Ndithudi, inu mwazindikira kuti chochitikacho, chomwe inu nthawi zambiri mumaganizira, mwachimaliziro chimachitika. Zikuoneka kuti malingalirowo ndi enieni, kotero muyenera kusamala kwambiri nawo.
Ubongo waumunthu umakonzedwa mwanzeru - sipadzakhalanso malingaliro okondwera kukumbukira! Kumeneko, timakhala otsetsereka kwambiri pamutu wanga. Chabwino, nanga bwanji ngati malingaliro oipa akupita kumutu, momwe mungawachotsere iwo? Ndipotu, pali njira zingapo zopatutsira maganizo oipa, koma ngati mutasamala nokha kapena ngati mutayesa zonsezi zimadalira inu.
Kodi mungatani kuti mupirire maganizo oipa?
Njira yodabwitsa kwambiri ndiyo kunena nokha "izi sizidzandichitikira" ndikusiya kuganiza za zoipa. Koma njira iyi si yoyenera kwa aliyense, chifukwa siyense amene ali ndi mphamvu zokwanira kuti asiye maganizo oipa panthawi imodzi.
2. Ngati maganizo oipa mumutu mwanu mwamphamvu, mungayese kuwatsogolera pogwiritsa ntchito njira zotsatirazi:
- khalani pansi pamalo abwino, osati kudutsa manja ndi miyendo yanu. Tsekani maso anu, pumulani ndi kutulutsa mpweya wochepa ndi kutuluka;
- imirirani zomwe simukupumula ngati chifuwa chakuda mu chifuwa chanu;
- lembani mwakuya, mukuganiza momwe mdima wakudawu ukuthawa kuchokera kwa inu pamodzi ndi mpweya. Onetsetsani malingaliro anu oipa, awunikireni ndi kuwala koyera ndipo muwagwiritse mu koti mpaka atatha kwathunthu.
3. Njira yowonetsera mwachidule ndi yothandiza kwambiri, makamaka ngati mukufunikira kuchotsa malingaliro oipa. Zimalimbikitsidwa ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo, zamoyo komanso zamatsenga. Akatswiri a zamaganizo okha amalimbikitsa kupanga mawonekedwe anu oseketsa, chifukwa kuseka ndi mankhwala abwino kwambiri a mitundu yonse ya mantha. Mwachitsanzo, yesani kudziyerekezera nokha ngati mawonekedwe a mpira waukulu, ndipo maganizo oipa akuuluka pafupi ndi inu ndi madontho ang'onoang'ono akuda. Zosangalatsa kwambiri zidzawoneka bwino. Kuseka pa mantha anu, mudzawachotsa.
4. Mungayesenso kulemba kapena kujambula pamapepala, chinachake chimene sichikupatsani mtendere. Pambuyo kutsegula maso anu, kusewera zonsezi, kutsegula maso anu, kusewera kachiwiri, ngati kuyika mavuto onse pamapepala. Tangoganizani kuti chikumbumtima chanu sichingakhale chopanda malingaliro awa, zonsezi zimasamutsidwa pamapepala. Ndipo tsopano tsamba liyenera kutenthedwa kapena kutsekedwa, kunena kuti - Ndidzawononga zinthu zonse zoipa, kuziwaza, kuziwotcha.
Kodi mungapewe bwanji maganizo oipa?
Kodi kuchotsa zoipa zotani? Inde, kuti musokonezeke kwa iwo pamene palibe nthawi yoganiza, ndiye maganizo oipa amasiya kumamatira kumutu. Ndiye kodi tidzakhala chiyani kuti tidzipusitse?
- Chitani chinthu chochititsa chidwi, chimafuna chidwi chowonjezereka ndi kusinkhasinkha. Kodi mwazindikira kuti pamene mwakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi bizinesi, simukuganiza kuti zachilendo zimalowa mumutu mwanu? Kotero izo zidzakhala ziri apa, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kupeza phunziro lochititsa chidwi.
- Ikani zoipazo ndi zabwino! Zabwino nthawi zonse zimagonjetsa zoipa, choncho tidzakhala ndi ife. Muyenera kukumbukira kuti nthawi zambiri mumasokonezeka, mumabweretsa chisangalalo chabwino - buku lomwe mumalikonda, filimu, zithunzi zazing'ono.
Mukukumbukira? Chabwino, potsogoleredwa, zidzakakamizidwa ndi malingaliro abwino, olakwika a nambala imeneyo ndithudi adzachita mantha ndikusiya mutu wanu. - Phunzirani kuganiza moyenera. Gonjetsani lingaliro lirilonse loipa mwabwino. Mwachitsanzo, "ndinayamba kugwa, koma sindinatengere ambulera, ndikumana ndi madzi ozizira ndipo ndimatha kuzizira." Sinthani kuti "inayamba kugwa, ndilibe ambulera, koma pamapeto a mvula imatha, ndibwino kupita kunyumba usiku, kupuma mpweya wabwino." Yesetsani kufotokoza malingaliro anu onse olakwika mwanjira imeneyi, nthawi zambiri dzizineneni nokha "zabwino zokha zidzandichitikira" ndi "chirichonse chomwe chandichitikira, kuti ndikhale bwino."