Ndikofunika kwambiri m'moyo wa banja, ngakhale kusintha kwachiwiri kwa wophika pambuyo pa ntchito komanso nkhawa zambiri zokhudza ubwino wa mamembala onse a m'banja, osati kubweretsa ubale wawo kuti munthu wachilendo aziwoneka wosangalatsa komanso wokongola kuposa mwamuna wake.
Kodi mungasokoneze bwanji ubale wa banja kuti chisamaliro cha chikondi cha mkati musakulepheretseni inu, ndipo misonkhano ndi kuyankhulana nthawi zonse zimakupangitsani kukhala ndi mantha ndi mantha?
Njira yowonjezereka mu nkhaniyi ingakhale kuwerengera mulu wa timabuku ndi zofalitsa za amayi pa mutu wakuti "Mmene mungasinthire kugonana kwa mabanja," ndipo, okhala ndi zidziwitso zosadziwika bwino ndikuyang'ana mphamvu zawo pamutu kapena mlatho wokhala ndi mphasa imodzimodzi, zolemetsa. Koma ngakhale pakuyesera kotereku, nthaka ikufunikanso mwa mawonekedwe owona mtima, ogwirizana, okhulupilika ndi owona mtima. Ndipotu panopa zingakhale zopanda phindu, pomwe dzanja lamanja kapena mwendo wakumanzere kapena phazi. Koma ife tikuyesera izi, sichoncho ife?
Kotero, mungathe bwanji kusiyanitsa ubale wanu ndi mwamuna wanu wokondedwa m'banja? Wokondedwa ndi kuwonjezera kofunika kwambiri! Timatsutsana ndi "kubwezeretsanso" ndi "kubwezeretsedwa" kwa maubwenzi - osati nthawi zonse ndikukhoma chikho kuti chigwiritsidwe ntchito. Kodi tinganene chiyani za banja ?!
Ndipotu, pali njira zambiri zogwira mtima, mkhalidwe waukulu wa zomwe zikuyenda bwino ndi kuti onse ali okonzeka kugwira ntchito. Chiyembekezo chimene munthu wina yekha angatenge pa ntchito ya osangalatsa kwambiri ndi kusowa kwapafupi! Pano iwe uyenera kukhazikitsa boma lapadera, momwe ngakhale kuyenda wamba kungakhale kovuta, chiyanjano chophatikizana!
Tonse timadziwa zomwe zili pangozi, koma nthawi zonse timayang'ana zifukwa zomwe zikuwoneka kuti sizingatheke pamoyo weniweni. Musanaphunzire njira zothetsera ubale wathanzi muzinthu zosawerengeka za tsiku ndi tsiku, muyenera kumvetsa chinthu chofunika kwambiri:
1. Chokondweretsa kwambiri ndi kulemera moyo wanu, mukamayang'ana kwambiri mwamuna wanu, mumakondwera kwambiri. Zosangalatsa, kulankhulana ndi anthu ena, kudzikonda-chirichonse, koma muyenera kukhala ndi malo anu enieni. Ndipo, mwinamwake, madzulo kunyumba kwa chakudya chamadzulo inu mudzakhala ndi chinachake chokamba ndi kuseka.
2. Ndikofunika kukhala ndi nthawi yokwanira yopumula, kubwezeretsa mphamvu ndi kukambirana kwambiri m'banja. Monga lamulo, izi ndizovuta kwa amayi athu: osati momwe angasinthire ubale ndi mwamuna wake, koma pamene!
Ngati mwangokhala panyumba muzichita zovala, kuchapa ndi kuphika, ndipo madzulo popanda miyendo yang'onopang'ono mumagona kugona tulo tulo, ndiye mukuchita chirichonse cholakwika. Pakhoza kukhala ziwiri zosankha. Kapena mwawononga banja lanu ndipo, kupatulapo inu, palibe aliyense amene akugwira ntchito yosungiramo nyumba, ndipo apa zotsatira zake zikuwonekera. Kapena ndinu wongwiro, ndipo mwamsanga mukufunika kuganiziranso momwe mumaonera zinthu zapakhomo. Kodi muli ndi vareniki musanapite kuntchito? Funsani mwamuna wanu zomwe angafune: dumplings kapena inu. Kapena, mwinamwake mumaganiza kuti zingakhale zabwino kuti muwapange pamodzi.
Ngati izi zilipo ndipo mwaphunzira kuchotsa mavuto, ndiye kuti simungakwanitse kukwaniritsa malangizowo "ovomerezeka" kuchokera mndandandawu, momwe mungasinthire ubale wanu ndi mwamuna wanu wokondedwa. Kupanga njira zanu nokha kulipo
Kumbukirani - sikumangodandaula chirichonse! Ngakhale anthu wamba amayenda ndi kulankhulana, kuyanjana pakati pa dziko lapansi, nthabwala zitha kugwedezeka bwino kusiyana ndi ulendo wopambana kwambiri kuzilumba. Ngakhale kuti wina salamulira wina.
Ndipo ndondomeko zofanana zogonana, mwachitsanzo, mu malo osayembekezereka, mwanzeru mwakonzedweratu? Tangoganizani, mmawa wamvula, mvula, mutsegula mbale ya shuga kuti mukomere khofi ndi kukwera msanga, ndipo mulembamo kalata yochokera kwa okondedwa anu: "Mmawa wabwino, wanga wokoma!" Kapena adzatsegula thermos penapake pa nsomba yozizira, ndipo apo: "Bwerani, wokondedwa, posakhalitsa, ndikukulimbikitsani mwamsanga! "Sikoyenera kuti mauthengawo ali ndi tanthauzo lakuya kapena amawala ndi chikhalidwe chokongola. Zingatheke m'mawu anu, zizindikiro ndi mayina okondedwa - mawu osavuta omwe amayamba mwadzidzidzi pamoyo wanu wa tsiku ndi tsiku, alowetsa mumtima ndikuphulika ndi chifuwa mumtima mwanu ndi kumwetulira nkhope yanu.