Mabuku pa psychology of maubwenzi

Ngati mumaganizira mosamala, mungathe kuganiza kuti pa dziko lonse lapansi, moyo wathu wonse ndi ubale. Ubale ndi ntchito, bizinesi, chikondi, kugonana, zosangalatsa, abwenzi, banja, ndi zina zotero. Ndi momwe timakhalira ndikugwirizana ndi wina ndi mzake, ndipo pambuyo pake, pokonza luso lathu pomanga ubale, zingatheke kusintha kwambiri moyo wabwino.

Mudziko, mamiliyoni a mabuku pa psychology ya maubwenzi alembedwa ndi kufalitsidwa. Koma mwina ndizoipa kwambiri moti sizichita zenizeni, kapena sitingathe kumasulira kuti zilembedwe ndi olemba anzeru. Koma, ngakhale kukhala ndi chiyembekezo, tidzakhulupirira kuti mabuku ena salembedwa molakwika, motero nsonga zapamwamba sizikufuna kutsatira ...

Tidzayesa kukupangirani mtundu wa mndandanda wabwino kwambiri, mabuku abwino pa psychology of relations. Koma ngati bukhuli lafika pamwamba-mndandanda, mudzakakamizika kutsatira zomwe zalembedwa.

Freud ndi wokalamba wapamwamba kwambiri, ndipo akadali wosayenera ...

Tiyeni tiyambe ndi mabuku odziwika bwino pa psychology of relations, ndipo sitingayambe ndi mbuye m'dera lino. Buku la Freud la Psychology of Sexuality panthawi ina linadzetsa mkwiyo wa Puritan Ulaya, ndipo ngakhale lero, mukamuwuza wina (yemwe sanawerenge Freud nkomwe) kuti mumakonda ntchito ya psychoanalyst, bvuto la interlocutor likukuyembekezerani .

Inde, Freud, ndithudi, adadziwika yekha. Koma ndithudi ambiri amatsegula zobisika zawo "I" chifukwa cha ntchito zake. Mu bukhu ili, ndithudi, psychology ya ubale pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi, zochitika za kugonana, komanso zosiyana siyana, zopotoka, zizoloŵezi za namwali, kulongosola, ndi zina zotero, zimafufuzidwa.

Kumanga ubale ndiwekha ...

Kuchokera mubuku lamakono la psychology of relations, nkofunikira kupereka buku ili kuti apange "I" yatsopano yolembedwa ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo wa ku America Tina Siling "Chitani nokha. Malangizo kwa omwe akufuna kusiya chizindikiro " Bukhuli likhonza kuthandiza oyamba malonda, omwe akufuna kupeza njira yopangira malingaliro. Mwachidule, wolembayo akuwulula chinthu chatsopano cha mavuto: mayesero aliwonse ndi mwayi watsopano, kuthandiza kuwululira zomwe angathe kupanga .

Nthawi zonse ...

Wina wotchuka, tinganene ngakhale chipembedzo, buku pa psychology of relations - "Masewera amasewera ndi anthu. Anthu omwe amasewera masewera . " Kwenikweni, awa ndi mabuku awiri, koma kawirikawiri amalembedwa m'kabuku. Mlembi ndi Eric Berne , yemwe anayambitsa kusanthula zinthu. Berne adagawana nawo maonekedwe athu pazinthu zitatu: "Wamkulu" (kulemera, kulingalira bwino), "Parent" (pamene titsanzira khalidwe la makolo) ndi "Mwana" (maganizo, zokondweretsa, zofuna zathu). Mu zochitika zosiyanasiyana za moyo, timaphatikizapo limodzi mwa atatuwa "Ine", ndipo Bern m'buku lake adalongosola zochitika zamoyo ndi zochitika, kuti athetse vutoli. Zotsatira zake, sititenga kokha buku la psychology, komanso ndalama zothandizira pulogalamu iliyonse yachiwiri.

Tonse ndife alendo ...

J. Gray anakhala wolemba wotchuka padziko lonse chifukwa cha buku lake "Men from Mars, Women from Venus" . Bukhuli lasanduka chida cha anthu mamiliyoni ambiri omwe ali pa banja pofuna kusunga komanso kukonza maubwenzi. Tikufuna kuwonjezera pa mndandanda wa buku la Grey lopangidwa kwa anthu osakwatira omwe mwachibadwa amayang'ana moyo wawo wokwatirana. Ili ndi buku lochititsa chidwi pa maganizo a maubwenzi, omwe amakhalanso ndi mfundo yakuti abambo ndi amai amaganiza ndikuchita mosiyana. Dzina la bestseller ndi "Mars ndi Venus pa Tsiku". Bukuli lidzakuthandizani, ngati osungulumwa kuti apeze banja lawo, ndipo anthu omwe ali paubwenzi amakhala pa banja lolimba komanso lopambana. Mlembi mwiniyo amakhulupirira kuti pafupifupi mavuto onse padziko lapansi chifukwa chakuti anthu samadziwa kusiyana pakati pa abambo ndi amai.