Mitundu ya umunthu

Munthu aliyense ali ndi makhalidwe apadera omwe amadziwitsa umunthu wake. Ndizosangalatsa, ndipo ndi zinthu ziti za chirengedwe, zikhalidwe za mtundu wanji ndi momwe zimakhudzira khalidwe la munthu?

Kodi ndi makhalidwe ati a khalidwe?

Nchifukwa chiyani mukulimbana ndi makhalidwe otani? Kuti muzindikire mtundu wa interlocutor. Ndipo kudziwa kuti munthu ali ndi khalidwe lotani, ndi kosavuta kufotokozera zochita zake, ndipo izi zidzakuthandizani kupewa zovuta zosiyanasiyana.

Ngakhale osadziwika ndi mutuwo, mungatchule makhalidwe ambiri, kumvetsetsa kuti ndi ndani mwa iwo omwe akufotokozera munthu wina? Mu psychology, pali ziganizo za makhalidwe otsogolera ndi achiwiri. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti chilichonse chidzadziwonetsera mofanana ndi khalidwe la munthu. Mwachitsanzo, munthu wowona mtima komanso wamanyazi nthawi zonse amatha kunyozedwa ndi ena, yekha akukangana kuti ndi olakwika ngati kutsogolera kwake ndi mantha. Koma ngati choonadi chikufala, ndiye kuti adzauza aliyense yemwe alidi, mumtima mwake mumtima mwake.

Choncho, makhalidwe amtunduwu amagawidwa mogwirizana ndi mbali zosiyanasiyana za moyo.

1. Kuyanjana kwa anthu ena: kunyenga, choonadi, kusamala, kunama, kusungulumwa, kusagwirizana, ubale.
2. Mkhalidwe wa nkhaniyi: chikhulupiriro chabwino, udindo, khama, ulesi.
3. Mkhalidwe wa kudzikonda: kunyalanyaza, kudzudzula, kudzichepetsa, kudzikuza, kudzidalira.
4. Mkhalidwe wa katundu: umbombo, kukhala wololera, wowolowa manja, wopusa, wosasamala, wolondola.

Gulu loyamba ndilo lingaliro kwa anthu ena, chifukwa ndi anthu omwe makhalidwe apamwamba amapangidwira, popanda kufufuza khalidwe ndi anthu ena, khalidwe la munthu silingamvetseke. Ngati munthu wapititsa patsogolo makhalidwe enaake, ndiye kuti amatchedwa accentuation

Kodi munthu ali ndi khalidwe lotani pamene akuwongolera?

Chodziwika kwambiri ndi kugawikana kukhala anthu otchuka komanso otchuka, otsekedwa komanso okondana nawo. Koma palinso mndandanda wotere wa mitundu ya umunthu waumunthu.

1. Wopanda mphamvu. Anthu oterewa amakhala ochezeka, akulankhulana, amawonetsa nkhope. Kawirikawiri zimakhala zosasangalatsa komanso zokhumudwitsa, zoyesayesa kwambiri komanso zamphamvu.
2. Dysthymic. Iwo ali otsekedwa, anthu osayenerera. Iwo sakonda makampani akukweza, amamverera osasangalatsa mwa iwo. Amayamikira kwambiri mabwenzi awo, amawachitira zinthu zopanda chilungamo. Kawirikawiri zimakhala zovuta komanso zopepuka posankha zochita.
3. Cycloidal. Maganizo a anthuwa amasiyana nthawi zambiri, malingana ndi momwe amachitira poba, kenako amatseka kwambiri.
4. Zosangalatsa. Zimatsutsana, anthu ovuta poyankhulana. M'banjamo iwo amakhala amphamvu, palimodzi ali osokonezeka. Iwo ali osasamala, amakhala osamala komanso osamala, koma mofulumira amakhala opsya mtima, osakwiya.
5. Anakhumudwa. Anthu oterewa ndi osasokonezeka, monga aliyense kuphunzitsa, nthawi zambiri amachititsa mikangano. Amadzipangitsa okha komanso ena.
6. Pedantic. Awa ndiwo maofesi a boma omwe amasonyeza chidwi chochuluka pa tsatanetsatane. Iwo sakonda kukhala atsogoleri, iwo ali achangu kwambiri, samaphonya mwayi wakugwedeza.
7. Nkhawa. Anthu omwe ali ndi khalidwe limeneli ndi osatetezeka, choncho sakonda kukangana, ndipo ngati amakangana amakondwera ndi anthu ena. Amakhala okoma mtima komanso odzimva okha, koma khalidwe lachikhalidweli sali lolimba kwambiri, kotero anthu awa nthawi zambiri amachititsa nthabwala ndi kuseka.
8. Zisonyezero. Awa ndi anthu okhudzana omwe angathe kusintha zochitika zilizonse, kumvetsera zovuta. Nthawi zambiri amachititsa kuti ena azikhumudwa chifukwa cha zomwe zimayambitsa mikangano. Katswiri, wamwano, ali ndi malingaliro odabwitsa, ali odzikonda, odzikuza ndi achinyengo.

Mitundu 4 ya khalidwe

Sizomveka kumvetsa mtundu wa khalidwe lomwe munthu ali nalo, chifukwa pali zigawo zambiri. Kuchokera ku sukulu timadziwa malingaliro a choleric, blood, melancholic, phlegmatic ndi mitundu ya khalidwe, koma nthawi zambiri amasokonezeka ndi mtundu wa umunthu wa munthu. Chikhalidwe chimakhudza kwambiri khalidwelo. Choncho, kuti mumvetse mtundu wa khalidwe lomwe mulipo, m'pofunika kulingalira za chikhalidwe cha munthu.

1. Wokonda ndi munthu amene amachitira mwamsanga zochitika, nthawi zina mopweteka kwambiri komanso mopanda nzeru. Anthu oterowo nthawi zambiri amakhala opsya mtima komanso okhwima.
2. Sanguine - munthu wololera bwino, wozoloŵera kuyang'ana mozama mkhalidwewo, ndi kupanga zokha zokha.
3. Phlegmatic ndi mtundu wokhazikika komanso wolimba. Anthu oterewa ndi ovuta kwambiri kuti achoke mudziko la mpumulo.
4. Kusungunula ndi munthu amene ali ndi mantha ambiri. Kusokonezeka maganizo kwa anthu oterewa kumatsutsana.
5. Sizingathe kunenedwa kuti mtundu wina wa chikhalidwe kwa mkazi ndi wabwino, ndipo ena ndi ovuta. Tikudziwa momwe asungwana amachitira manyazi, koma amuna awo ndi okonzeka kuvala.