Akatswiri m'mayendedwe a psychology atsimikiza kuti kuopa kulankhula pagulu ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zamphamvu kwambiri. Anthu samawopa kwambiri imfa ngati zochitika. Momwe mungagonjetsere komanso ngati mungathe kuchotsa mantha, tidzakambirana lero mwatsatanetsatane.
Megalomania
Pali lingaliro lakuti anthu omwe amaopa zochitikazo ndi otetezeka ndipo alibe kudzichepetsa. Ndipotu izi ndi zolakwika kwambiri. Mkhalidwe, tiyeni tingonena, ndizosiyana kwambiri. Amavutika ndi " megalomania ".
Chowonadi ndi chakuti munthu sachita mantha ndi malo enieni ngati chinthu, zingakhale zopanda pake. Anthu amaopa gulu la anthu, maganizo awo ena paokha. Mwadzidzidzi iwo adzaganiza molakwika, adzakambirana, kuseka? Bwanji ngati sakonda tsitsi langa? Kapena adzawona kuti ndili ndi miyendo yambiri? Mafunso awa onse amabwera m'malingaliro chifukwa cha kukhudzika kwakukulu pa munthu wake. "Momwemo, nditatha zonse, ndine wangwiro, wangwiro, ndikutsutsa mwadzidzidzi, ndikutsutsa ..."
Chisoni cha mutuwo
Nchifukwa chiyani munthu amapita pamasitepe? Sankhani mafashoni ndi mafano osiyanasiyana. Nthaŵi zambiri, anthu amapita kwa anthu kuti akagawane nawo chidziwitso.
Kwa wokamba nkhaniyo sikuyenera kukhala kofunika kwambiri kuti "adziwonetse" kuti afotokoze chinthu chamtengo wapatali kwa ena. Ngati wokamba nkhaniyo akunena zomwe akunena, akhoza kukhala ndi chidwi. Ngati apambana kukondweretsa chidwi, iye mwiniyo adzakhudzidwa ndi zolankhula zake, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti akhoza kusonyeza luso lake loyankhula ndi anthu onse. Zomaliza zidzatsimikizira kuti munthu adzatengedwa ndi kulankhula ndipo sipadzakhala nthawi yoti amuope. Kodi ndizo zisanayambe kuthamanga pang'ono mawondo?