Timachita mantha kuwerengera Nyumba ya zaka za m'ma 1500, ndikudabwa kuti chiwawa chinachitika bwanji m'banja. Akazi akhoza kuthetsedwa mthupi komanso mwamakhalidwe. Komabe, ngakhale masiku awa sichikutsatidwenso: mabanja alipobe komwe mwamuna ali wamantha. Ndikofunika kuzindikira munthu wotereyo pakapita nthawi kupanga chisankho, kukhala ndi zambiri.
Zizindikiro za mwamuna wamantha wankhanza
Ngati tilankhula za psychology ya mwamuna wa wolamulira, cholinga chake chachikulu ndi mphamvu. Iye samadziona yekha kukhala mutu wa banja, koma pafupi mwiniwake wa mamembala onse a m'banja, ndipo ali otsimikiza kuti ayenera kuchita zokhazo zomwe anawalola. Taganizirani zizindikiro zazikulu za mwamuna wankhanza:
- Amaika mkazi wake pamalo odalirika - zakuthupi ndi zamaganizo.
- Amatsutsa ntchito iliyonse, ndi zophweka kudzichotsa yekha.
- Amalankhulana molimba mtima komanso mopanda ulemu.
- Iye salankhula kapena kufunsa, koma nthawi yomweyo amafuna ndi kulira.
- Kwa ambiri a iwo ndi zachilendo kukantha mkazi.
- Iye sangakhoze kukondwera, izo nthawizonse zimatsimikizira kuti mwachita chinachake cholakwika.
- Monga lamulo, munthu wotero - chidakwa, wogwiritsira ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, wosewera mpira, komabe nthawi zina pamayambiriro oyamba.
- Iye sali ndi udindo pa mawu ake ndipo samakwaniritsa malonjezo ake.
- Amaletsa kulankhulana ndi abwenzi kapena achibale.
- Amatsutsa nthabwala zoipa mumayendedwe anu, ndipo mukakhumudwa, mumakhala olakwa - chifukwa cha "kusowa kwachisangalalo."
- Iye akhoza kukhala wopanda nsanje, amanyazidwe komanso kuwalanga chifukwa cha machimo opanda ungwiro.
- Amatikumbutsa nthawi zonse yemwe ali mwini nyumbayo.
- Amaletsa ndalama, osaloleza kuthetsa ndalama.
Podziwa kuti zizindikiro zotani kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi wamasiye, mumadziwa mosavuta ngati mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu ali m'gululi. Ngati zoposa theka la zinthu zikugwera, ichi ndi chizindikiro choipa kwambiri. Zimene mungachite ngati mwamuna ndi wankhanza, mumasankha. Koma mukudziwa, anthu awa sasintha. Ndipo ngati inu simukufuna kuti mukhale ndi manyazi mu moyo wanu wonse, ndi kosavuta kuchoka tsopano.