"Kulankhulana" - nthawi zambiri timawona, kapena timagwiritsa ntchito mawuwa mwachidule pofotokoza makhalidwe abwino. Anthu ambiri amaganiza kuti kulankhulana komanso kukhala ndi chikhalidwe ndi mfundo ziwiri zomwe munthu angathe kuika chizindikiro chofanana. Komabe, izi sizinali choncho: kuyankhulana sikutanganidwa chabe - ndi mphamvu ya munthu kukhazikitsa oyanjana ndi oyanjana ndi anthu osiyana, kuthekera kochita zokambirana zokondweretsa muzochitika zilizonse, ponena mawu ndi malemba. Pochita izi, ingolerani luso loyankhulana.
Mitundu ya luso loyankhulana
Kawirikawiri luso loyankhulana ndi luso limagawidwa mwa:
- zolembedwa - ndizokulankhulana, kulankhulana kupyolera mu njira zosiyanasiyana zoyankhulirana, kumene kulibe mawu osalankhula. Maluso olankhulidwa olembedwa amasonyezedwa momveka bwino komanso mwadongosolo, chikalatacho chimalongosoledwa, malingaliro akugwiritsidwa ntchito nthawi zonse, komanso pakakhala zolakwika zopeka ndi zolemba;
- pakamwa - uwu ndi luso lomwe limadziwonetsera mwachindunji, kapena kulankhulana pa foni. Maluso olankhulana amodzi ndi okhoza kufotokozera momveka bwino malingaliro awo, kuthekera kuti apeze interlocutor kuchokera kumphindi yoyamba ya zokambirana, komanso kumatha kumvetsera wopikisana wanu.
Kukulitsa luso loyankhulana
Kupanga luso loyankhulana kumapezeka mwa anthu pafupifupi kubadwa (luso lolankhulana molankhulidwe). Pachifukwa ichi, malo oyandikana nawo a mwanayo amatha kugwira ntchito yofunikira - poyamba banja, ndiye amacheza mu gulu la achinyamata kapena abwenzi pabwalo lamasewero, kenako sukulu ndi anzanu akusukulu. Ngati panthawi yoyambirira mwanayo sankalandira kulankhulana kokwanira, ndiye nthawi zambiri (kusukulu, pokhala wamkulu), amakhala ndi mavuto poyambitsa chiyanjano.
Chofunikanso chofunika ndi umunthu wa munthu - chikhalidwe, khalidwe laumwini (introvert, kapena extrovert), kupezeka kapena kupezeka kwa vuto lililonse la kulankhula. Kubvomerezana, mwana wodetsa nkhaŵa ndi malingaliro a munthu wamagazi kapena wa choleric, ndi kosavuta kusintha pakati pa ana alionse kusiyana ndichitsanzo, chiyambi cha kusungunula, ndipo pokhala wamkulu, adzasangalatsidwa kwambiri.
Ichi ndi chomwe chimayambitsa kulankhulana kwachinsinsi, luso loyankhulana loyamba lomwe limapangidwa pa sukulu, pamene mwanayo aphunzira chinenero cholembedwa. Sizimapanganso popanda misampha, mwachitsanzo, monga dyslexia ndi dysgraphia - amawonetsedwa polephera kuŵerenga ndi kulemba, kapena kulemba (kuwonetsa), ndi chitukuko chodziwika bwino. Zowononga izi, zowona, zimatha kuwongolera, koma munthu yemwe adakumana ndi mavuto omwewo mu ubwana, ndipo pokhala wamkulu ali ndi mavuto ena ndi kutumiza mauthenga olembedwa.
Kukulitsa luso loyankhulana
Maluso olankhulana oyankhulana akhala akuthandizira kwambiri moyo wa munthu. Pambuyo pake, anthu omwe ali nawo mwangwiro, nthawi zambiri amapindula kwambiri, kuntchito komanso payekha. Choncho, ngati mulibe mwayi wokhala ndi luso lapadera, ndiye kuti muyenera kulingalira za momwe mungakulitsire luso lanu loyankhulana. Kwa ichi, pali njira zambiri zomwe mungaphunzitsire maphunziro, nthawi zambiri gulu. Mu moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, kulankhulana ndi anthu ochokera kumtundu wina wothandizira kudzathandiza kumanga luso loyankhulana. Chitani ngati woyambitsa chilankhulo,
Ndipo potsirizira: ndithudi, luso lolankhulana ndi lofunika kwambiri, makamaka mu ntchito zomwe zimayendera kugwira ntchito ndi anthu, palibe ponse paliponse popanda kuyankhulana. Komabe, musayiwale kuti kuti muchitike kuntchito, muyenera kukhala katswiri weniweni yemwe amamvetsa bwino momwe angapangidwire (mwazinthu zina, ziribe kanthu momwe otsogolera akulankhulira ngati sakudziwa kuphika). Ndipo mu moyo waumwini ndikofunikira kukhala osati kulankhula kokha, komanso munthu wabwino.