Chifukwa chake abwenzi amafunika - ambiri a ife saganizira ngakhale pang'ono. Ndipotu, nthawi zambiri timazindikira kuti ubwenzi wathu ndi weniweni. Ndipo komabe yankho la funso loletsedwa likhoza kubweretsa mavuto kwa anthu ambiri.
Kodi timafunikiradi abwenzi?
Mwamuna ndi munthu wokhalapo, ndipo amakhalabe osatetezeka, koma m'magulu. Kuyankhulana ndi ena omwe tingathe m'njira zosiyanasiyana, koma kuchita nawo zenizeni, anthu amamva ngati tikakumana ndi anthu omwe ali pafupi ndi ife mumzimu, malingaliro, zokonda. Popanda izi, timakhala ndekha pakati pa anthu. Chabwino, ngati anthu oterewa ndi achibale athu, koma nthawi zambiri, osiyana, mosiyana. Kulipira chifukwa cha kusowa kwachisomo ndi kudzipereka, abwenzi amatithandiza. Choncho, popanda iwo m'moyo sangathe kuchita.
Nchifukwa chiyani anthu amafunikira abwenzi?
Palibe yankho lachidziwitso pa funso loti n'chifukwa chiyani mabwenzi odalirika amafunika, pano munthu aliyense amadzipangira yekha zinthu zofunika. Wina amangoopa kuti akhale yekha , wina amachokera kuubwenzi kuti amvetsetse mfundo yakuti "iwe kwa ine - ine kwa iwe", wina yemwe ali ndi abwenzi amakhala wosangalatsa komanso sangasangalatse yekha. Koma ndiye zambiri za abwenzi, osati anthu apamtima. Chisankho chofuna kukhala ndi abwenzi kapena osakhala pa ubwenzi ndi winawake chimachotsedwa pokhapokha chifukwa munthu alowetsa moyo wanu
Mnzako akufunikanso kutiuza ife choonadi chosasangalatsa mwa munthu, kuchotsa zilakolako komanso kudandaula. Ndi munthu uyu, tikufunikira kukhala pafupi, ngakhale patali . Ndipo ndi abwenzi ambiri - ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zigawo za tanthauzo la moyo wathu.