Anthu akuwopa kwambiri kutayika zomwe ali okondedwa kwa iwo, ndipo izi ndizoonadi kwa okondedwa awo. Komabe, nthawi zambiri timasokonezeka, ndikuyesera kusunga anthu omwe timawakonda, koma omwe amangogwirizana kwambiri. Ndipo pochita izi, timadzivulaza tokha ndi ena. Mmene mungasiyanitse chikondi ndi chikondi? Funsoli ndi lothandiza kwa ambiri, koma sikuvuta kupeza yankho kwa iwo.
Chothandizira ndi chikondi: kusiyana kwakukulu
Musanayambe kuthetsa vutoli, momwe mungadziwire chikondi kapena chikondi chomwe mumakumana nacho kwa munthu, muyenera kumvetsetsa bwino lomwe zomwezo ndizosiyana. Chikondi ndikumveka bwino komwe kumabweretsa chimwemwe, uzimu, kumapereka "mapiko", kumathandiza kuona moyo kuchokera kumbali yatsopano. Chothandizira ndi chizoloŵezi chomwe chimakupatsani inu mwayi "mwanjira ina" kupulumuka tsiku lina popanda kupita kudera lanu lotonthoza. Sichikhala ndi chitukuko, sichipatsa mphamvu zatsopano, ndipo nthawi zambiri, chimachotsa, kumakakamiza munthu wodalira kuti asamve bwino.
Kodi mungamvetse bwanji chikondi?
Inde, palibe njira yeniyeni yosiyanitsira chikondi kuchokera ku attachment. Koma zizindikiro zina zosiyana ndi zamaganizo zimagwiritsabe ntchito:
- Chokhazikika ndi kupezeka kwa kukopa thupi popanda kukhudzidwa kwambiri, komanso " maganizo " - "Ndimakonda, sindimakonda".
- Chikondi chenicheni - monga lamulo, ndikumverera kwanthawi zonse, chifukwa cha chikhulupiliro cha munthuyo mwa iye, ngati pali kukayikira - ndiye izi zikungowonjezera chabe.
- Kukhala ndi "kupanikizika" mkati mwathunthu ndikulumikizana, chikondi, mosiyana, kumapatsa mphamvu ngakhale zirizonse.
- Chilakolako chofuna kuchokera kwa mnzanu yemwe nthawi zonse analipo, chinangoganizira pa iwe, kukwaniritsa zoyembekezera zako - izi ndizonso, chifukwa chikondi ndi chopanda dyera.