Ana ndi achinyamata onse akulolera kukula msanga, kutaya maphunziro osangalatsa, kukhala odziimira okha. Ndipo pokwaniritsa zonsezi, kumbukirani mwachidwi komanso mwachifundo zaka za sukulu. Kalasi yoyamba, phunziro loyamba, abwenzi oyambirira, mikangano yoyamba, chikondi choyamba cha kusukulu.
Koma, ndithudi, nthawi yoyamba ambiri a ife timakondana kusukulu. Wina m'kalasi yoyamba, wina wachisanu, wina asanafike chomaliza. Wina nthawi zambiri pa nthawi yonse yophunzitsa, ndi wina kamodzi ndi moyo. Chikondi cha sukulu, chiri nacho chake. Koma nthawi zonse ndi yapadera komanso yapadera.
Tikakula, timaiwala momwe timamvera komanso kukondana maganizo pamene tinayamba kukonda nthawi yoyamba. Ndi malingaliro ati omwe adabwera m'maganizo athu, momwe tinaliri okhumudwa komanso osangalala pa chilichonse. Lero ana athu pafupi zaka zofanana amabwera ndi vuto lomwelo, ndipo sitidziwa choti tiwauze. Nthawi yokha yachotsedwa pamtima kuti mvula yamkuntho imathetsa mantha. Ndipotu, nkhani za achinyamata ndi chikondi cha kusukulu ndizofunikira lero.
Achinyamata amakono amakula msanga kuposa momwe makolo awo angafunire. Iwo ali odziimira, obisika. Koma chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi chakuti chidziwitso chopezeka pagulu pa mafunso onse okhudza chikondi ndi kugonana, osati zambiri kumathandiza, kuchuluka kwa zinthu. Kusokoneza malingaliro oyenera a mkhalidwewo. Nthaŵi yachikondi chikondi nthawi zambiri chimagwirizana ndi nthawi ya kusintha, pamene mahomoni ali okwera kwambiri. Sikuti nthawi zonse chikondi choyamba kusukulu chimapindula. Nthawi zochepa za ana zimachitikira mosiyana, koma aliyense amafunikira chithandizo ndi uphungu wanzeru kwa anthu apamtima.
Chikondi ndi zikhumbo mu sukulu sizikutsatiridwa ndi zifukwa zirizonse. Aliyense ali ndi mphindi ino mwa njira yawoyake. Muzinthu zambiri chitukuko cha zochitika zimatengera khalidwe ndi maphunziro a makolo. Kuchokera pa msinkhu wa chikhalidwe cha achinyamata achikondi, kuchokera kumvetsetsa kwa ena. Chabwino, mwa olemba okha wokonda, ndithudi, nayenso.
Chikondi kuchokera kusukulu
Ndi anthu angati omwe adamva chikondi chawo monga ophunzira, ndipo ndi owerengeka mwa iwo omwe adatha kunyamula chiyanjano chawo zaka zambiri. Pangani mabanja amphamvu ndi okondwa. Khalani ana anzeru ndi a thanzi. Zidzachitika kuti chilangochi chimagawira okondedwa awiri pambuyo pa sukulu kumbali zosiyanasiyana. Koma amakumana zaka zisanu / khumi ndipo kumverera kwa moyo kumabwereranso. Ndipo ngakhale anthu atachoka nthawi zonse ndipo salinso kukomana kapena kukhala mabwenzi. Kupambana kapena ayi, chikondi kuchokera ku sukulu chimasungidwa nthawi zonse m'makumbukiro athu. Zimasintha zotsutsana za malingaliro pa moyo ndipo zimasiya kusonyeza kukoma mtima komanso chilumba cha mtendere mu moyo wa munthu aliyense mpaka kumapeto kwa masiku ake.
Chilendo cha chikondi kusukulu
Pa mutu wina wa zokambirana ndikufuna kufotokoza kufotokozera mwachikondi kusukulu. Nthawi yosangalatsayi. Chisangalalo chokha, mantha oyenera kukanidwa. Ndipo mphindi yaikulu isanayambe kugwedeza nkhumba, mapepala a pepala m'thumba, amalemba ndi mayamiko. M'kalasi yakale, nthawi ya chibwenzi ndi yovuta kwambiri. Kwa anyamata, awa ndi maluwa, kuyitanira kuvina (disco) kapena kanema kapena kuyenda. Pamalo mwa atsikana, awa ndi ndakatulo ndi kumwetulira, kuchita ntchito zapakhomo, kudzaza mafunso, kuombeza ndi dzina mabokosi ndi malo. Ndipo zokondweretsa kwambiri
Monga tanenera kale, chikondi cha sukulu chimayamba kukhala chinthu chachikulu. Funso loyenera limabuka, koma n'chifukwa chiyani izi zimachitika?
Zifukwa za kuchepa kwa chikondi choyamba:
- wosadziŵa za unyamata;
- msinkhu wamaganizo;
- kumvetsetsa kosamveka za malingaliro ndi malingaliro a chikondi;
- zoyembekeza zambiri za nthano;
- kusowa chiyanjano, kuletsa, kudzipatula.