Kawirikawiri, pokamba za kukongola kwa mwamuna kapena kukongola kwa mkazi, ifeyo sitingathe kupanga zomwe munthuyu watikonda kwambiri. Pambuyo pa zonse, si munthu aliyense wokongola amene ali ndi chiyero chokwanira cha nkhope ndi thupi. Tiyeni tiwone chomwe chimapangitsa munthu kukhala wokongola.
Mfundo zoyenerera
- Kukoma mtima . Mwachidziwikire, mobwerezabwereza munazindikira kuti anthu okoma mtima amakopa kwambiri. Kuti nkhope yanu isonyeze osati zochitika zonse zolakwika, ndi bwino kudziwa momwe mungasinthire mavuto ochokera mkati kupita ku dziko lozungulira. Khalani ololera anthu. Ndipo, ziribe kanthu momwe zingakhalire zovuta, kumwetulira ndi kuyang'ana kawirikawiri pamaso pa diso. Akatswiri a zamaganizo azindikira kuti anthu akumwetulira amawoneka okongola. Chodabwitsa chokwanira, koma nthawi zambiri timayankhula ngati kuti tili ndi chinthu chosadziwika chomwe chili patsogolo pathu. Lembani anthu dzina, ngakhale kulankhulana kapena kunena zabwino. Izi zokha zidzasintha malingaliro ndi maganizo anu.
- Chidwi . Wina aliyense amalankhulana momasuka pa phunziro la zofuna zawo. Funsani anthu zokhuza zawo. Ngakhale simukudziwa bwino ntchitoyi - mukhoza kufunsa mafunso, kukhala ndi chidwi. Yeserani kumvetsera kuposa kulankhula.
- Umodzi . Potsata mafashoni, kwa ena omwe ali chitsanzo chabwino, timatayika chinthu chachikulu - kudzipatula. Anthu omwe samaima pakati pa anthuwa sangawonekere. Dzifunseni nokha, ndi chiyani chomwe mungakondwere kuvala, ngati chokongola? Kodi ndi chikhalidwe chiti chomwe chimakusangalatsani? Ndi nthawi yoyesa.
- Zosangalatsa . Munthu amene amachititsa kusekerera nthawi zonse amakopeka ndi anthu, koma yesani kusakhumudwitsa nthabwala zanu. Pamapeto pake, siyense amene amamvetsa kunyoza.
- Makhalidwe ndi malankhulidwe . Mudzazunguliridwa ndi anthu omwe mumakumana nawo. Ngati mumadziletsa nokha ndi nthabwala za nthabwala - musadabwe kuti zoterezi zikukukozani. Dzifunseni nokha: werengani zambiri, yesetsani kuchotsa pa mawu anu achipongwe. Musanamize ndipo musamakambirane.
- Kukongola thupi . Onerani thanzi lanu ndi moyo wanu. Kukongola kwa thupi ndiko, choyamba, mawonekedwe abwino, maonekedwe abwino ndi kudzikongoletsa.
Yesetsani kugona mokwanira ndipo, ngati simukuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, muzichita masewerawa m'mawa. Sizitenga nthawi yochuluka, koma thanzi labwino ndi maganizo amakula kwambiri. - Kukhalapo kwa zofuna . Nthaŵi zonse perekani nthawi yopanga zinthu zomwe mumakonda. Izi zimangobweretsa kukhutira mumtima, komanso zimakupangitsani kuti mukule. Anthu omwe ali ndi zokondweretsa komanso zosangalatsa zimakhala zokondweretsa komanso zowonjezera. Ndipo chifukwa cha izi, iwo akufuna kulankhula nawo.
- Kukonda nokha . Munthu yemwe amadzikonda yekha amatha kupereka chikondi kwa ena. Iye ali ndi chidaliro, savutika ndi kudzipweteka kopweteka, amatha kuchitapo kanthu mokwanira kwa nthabwala ngakhale kumaseka yekha. Munthu wachikondi saledzera ndipo savutika ndi kusungulumwa.