Kodi nthawi zonse mumatchula wokondedwa wanu pamene ali kuntchito ndikuyamba kudandaula ngati sakuyankha foni? Ndipo nthawi zina samayankha kapena kutaya, ndipo ngakhale mu foni osadziwika amawonekera. Mwinamwake iye ali ndi wina ndipo amasintha, pamene mumamuyembekezera tsiku lililonse popanda kupeza malo? Kukhoza kusakhulupirika sikungathetsedwe, koma wina ayeneranso kudziyesa yekha kuti "wonyansa", mwinamwake mumakakamiza kwambiri munthu wanu?
N'chifukwa chiyani mukuletsa?
Aliyense, ngakhalenso mkazi wamphamvu kwambiri amamvetsa kulamulira kwathunthu - njirayi ndi yolakwika, koma izi sizimulepheretsa kufufuza njira iliyonse ya mwamuna wake. Kodi chikhumbochi chimachokera kuti? Akatswiri a zamaganizo amati amachokera ku chisakanizo cha zigawo ziwiri - nsanje ndi chisamaliro. Nanga ndichifukwa chiyani amayi ena samapereka mpata woti ayambe kukondana naye, pamene ena amachitira mwakachetechete chifukwa cha kusowa kwake pa tsiku logwira ntchito? Kodi sakhala ndi nsanje kapena osasamala mwamuna? Ndipotu, maganizo amenewa sali chizindikiro cha kusayanjanitsika, ndizomwe amayiwa akufuna kuti awone wokondedwa wina ndi mnzake, osati mtumiki. Ngakhale, mwinamwake, amayi omwe amasewera udindo wa atsikana, samadziwa momwe angakhalire mosiyana, chifukwa akhala akulamulidwa mwamphamvu kuyambira ali mwana.
Kodi chisamaliro chimasintha motani?
Ambiri anganene kuti sanaganize kuti azilamulira mwamuna wawo, amangoganizira kwambiri za iye ndipo amafuna kuti zonse zikhale bwino. Koma kusamala kwambiri sizomwe munthu akusowa, ndipo ndichifukwa chake. Muzimuteteza, chitani zomwe akuganiza kuti zidzakhala bwino, muzimuuza nthawi zonse zomwe achite, ayitaneni kuti muwone ngati malamulo anu akwaniritsidwa. Ndipo kulakwitsa ndiko kuti simukuganiziranso kukhala ndi chidwi ndi zikhumbo zake, kumangokakamiza chifuniro chake pa iye. Chimene chiti chidzachitike, sizingakhale zovuta kufotokozera - wokondedwayo adzanena kuti ndinu "wochuluka mu moyo wake" ndipo adzapita kukafunafuna zomwe sizidzamupweteka ndi chisamaliro chake. Inde, pali amuna omwe amalola kulandira chithandizo chotero, kawirikawiri awa ndi ana aamayi, omwe amazoloŵera chisamaliro cha kholo lawo. Munthu woteroyo akusowa kupeza munthu amene angathetse mavuto ake onse, ndipo inu nokha mupereke mwayi umenewu. Pamapeto pake, adzizoloŵera kukhala pansi pa zidendene, kuti asatayike kupanga zosankha zodziimira, zomwe mudzamukakamiza nazo. Kotero mpaka izo zisachitike, tadzikani nokha palimodzi ndipo mupatseni wokondedwa wanu ufulu pang'ono, izi sizimupangitsa iye kuti athawe.
Chotsani spy mania
Kumbukirani, chisamaliro chenicheni sichingayambe chiwonetsedwe mwa chilakolako chofuna kuyang'anitsitsa nthawi zonse. Chotsani chizoloŵezi chomuitana wokondedwa wanu ora lililonse ndikukonzekera kufufuza mwatsatanetsatane, ngakhale kuti mukukondedwa, kapena, mochulukirapo, mukhale ndi zipangizo zilizonse zoyendetsera zokambirana. Mudzakhala ndi nthawi yolankhula kunyumba, mulole apume mwaufulu, ndipo muzisamalira nokha, m'malo mowononga nthawi ndi ndalama zopanda phindu pokambirana. Ngati wokondedwa adalonjeza kuti abwereranso kuntchito pa nthawi yina ndipo asachedwe kwa mphindi zisanu, musamuitane ndi kumufunsa chifukwa chake kwa nthawi yayitali. Ndipo kusiya chizoloŵezi chosokoneza misonkhano yake ndi abwenzi ndi kuyitana kwake - mupatseni munthuyo mpumulo. Kawirikawiri, gwiritsani ntchito foni pomwe mukufunikiradi,
Ntchito ina yokondedwa kwa amayi ambiri ikuwerengera ma sms, kuyang'ana ojambula pa foni, kufufuza matumba, kufufuza mbiri pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti , ndi zina zotero. Makhalidwe amenewa akhoza kufotokozedwa (koma osavomerezedwa) kokha ngati pali zifukwa zenizeni zonyenga, chifukwa cha chikhumbo chodziwa za oyanjana naye, musachite izi. Inde, muyenera kudziwa za anzanu ndi anzanu, koma mumupatse mwayi wofotokozera zonse zokhudza chirichonse, musagwire ntchito ya Gestapo. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, musamapange chisankho kwa mwamuna wanu, mum'funseni (kwenikweni, osati chifukwa cha "nkhuni"), ndipo musakhumudwe ngati maganizo anu akusiyana.