aang'ono amafunika kusamalidwa, amayi ambiri akudabwa momwe angachitire zinthu zonse ndi ana aang'ono.
Kodi mungachite bwanji ndi mwana wamng'ono?
Kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yokonzekera ntchito zapakhomo patsiku, komanso pamene simunamvere mwana wanu, tikukulangizani kuchita zonse pamodzi ndi mwanayo, motere:
- Kuphika pamodzi ndi mwanayo. Perekani mapepala anu, zivindikiro, zida za pulasitiki ndi ziwiya zina zapitchini zotetezeka, pamene mwanayo ali wotanganidwa ndi nkhaniyi, mudzakhala ndi nthawi yokonzekera chakudya panthawi imodzimodziyo polankhulana ndi mwana wanu. Ngati mukufuna kuphika mkate kapena piritsi, mupatseni mwana ufa ndi chidutswa, ndikukhulupirirani, zidzakhala zosangalatsa kwa mwana aliyense.
- Konzani dongosolo ndi mwanayo. Ngati mukufuna kuyeretsa nyumbayi, yikani mwana wanu mu ndondomekoyi, mumupatse nsalu yonyowa ndipo muwonetsetse momwe mungapukutire fumbi kapena kusamba pansi pamene mwana akugwira ntchito, mudzakhala ndi nthawi yopuma kapena kutsuka pansi. Zosewera zimasonkhanitsa palimodzi, kotero mumaphunzitsanso makondomu.
- Chitani nokha ndi mwanayo. Ngati mukufuna kupanga mapangidwe apamwamba, perekani mwana wanu mapepala angapo ndi gamu wonyezimira, kotero mutenge naye kwa mphindi khumi, panthawi yomwe mungakhale nayo nthawi yopanga.
Ana ambiri amatha kugona masana, nthawi zambiri amatha maola awiri, panthawi yomwe mumatha kumasuka, kukhala pa kompyuta kapena kuchita bizinesi ina iliyonse. Amayi, omwe ali ndi chidwi chochita chilichonse ndi khanda, akhoza kukhala osangalala, ndi kosavuta ndi mwana, chifukwa amagona kwambiri. Mukamudyetsa mwanayo ndikumugwedeza, muli ndi maola awiri osadyetsa, mutha kuchita zomwe mukufuna. Inde, zimachitika kuti mwanayo ndi woipa kwambiri, kotero akamaliza kugona, kupumula bwino, bizinesi yanu siidzathawa.