Mwachidziwikire mwamvapo kangapo, pamene akazi akunena pakati pawo: "Iye ndi munthu wokondweretsa kwambiri!". Mwamsanga pali chisonyezo kuti tikukamba za munthu wokongola, wokongola kwambiri. Ndipo kodi mawuwa amatanthauzanji kwenikweni?
Kodi "munthu wochititsa chidwi" amatanthauzanji?
Mawu awa ndi owala kwambiri ndipo amadziyesera okha, kuti amajambula zithunzi zosiyanasiyana zosangalatsa m'malingaliro a akazi. Ngati mutayang'ana mu dikishonale ndikuwona tanthauzo la mawu akuti "Munthu Wosatheka", ndiye kuti zonse zidzatuluka mwakamodzi. Tanthauzo la mawu akuti "munthu" tidziwika kale, koma "chidwi" chomwe chinabwera ku Russian kuchokera ku Chifalansa chokhazikika chimatanthauza zosangalatsa, zokondweretsa, zokongola, zokongola, zokongola, zokongola komanso zochititsa chidwi. Palinso chisonyezero chakuti chiganizo ichi kawirikawiri chimatsimikizira mtundu wa mawonekedwe mwa amuna, koma nthawizina chimasamutsira ku zinthu zina.
Pafupifupi izi zimapangidwa ndi mawu awa, ngakhale ngati simunadziwe kale tanthawuzo lake lotanthauzira mawu. Kulankhula za munthu wochititsa chidwi, timatanthauza munthu wokongola, wowala, ndi wopambana.
Komabe, mu dziko lamakono, mu funso la munthu wolemetsa amatanthawuza, pangakhale phokoso. Pambuyo pake, lingaliro la momwe munthu wolemekezeka, wokongola amaonekera, amasintha ndi nthawi.
Munthu Wopanda Kulephera Masiku Ano
Choncho, kumbukiraninso kuti mawu athu akunena za munthu amene ali ndi makhalidwe otsatirawa: chidwi, chithumwa, chokongola, chokongola, chokongola, chokongola, chopatsa chidwi.
Ngati mwaitanidwa kukawonetsa munthu wovuta, ndikuti, m'zaka za zana la 19, ndiwe yani amene mungaimire? Mwinamwake, izo zidzakhala ngati "dandy", monga Eugene Onegin, yemwe ali wolemekezeka, iye sagwira ntchito, amathera masiku ake ndi masewera ndi mipira, iye amaphunzitsidwa, monga zinaliri ndi wolemekezeka mu zaka za zana la 19. Iye ndi wokongola, wokongola, wokongola, ndi wolemekezeka.
Nanga bwanji za munthu wochititsa chidwi m'zaka zathu? Zosangalatsa komanso zokondweretsa, timayang'ana kwambiri owonetsera ma TV, ojambula ndi oimba, koma sikuti anthu onse ochokera m'magulu awa akhoza kutchedwa oimira. Timaona akuluakulu oyang'anira, atsogoleri a makampani, madementi, akuluakulu akuluakulu osiyanasiyana komanso atsogoleri kuti akhale olemekezeka, koma sitikuwapeza onse akusangalatsidwa.
Vuto lotsatira liri ndi kukongola: kumbali imodzi, munthu wokongola amavala kachitidwe kakang'ono, ndipo, kwina, iye si wachilendo ku mafashoni. Masiku ano malingaliro amenewa nthawi zina amasiyana kwambiri, ndipo sadziwa bwino yemwe ali wochititsa chidwi - omwe amavala mtengo wapamwamba kwambiri wamakono, kapena amene amavala yekha muzinthu zamatchulidwe, zomwe zimayimilira
Komabe, kodi mungaganizire ndani mukadamva "munthu wochititsa chidwi"? Adzakhala mwamuna, mwina, wamkulu kuposa zaka 25-30, atavala mosamala, koma kwenikweni ndi kukoma, zinthu zabwino, mawonekedwe okongola, osaiwalika, okondana polankhulirana, ndipo mwachiwonekere, kukhala ndi malo apamwamba. Zivomerezani, mu nthawi yathu, pamene ndalama zitha kudziwa momwe munthu amaonera, ndi zovuta kulingalira zochititsa chidwi zowonjezera amuna.