Psychology ya munthu wachikondi

Kotero, ndi kusintha kotani mu khalidwe la munthu wotere? Tidzayesa kumvetsetsa funso ili ndikuwulula zizindikiro za munthu m'chikondi, monga momwe tawonetsera ndi maganizo.

Kodi munthu amene amayamba kukonda amakhala bwanji?

  1. Pofuna kukondweretsa, akhoza kuchita zinthu zomwe sizomwe zimakhazikitsidwa ndi iye: Munthu wodzichepetsa m'moyo akhoza kupeza ufulu, kuyeserera, komanso "moyo wa kampani" mwadzidzidzi amasiya komanso kuganizira.
  2. Nthawi zonse amafuna kuwona zomwe zidakondweretsa mtima wake, choncho akufufuza nthawi zonse "misonkhano".
  3. Chikondwerero chapadera chimaperekedwa kwa iye kachiwiri mwa "mwangozi" chikukhudza chinthu cha chikondi chake . Mwa njira, zowawa za tactile ndizofunikira kwambiri, monga zimamveka.
  4. Psychology ya mwamuna wachikondi imasiyana ndi chidwi chozama kwa yemwe akulota usiku: mu kukambirana ndi wokondedwa, nthawizonse amatembenukira kumaso ake, amawoneka bwino.
  5. Amadziwika kawirikawiri, mopanda phokoso kumaitana nthawi zing'onozing'ono, zomwe zimasonyeza kuti iye wasokonezeka.
  6. Iye ali wokonzeka nthawi iliyonse kuti aponyedwe chirichonse ndi kuthamangira kuwapulumutsira, ngakhale zinthu sizikufunikira.
  7. Kuwonekera kwa munthu wachikondi, kumatsimikizira psychology, wadzazidwa ndi chikondi ndi chikondi; munthu amachotsa mkati mwamsanga atangoona wokondedwa wake. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, amayang'ana ndi chiyembekezo m'mawonekedwe obwereza ndipo amakhumudwitsidwa, ngati sali odzazidwa ndi chikondi ndi chikondi chomwecho.
  8. Komabe, musaiwale kuti sikuti munthu aliyense amasonyeza momveka bwino mmene akumverera: ambiri, m'malo mwake, amakhala osayankhulana komanso osasamala. Ndipo ngakhale pafupi ndi mkazi, maonekedwe omwe amachititsa mkuntho wa chisangalalo mkati, iwo amakhalabe ofanana.

Maganizo a khalidwe la munthu wachikondi amatha kudziwika ndi maganizo ake, koma nthawi zambiri amawoneka ndi malingaliro, zolaula ndi maloto, zomwe zimagwirizana ndi zochita zake, maganizo ake ndi malingaliro ake.