Kotero, ndi kusintha kotani mu khalidwe la munthu wotere? Tidzayesa kumvetsetsa funso ili ndikuwulula zizindikiro za munthu m'chikondi, monga momwe tawonetsera ndi maganizo.
Kodi munthu amene amayamba kukonda amakhala bwanji?
- Pofuna kukondweretsa, akhoza kuchita zinthu zomwe sizomwe zimakhazikitsidwa ndi iye: Munthu wodzichepetsa m'moyo akhoza kupeza ufulu, kuyeserera, komanso "moyo wa kampani" mwadzidzidzi amasiya komanso kuganizira.
- Nthawi zonse amafuna kuwona zomwe zidakondweretsa mtima wake, choncho akufufuza nthawi zonse "misonkhano".
- Chikondwerero chapadera chimaperekedwa kwa iye kachiwiri mwa "mwangozi" chikukhudza chinthu cha chikondi chake . Mwa njira, zowawa za tactile ndizofunikira kwambiri, monga zimamveka.
- Psychology ya mwamuna wachikondi imasiyana ndi chidwi chozama kwa yemwe akulota usiku: mu kukambirana ndi wokondedwa, nthawizonse amatembenukira kumaso ake, amawoneka bwino.
- Amadziwika kawirikawiri, mopanda phokoso kumaitana nthawi zing'onozing'ono, zomwe zimasonyeza kuti iye wasokonezeka.
- Iye ali wokonzeka nthawi iliyonse kuti aponyedwe chirichonse ndi kuthamangira kuwapulumutsira, ngakhale zinthu sizikufunikira.
- Kuwonekera kwa munthu wachikondi, kumatsimikizira psychology, wadzazidwa ndi chikondi ndi chikondi; munthu amachotsa mkati mwamsanga atangoona wokondedwa wake. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, amayang'ana ndi chiyembekezo m'mawonekedwe obwereza ndipo amakhumudwitsidwa, ngati sali odzazidwa ndi chikondi ndi chikondi chomwecho.
- Komabe, musaiwale kuti sikuti munthu aliyense amasonyeza momveka bwino mmene akumverera: ambiri, m'malo mwake, amakhala osayankhulana komanso osasamala. Ndipo ngakhale pafupi ndi mkazi, maonekedwe omwe amachititsa mkuntho wa chisangalalo mkati, iwo amakhalabe ofanana.
Maganizo a khalidwe la munthu wachikondi amatha kudziwika ndi maganizo ake, koma nthawi zambiri amawoneka ndi malingaliro, zolaula ndi maloto, zomwe zimagwirizana ndi zochita zake, maganizo ake ndi malingaliro ake.