Kuwongolera munthu kumatanthauza kutsimikizira kuti munthuyo ndi woyenera. Tonsefe, njira imodzi kapena ina, timakonda kupambana. Ntchito iliyonse yomwe ife timadzipatsa tokha, kaya tipeze kuvomereza, kusintha maganizo a munthu, kuti tipange chisankho choyenera kumadalira momwe mphamvu zathu zowonetsera zimakhalira. Popeza timadalira pa kupezeka kwa luso limeneli, tiyenera kudziwa luso lokopa.
Zambiri
Malingaliro ndi kukopa ndi njira zina zomwe zimakhudza kwambiri munthu. Mosiyana ndi chikhulupiliro, malingaliro amasiyana ndi ang'onoang'ono a zifukwa. Wothandizira, monga lamulo, amakhulupirira zotsutsana popanda umboni. Zonse zimadalira momwe zimakhalira zovuta zokhudzana ndi zifukwa zanu, pamlingo wokhala wokonzeka kukhulupirira ndi kuvomereza chidziwitso. Chotsatira chake, malingaliro amakhala malo apakati a munthu, zomwe amadziona ngati ake. Akapolo, anthu ofooka amatha kugonjetsedwa ndi maganizo ndi kukhudzika. Komabe, kumapetoko kumafuna khama kwambiri.
Njira yokopa imachokera pazowona. Mawu anu ayenera kulingalira ndi omveka bwino. Zolingalira, monga lamulo, anthu omwe sagonjera malingaliro osavuta, ali ndi ndondomeko yosiyana pa mutu womwe mukukambirana. Anthu oterewa akusowa zambiri. Amafunikanso umboni wodalirika.
Amene ali ndi chidziwitso - ali nacho dziko. Choncho, kuti tipambane mkangano, n'zosavuta kuti anthu akhulupirire komanso kukhala osangalatsa, amalimbikitsidwa, "adzikonze" yekha, adye ndi chidziwitso chatsopano ndikukhala ndi chidwi ndi zomwe zimamuzungulira.
Malamulo ndi njira
Pofuna kutsimikiza kuti njira yotsutsa sichikhala ndi chiwawa komanso sichimawumirizidwa, nkofunika kukumbukira malamulo ena:
- onetsetsani kuti ndondomekoyi ikugwirizana bwanji. Gwiritsani ntchito ndondomeko zotsatirazi: zifukwa zamphamvu - mfundo zowonjezera mphamvu - imodzi, koma yamphamvu;
- kuti mupeze yankho lolondola ku funso lofunika kwambiri kuti muyiike pachitatu. Afunseni mafunso anu awiri mwachidule komanso osavuta, omwe angathe kuyankha "Inde" mosavuta. Izi ndi zochitika za psyche munthu. Ndinagwirizana nanu kawiri - lachitatu "Inde" mumapeza "pamakina";
- Perekani mwayi kwa wothandizana nawo kuti "asunge nkhope". Musanyoze kapena kunyozetsa munthu;
- lolani kufotokoza malingaliro anu ndi kudziwa momwe mungamvere;
- khalani wokondedwa;
- Pofuna kutsimikizira munthu, yambani ndi zomwe mumavomerezana nazo;
- Pindulitsani nthawi zabwino za interlocutor ndikuyesera kuchepetsa mawonetseredwe ake oipa.
Njira zam'mwambazi zidzakuthandizani pakukakamiza mdani wanu. Mbiri yanu, chithunzi ndi kudzidalira ndizo zothandizira kwambiri pa nkhaniyi. Bwino!