Chiphunzitso cha Kusamvana

Chodabwitsa chotero ngati mkangano (mwachidule) ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri la bungwe la moyo. Silikukhudzanso moyo wa zamoyo zokha. Mikangano mwa anthu, zinyama ndi zomera - chilengedwe cha chikhalidwe chawo. Kwa anthu, mikangano ndizolimbikitsa kuti pakhale chitukuko.

Pakalipano, mikangano ikuphunziridwa ndi sayansi monga chikhalidwe cha anthu ndi psychology . Ndipotu, tingatsutse kuti mgwirizano wapangika posachedwapa monga sayansi yapadera, yomwe sitingathe kuiona ngati malo odzidziwa okha.

Gawo la sayansi la funsoli

Mu Western Europe maganizo a sayansi, zambiri zamakono zamaganizo ndi zachipembedzo ziganizo za mikangano zikufotokozedwa. Asayansi akuyimira malo osiyanasiyana a filosofi, njira zosiyana mu psychology ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu, kukhala ndi malingaliro osiyana ndi kupereka masomphenya awo omwe ndi kufotokoza kwa chodabwitsa ichi, komanso njira zothetsera mikangano.

Pakati pa maphunziro a khalidwe la nkhani za mikangano, machitidwe amtundu wa makhalidwe amadziwika. Pazifukwa izi, chimodzi mwa ziphunzitso zamakono za umunthu mukumenyana kunayambira (zikuwoneka kuti malingaliro omwe akufunidwa ali pafupi kwambiri ndi choonadi).

Makhalidwe mu mikangano

N'zotheka kuwonetsa zitsanzo za khalidwe la umunthu mukumenyana.

1. Kupanga . Nkhaniyi imasonyeza kukondwera kwa mpikisano, kutseguka ndipo, panthawi imodzimodzi, chipiriro ndi kudziletsa, amayesetsa kuthetsa (kuthetsa) mkangano; zolaki ndi zolondola mu zochita ndi mawu.
2. Zowononga . Nkhaniyi ikuyesera kukulitsa mpikisano, motero nthawi zonse imayipitsa wokondedwayo, kuyesa molakwika mdaniyo; imasonyeza kukayikira kwa wotsutsa, satsatira malamulo a chikhalidwe, mwachibadwa kwa mudziwu.
3. Wotsutsana . Nkhaniyi ikuwonetsa kusagwirizana, kusagwirizana ndi chizoloŵezi chochita mgwirizano; mu ziyeso, ziweruzo, khalidwe, palinso kusagwirizana; amayesetsa kuthetsa mavuto aakulu.

Mmene mungakhalire?

Zoonadi, chimodzi mwa zitsanzozi za khalidweli mukumenyana ndizimene zimagwirizanitsa ndi mgwirizano, mtundu wa mkhalidwe, kufunika kwa maubwenzi ake, komanso maganizo omwe ali nawo pamaganizo. Kufikira kwina, khalidwe la ophunzira likuwonetsa zochitika zina za phunziro lililonse.

Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti chitsanzo chabwino kwambiri cha khalidwe (ngakhale kuchokera ku pragmatic point of view) n'cholimbikitsa.

Kuopsa kwa chionetsero Kugwirizana kwa mgwirizanowu mukumenyana kumakhala mukutanthauza kuti kungathandizire kuonjezera chiwawa cha wotsutsana, ndipo nthawi zina - kukwiyitsa. Ndipotu, malingaliro ovomerezeka angaoneke ngati owononga. Zili zosiyana ndi zowonongeka zokhazokha. Komabe, sikuti onse komanso nthawi zonse sagwirizana, kugwirizanitsa zinthu kungakhale ndi ntchito yabwino ngati kusagwirizana kumene nkhondoyo inabuka sikofunika kwenikweni.

Kuchokera ku malingaliro a mikangano yaumwini, chozama kwambiri ndi chosangalatsa ndi psychoanalysis (mwa mitundu yonse yamakono), Jung's psychology ndi gestalt psychology.