Kutinjenjemera pang'ono ponseponse m'thupi, kutsetsereka kawirikawiri ndi kuuma kwa kusuntha. Kodi mumayang'anitsitsa zovuta izi pamene muli pakati pa anthu? Kotero muli ndi mavuto. Kusamvetsetsa kumakhudza moyo wanu, koma kungathe kuwononga moyo wanu. Tangoganizani za ubwino womwe ukudzipatula wekha chifukwa cha kusatetezeka m'zochita zako ndi kusaganizira pazochita zako! Ubale, ntchito, kulankhulana ndi anthu - zonsezi zothandiza kwambiri zimakhala zosatheka ndipo zingayambitse kukhumudwa kwenikweni. Chochita ndi momwe ungachotse manyazi? Tidzakambirana nkhani yofunikayi.
Zifukwa za manyazi
Kodi ndikumverera kotani ndi kusalakwitsa ndi manyazi? Ndi mantha amkati oti adziulule wekha ku dziko lozungulira ife. Monga momwe tikudziwira, mtundu wa anthu amagawanika kukhala extroverts (yotseguka ndi yotuluka) ndi introverts (chatsekedwa ndi unsociable). Ubwenzi wosadziwika ndi wa mtundu wachiwiri. Chifukwa chachikulu choletsera ndi kudzidandaula. Kwa anthu ovutika ndi zovuta zambiri, zikuwoneka kuti anthu ozungulira iwo amawonanso zolephera zonsezi mwa iwo. Koma kodi iwo alidi kumeneko? Nthaŵi zambiri, zovuta za anthu zimakhala zosavuta ndipo sizikhala ndi maziko enieni. Kuwonekera kwawo, monga lamulo, kumalimbikitsidwa ndi kutsutsidwa kuchokera kwa achibale, omwe samadziwa nthawi zonse kuti amapanga cholakwika chachikulu. Mwachitsanzo, mayi wachikondi amatsutsa kamtsikana kakang'ono chifukwa cha khalidwe loipa kwambiri: "Ndiwe malo otsetsereka," "Njira ya mkazi wakale sichidzatuluka mwa iwe", "Koma ndani angakukwatire iwe monga choncho?" Ndithudi anthu ambiri amvapo mawu amenewa. Iwo amakhala pulogalamu yomwe yaikidwa pamutu panga ndipo sandilola kusangalala ndi moyo. Kodi tsopano tingaphunzire bwanji kuti tisakhale wamanyazi, kukhala mkazi wodalirika komanso wopambana? Zidzatenga ntchito yaying'ono, koma ndikukhulupirireni, ndizofunika.
Kodi mungathetse bwanji manyazi?
Kugonjetsa manyazi ndi njira yomwe imayenera kuyamba ndi ntchito ya mkati, pang'onopang'ono kutembenukira ku ntchito zothandiza. Malangizo athu adzakuthandizani pa izi, momwe mungachitire ndi manyazi:
- Dziwani kuti ndi zinthu ziti zomwe mumaganiza kuti ndinu wamanyazi. Zikhoza kukhala makampani aakulu, odziwa atsopano, kuwoneka kwa anthu kapena ubwenzi wapamtima ndi mnyamata. Lembani mndandanda wa nthawi zoterezi. Posachedwa mudzayamba kugwira nawo ntchito.
- Phunzirani kumasuka. Izi zidzakuthandizani kuti muzikhala odziletsa nthawi zambiri komanso kuti muwachiritse mofatsa. Sankhani nokha zozizira, kuchita yoga kapena kusinkhasinkha.
- Phunzirani ena. Nthawi zina zimakhala zokwanira kuti zisonyeze kuchokera kumbali ya zochita ndi zochita za anthu omwe amadzidalira komanso anthu omwe amakhala nawo. Kumbukirani kumwetulira, manja, makhalidwe, zovala ndi zonse zomwe zikuwoneka zofunika kwa inu momwe mungagonjetse manyazi anu.
