Mzimayi aliyense adafuna kuti aliyense amuyamike. Iye ankafuna kuti akhale chitsanzo kwa ena, kotero kuti iye anali, ngati osati kwa ambiri, ndiye kwa winawake, gwero la kudzoza. Ena sangathe kukhala ndi tsiku osasamala, ndipo wina angakonde tsiku limodzi kuti akhale khalidwe lalikulu mu moyo wake.
Monga lamulo, kutchuka kumafika kwa umunthu amene samapitilira ndi anthu kwachiwiri. Moyo wodabwitsa - ena amatchuka mwadzidzidzi, monga ena poyang'ana, pomwe ena amavutika kuti achokere kwa anthu, koma osapindulitsa.
Momwe mungakhalire wotchuka kwambiri?
- Ikani lingaliro la kutchuka. Mukamayesetsa kuzindikira mofanana ndi interlocutor wanu, ndi ena onse, simungathe kuzindikira momwe amaonekera kuchokera kunja. Mumachita zinthu mwachisawawa, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mubisala pansi pa chigoba. Sitikutsutsa mfundo yakuti khalidweli lidzakhala ndi zotsatira zabwino kwa anthu ena, koma ngati mukuwerengera za nthawi yaitali, ndiye kuti posachedwa khalidweli silidzakupatsani mpambano.
- Musayese kukhala ndi anthu ambiri momwe zingathere. Kumbukirani kuti khalidwe lalikulu, osati kuchuluka. Samalani umunthu wachifundo amene amadziŵa zomwe zimatanthauza kukhala wokhulupirika. Muyenera kuwona munthu wokondana naye mwa anthu awa.
- Kudzithamangira nokha pa mphuno, kuti kuchokera ku manyazi anu mukhoza kuchotsa pokhapokha mutachoka kumalo otonthoza.
- Ngati ndi kotheka, musanyoze kapena kupereka ndemanga kwa ena. Lingalirani pa moyo wanu, zolinga pa lingaliro la momwe mungakhalire wotchuka kwambiri.
- Ganizirani kawirikawiri za ena, osati nokha. Pakukambirana, ngati mutayankhula za zomwe mwakwaniritsa ndi zofuna zanu mosalekeza, musayembekezere kuti wothandizana nawo akufuna kukuthandizani mtsogolomu.
- Dulani chigoba cha chinyengo. Khalani nokha. Musayese kukondweretsa wina, kutaya choonadi cha chikhalidwe chanu.
- Pewani kukonda kwanu. Pakukambirana, wina sayenera kunena za katatu, zopindula zake. Osapitiliza kutamanda ndi ntchito.
- Ganiziraninso momwe mumaonera dziko, moyo wanu. Chotsani kukhumudwa .
- Phunzirani kumvetsera anthu ozungulira. Iwo, monga inu, nthawi zina amafunanso kulankhula.
Momwe mungadzitamandire pakati pa anyamata?
Atsikana ambiri, ngakhale m'mitima mwawo, koma amafuna kukhala otsogolera pakati pa oimira amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Tidzayesera kumasulira izi moona ndi kuthandizidwa ndi malangizo awa:
- kusagwirizana . Mukamacheza kwambiri, mutseguka momasuka, mutcheru kwambiri mukakopeka pakati pa anyamata. Koma kumbukirani kuti kusagwirizana sikuyenera kukulirakulira;
- kawirikawiri yesetsani zithunzi zatsopano. Ambiri amanyansidwa ndi chiwonetsero;
- kuti amvetse momwe angatchulidwe pakati pa anthu, kumbukirani kuti, kuti asanene, mvetserani mawu ake ndi chisangalalo;
- pamaso pake simukuwonetsa kuti mumatopa;
- ndithudi, chipatso choletsedwa ndi chokoma. Koma yang'anani masewera anu kuti asakwaniritsidwe poyankhulana, musagwedeze ndodoyo.
- nthawizonse kumbukirani ukazi wanu. Penyani kukongola kwanu.
Kodi mungatchuka bwanji mumzindawo?
- Gwiritsani ntchito bungwe lodzipereka. Khalani achangu.
- Khalani wolemba wamba.
- Sewani ku gulu la nyimbo lodziwika kwambiri.
- Khalani mayi wa ana ambiri. Za inu mulembe mu nyuzipepala, ndipo ndithudi kutchuka sikudzadutsa.
- Pitirizani kusindikiza zithunzi zanu pa intaneti.
Momwe mungakhalire wotchuka mdziko?
- perekani pafupifupi nthawi yanu yonse yaulere kuti mukhale ndi luso lapadera;
- khalani ndi cholinga chenicheni;
- kuchuluka kwa kuchuluka kwa zomwe mukuyesetsa kuchita ndiko kukwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna;
- yesani kuyamba kukhala wotchuka mumzinda wanu, ndiye ku dziko lanu, ndipo pambuyo pake yesetsani kugonjetsa Olympus.
Kodi mungatchuka bwanji ku kampani?
- Yang'anani nokha.
- Yesetsani muzovala za zovala.
- Yang'anani chilankhulo chanu.
- Khalani moyo wa kampani: kumwa, kuvina, nthabwala, kuthandiza ena.
- Pangani maphwando.
- Khalani munthu wodabwitsa.
- Lekani kuganiza za momwe mungakhalire msungwana wotchuka. Kumbukirani kuti chinthu chachikulu sichiwopa chilichonse chatsopano. Ikani mantha onse ndi maofesi.
Musaiwale kukhala munthu wokhala ndi mtima wabwino omwe nthawi zonse amatha kupulumutsa mnzanu ndipo mwamsanga mudzayamba kukopa anthu omwewo m'moyo wanu.