Tonsefe tinkayenera kuyang'anitsitsa ngati mmodzi wa mamembala a kampani akuonetsa chidwi cha omvera kwa munthu wawo. Pafupi ndi iye nthawi zonse pali magulu a othandizana nawo omwe amathandizira zokambiranazo ndi chidwi. N'chiyani chimakopa anthu kwa iye? Mwachidziwikire, ichi ndi chitukuko cha luso lake loyankhulana, lomwe lafika pamtunda wapamwamba. Pogwiritsa ntchito luso loyankhulana timamvetsetsa momasuka pokonza maubwenzi abwino ndi amalonda ndi anthu. Mkhalidwe umenewu umaphatikizapo kuthekera kupeza anthu , komanso kuchita mwaluso kukambirana ndi munthu aliyense, mosasamala za udindo wake ndi msinkhu wake.
Mitundu ya luso la kuyankhulana kwa anthu
Momwemonso anthu onse akhoza kugawa m'magulu malingana ndi momwe amagwiritsira ntchito njira yawo yolankhulirana:
- mtundu waukulu - ndi zovuta kuti musadziwe, mutatha kukambirana naye kwa mphindi zisanu, zikuwoneka kuti alipo ambiri, iye ndi wankhanza komanso wolimba kwambiri.
- Mtundu wa foni umangowonongeka pamakambirano alionse ndipo mosavuta imataya chidwi. Imakhala ndi luso lapamwamba loyankhulana, kulankhula mwamsanga komanso maonekedwe a nkhope.
- Mtundu wovuta - ndizovuta kupeza chidziwitso chatsopano, zimakhala zovuta polowa nawo pazokambirana, koma mutatha kudutsa msinkhuwu, zingakhale zokondweretsa kwambiri.
- mtundu wotsutsa - wosiyana ndi waukulu. Kudzichepetsa, kudziletsa, n'kovuta kufotokoza momveka bwino.
Pofuna kudziwa momwe mungayankhulire, yankhani mafunso awa: Kodi mumamva bwanji ndi anzanu atsopano, kuwoneka kwa anthu, misonkhano yotsatira ndi anzanu akale. Ngati mukufuna kukhala chete, osalongosola malingaliro anu, ndiye kuti simukugwirizana kwambiri ndipo mukhoza kuthana ndi mavuto kuntchito kapena m'moyo wanu.
Mavuto ndi maluso olankhulana amatha kusintha. Ngati mukumana ndi munthu wina watsopano kapena mukamapereka lipoti, mufunikira thandizo la psychotherapeutic, ngati kuphwanya kuli kosavuta, mukhoza kuthana nalo ndi maphunziro.
Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale ndi luso loyankhulana?
Choyamba, inde inde kulankhulana. Kulankhulana mu zosangalatsa zanu ndi anzako, ogwira nawo ntchito, odziwa nawo komanso alendo. Chachiwiri, phunzirani kuwona zinthu zabwino za kukambirana kulikonse, yesetsani kuchoka pa izo chidziwitso chatsopano kapena chokuchitikirani cha wina. Gwiritsani ntchito maphunziro apadera ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi kuti mukhale ndi umoyo wabwino.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amapereka machitidwe osiyanasiyana kuti athe kulankhulana. Cholinga cha makalasiwa ndikutulutsa chidziwitso, kuyankhulana, kukonza malingaliro, kumanga luso loyankhulana, ndi zina zambiri. Kuchita masewero kungakhale kogwirizana ndi munthu aliyense. Zochita za munthu aliyense zimaphatikizapo kukamba nkhani pamaso pa galasi, kuwerenga malemba omwewo ndi mitundu yosiyana ya maonekedwe, ndi ena. Zochita zapadera zimaphunzitsidwa mosiyana ndi gulu. Mwachitsanzo, maphunziro "Tchulani mayinawo" - omwe amagawanawo akusiyanitsa zochitika zomwe woperekayo akufotokozera, afotokozereni ndikufotokozera njira zosayenera.