- Phunzirani kudziyamikira nokha ndipo osayesa umunthu wanu ndi ena. Ntchitoyi ndi yovuta kwambiri. Msungwana mwachilengedwe ndi zovuta kukhala chete, pamene ena ali ndi madiresi a chic, zovala zopatsa chidwi ndi chidwi kuchokera kwa anyamata. Koma ngati mutasankha nokha kuti simuli oipitsitsa kuposa ena komanso kuti mumakhala ndi zokoma zanu, posachedwa mudzazindikira mmene maganizo a ena adzasinthira.
- Phunzitsani kudzidalira. Chitani zomwe munkawopa. Mwa njira iyi mungathe kuchotsa mantha osafunikira ndikuzindikira kuti manyazi anu anali opanda ntchito. Dziwani kuti ndinu munthu yemwe ali ndi kalata yaikulu ndipo mumadziimira nokha. Kodi ndi chiyani chomwe akuganiza? Ndi moyo wanu wokha ndipo zina zonse zimakhudza pang'ono.
Pambuyo pochita malingaliro onsewa, muyenera kupitilira pa mphindi yofunika. Ndiyetu, yankho la nkhani yofunika kwambiri - momwe mungagonjetse manyazi a msungwana kwa atsikana.
Kodi mungatani kuti musamachite manyazi ndi anyamata?
Chinthu choyamba chimene muyenera kukumbukira - Ambiri samadziwa kuti muli ndi zovuta zambiri. Ndipo kuwauza kuti mumaopa chinachake kapena ndinu wamanyazi, ndiletsedwa. Mu mkazi apo payenera kukhala chinsinsi, ndipo mulole mantha anu onse akhalebe chinsinsi kwa iye. Amuna amakopeka ndi amayi abwino, otetezeka, osati "masitonkeni a buluu" modzichepetsa komanso okhazikika pakhoma panthawi yovina.
Ngati mutasamukira kumalo ena ndipo muli ndi mnyamata, vuto latsopano likuwonekera - simukudziwa kusiya manyazi pa bedi. Nkhaniyi imanyalanyazidwa ndipo imapezeka ngakhale anthu odzidalira kwambiri. Chifukwa chiyani? Inde, muzowonjezera, kamphindi kakang'ono, vuto loipa ndi losaoneka lodziwika bwino la cellulite. Ndipo atsikana ambiri samadziwa momwe angagonjetsere manyazi mu kugonana, mosamala kupereka zosangalatsa zawo kwa anthu awo ndipo samawoneka opusa panthawi yomweyo.
- Konzekerani kukonzekera msonkhano wapamtima. Mwachibadwa, muyenera kuchotsa tsitsi, manicure ndi pedicure. Lingerie ndizofunika. Musayese kugona naye pajammas ndi ana kapena thalauza ndi ziphuphu. Njira yabwino - yonyansa komanso yokongola.
- Musatseke kwathunthu kuwala. Siyani kuwala kwa usiku kapena kandulo mu chipinda. Izi zimathandiza kubisa gawo la thupi lanu ndikuwonjezera chidwi kuchokera kwa amuna.
- Osati wamanyazi pabedi? Ingosangalala! Inde, muyenera kukonza malo ndi nthawi ya msonkhano pasadakhale. Poonetsetsa kuti panalibe makolo kumbuyo kwa khoma, mudakhulupilira mnzanuyo, ndipo nthawi siinathere. Kambiranani ndi chisangalalo cha botolo la champagne. Tsekani maso anu ndikudzipatulira ku tsankho, mantha ndi nkhawa. Inu, ndithudi, mumayenera kukhala ndi gawo lalikulu la caresses ndi chikondi. Ndiye bwanji mukudzipiritsa nokha izi? Sizochititsa manyazi, koma mwachibadwa. Ngati mulibe chidziwitso, izi zimangokondweretsa mwamunayo. Iye mwiniyo adzakondwera kukuphunzitsani chirichonse.
Ngati mnzanuyo atatha kugonana asanathe kuyankhulana nanu, ndipo amafuna kubwereza chirichonse, ndiye kuti zonsezo zinakonzedwa ndipo amanyazi sichimveka bwino. Kumbukirani - ndiwe chilengedwe chokongola, ndipo anthu abwino salipo. Phunzirani kudzikonda nokha ndikuwona ulemu wanu. Ndiye kumverera ngati kunyada sikungayesere kuwononga moyo wako kenanso.