Zinthu zofanana ndi zodziŵika bwino mu ubale wa banja posakhalitsa kapena mtsogolo zinabala aliyense. Ngakhalenso mapainiya amphamvu kwambiri amatha kusokoneza, pamene mmodzi kapena onse awiri amayamba kufunafuna gwero la zokhudzidwa zatsopano kumbali, zomwe zimayambitsa kusakhulupirika. Choncho, moyo wa banja umangofuna mitundu yambiri, maonekedwe atsopano.
Amuna ambiri amanena kuti amakonda akazi odzichepetsa, omwe tsiku lonse amayima pa chitofu, akugwira ana ndi ntchito zapakhomo. Komabe, "mwamuna" aliyense amayang'ana ntchito yamkazi wa bizinesi, yemwe amasula zopinga zonse pa njira chifukwa cha zosayembekezereka, zogwira mtima ndi zosiyana pa khalidwe lawo. Choncho mapeto - zosiyana maonekedwe, mu chikhalidwe nthawi zonse amakopera mwamuna kuposa chimodzi ndi mwinjiro wamtundu womwewo ndi kumvetsera kumvera pamaso.
Kusiyanasiyana pakati pa maubwenzi ndi kofunikira pa zaka zirizonse, ndiko kuti, mabanja achichepere, ndi mabanja "odziwa". Chikhalidwe chimakhala mwa munthu chikhalidwe cha msilikali ndi wogonjetsa, amayenera "kumenyana" ndi theka lake, koma musapitirize kuchita zinthu zatsopano, monga momwe zatsopano zimakhalira kukhala ndi khalidwe losasangalatsa.
Kodi mungapange bwanji zosiyana muukwati?
Kusiyanasiyana mu ubale nthawi zonse ndizodabwitsa. Konzani chakudya chamakono m'malo mwa borscht wamba. Kumbukirani kuti njira yopita kwa mwamuna imakhala m'mimba, apa ndikuyamba kupanga zatsopano panjira. Kutsika ndi dumplings ndi mbatata - kuphimba tebulo ndi zakudya za Japanese (sushi, mipukutu, chifukwa) kapena ku Mexico (chisakanizo cha ndiwo zamasamba ndi tomato), nthawi ina yesani phalata ya Italy ndi pizza. Inde, "musadumphe" kuchokera ku mbale ya khitchini imodzi kupita ku yina, mwinamwake kungopangitsa kuti m'mimba mukhale ndi matenda a m'mimba, koma kupanga zosiyana 1-2 pa sabata ndizoyenera.
Ndikofunika kupanga zosiyanasiyana mu mawonekedwe akunja. Yesani kuyesera fanolo, ndiye mwamuna wanu nthawi zonse amamva kuti adafalitsidwa ndi bwenzi lake latsopano. Onetsetsani kuti mubadwanso mwatsopano komanso panyumba, mungathe kukomana ndi mwamuna wanu zovala zapadzulo komanso chakudya chamakono kapena suti
Kusiyanasiyana kwa kugonana
Kusiyanasiyana komweku kumawonjezera mgwirizano m'banja. Zomwe zimakhudzanso masewera omwe amakopeka ndi amuna ndi akazi, lero mukhoza kukhala woyendetsa sitima, ndipo mawa mdzakazi. Chalk zosiyanasiyana ndi zovala zonyansa mungathe kuzipeza mosavuta mu sitolo yogonana. Yesetsani kupita ku sitoloyi pamodzi ndi kusankha chovala chimodzi ndi mwamuna wanu ndikuyang'anitsitsa maso ake. Ngati mbuye wanu aganizira chithunzi chilichonse, chotsani mwachinsinsi kwa mwamuna ndikudabwa nthawiyi.