Ngakhale Aristotle adanena kuti munthu mwa chilengedwe ndi chirombo, kufotokoza za chikhumbo cha anthu cholankhulana. Komabe, pali anthu amtundu wina: amakhala omasuka, ophweka komanso omasuka kukhala okha ndiokha. Amapewa zinthu zomwe zimawathandiza kudalira ena. Tidzakambirana za psychology za anthu osakwatira komanso kumvetsetsa momwe tingalankhulire ndi munthu woteroyo.
Psychology: matenda a kusungulumwa
Psychology ya munthu mmodziyo imakhala ndi chikhumbo chofuna kudzilamulira kwathunthu, kusowa kwa maudindo ndi kugwirizana. Amavomereza anthu okhaokha mtunda wina, mthupi komanso m'maganizo. Ndizosatheka kuyang'ana miyoyo yawo.
Anthu otere, ngakhale adakali ana, amazindikira kuti akusowa chikondi ndi chisamaliro, chikondi chenicheni, chomwe chiyenera kuchoka pamtima. Mwana amene anakulira mumkhalidwe wotere, kapena ngakhale atakula ndi agogo ake, nthawi zambiri amaona dziko lapansi kukhala mlendo, lozizira, wopanda chikondi. Popanda kuvutika maganizo ndi kukhumudwa kwapadera, munthu wotereyo alibe chikondi chokwanira. Ngati kulumikizana koteroko kuchitika, munthu akhoza kuyesa kapena kuchiphwanya, kuti abwererenso ku chikhalidwe.
Kutseka ubale ndi kulengedwa kwa banja kwa munthu wotero ndizovuta kwambiri. Kuyesera kulowa mkati mwa moyo wake kudzakumana ndi chidzudzulo cholimba.
Kodi mungachite bwanji ndi anthu omwe ali ndi vuto limodzi?
Ngati mnzanu kapena theka akudwala matenda okhaokha, ndikofunikira kusankha njira zoyenera za khalidwe zomwe zingathandize kupewa mikangano komanso ngakhale kumathandiza munthu.
- Musayese kusintha munthu uyu, izi zimafuna chikhumbo chake ndi khama lake, osati lanu;
- yesetsani kumuthandiza munthu, khalani ndi udindo pa mawu anu, kukhazikitsa okhulupirira;
- Musamamuyese munthu, chisamaliro chokwanira chingamukwiyitse iye;
- Musamuletse kuti asakhale yekha pamene akufuna;
- Musadabwe pamene munthu woteroyo angasankhe popanda kukufunsani.
Yesetsani kupeza zosangalatsa zomwe inu nokha komanso nokha mukudzipatula kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yocheza - izi ndi zofunika kwa anthu otero.