Chikumbutso choyamba cha ukwatiwo

Chikumbutso choyamba cha ukwatiwo chimatchedwa chintz, chomwe chimanyamula chizindikiro china ndi kusamveka. Monga mukudziwira, chaka choyamba cha maubwenzi apabanja ndi mayeso ovuta kwa awiriwa, chifukwa amadziwa wina ndi mzake, amaphunzira kuthetsa mavuto pamodzi ndikupeza zotsutsana. Choncho, chikumbutso choyamba cha ukwatiwo chimatchedwa kulemekezedwa ndi zinthu zochepa komanso zofooka, chifukwa zimakhulupirira kuti mgwirizano womwe uli pamsinkhu uwu umakhalanso wosalimba. Kumbali ina, nsalu ndi yosavuta, yowala ndi yofiira, ndipo chikumbutso choyamba chaukwaticho chimatchedwa, chifukwa chimaphatikizapo kuphweka komanso kosavuta, chifukwa m'chaka choyamba cha banjali adakali ndi chilakolako ndi chikondi kwa wina ndi mzake, zomwe zimawathandiza kuti athetse chisokonezo tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndipo chikondwerero chokumbukira chaka choyamba chaukwaticho ndi chophiphiritsa. Popeza takhala limodzi kwa chaka chimodzi, ndikudziwana bwino, okwatirana akuwoneka kuti akutsimikizira malonjezo onse achikondi ndi okhulupirika omwe adatchulidwa tsiku la ukwati. Inde, mwambo woterewu sungakhoze kuzindikiridwa kapena kukhala phwando wamba.

Kodi mungakondweretse bwanji tsiku loyamba la ukwati?

Poyamba, banjali liyenera kusankha kusunga chikondwerero choyamba cha ukwati - palimodzi, m'gulu la achibale ochepa kapena kuitanira abwenzi ndi achibale onse. Kumadzulo, zimakhala zotchuka kuti azisewera maukwati obwerezabwereza. Choncho, okwatirana amakumbutsana zakukhosi kwawo poyamba. Inde, sikofunikira kukonzekera ukwati chaka chilichonse, koma ukhozanso kusunga chikondwerero mwa njira ina. Ngati mwasankha kugwiritsa ntchito tsikuli nokha, muyenera kuonetsetsa kuti palibe ntchito yomwe ingalepheretse chikondwererocho. Zikhoza kukhala chakudya cha kandulo ndi ulendo, kapena kuyendera malo okondedwa ndi mtima, kumene msonkhano woyamba unachitikira, kuzindikira koyambirira, kukupsompsona koyamba. Kawirikawiri, pamodzi, banjali likhoza kusunga chaka chilichonse pazomwe zikuchitika, chifukwa ichi ndi chigawo choyamba chogonjetsedwa m'moyo wa banja.

Kuchita chikondwerero ndi abwenzi ndi abwenzi, mukhoza kupanga pulogalamu ya zosangalatsa zomwe zingatsindikitse kufunika kwa holide. Ndipo ngati chikondwerero choyamba cha ukwatiwo chikuyandikira, ndi momwe mungakondwerere ndi zomwe mungapereke, sizinasankhidwe komabe, ndizotheka kugwiritsa ntchito zizindikiro za anthu. Kwa nthawi yayitali pali mwambo, malinga ndi zomwe achinyamata amapatsana mipango ya calico. Kunena lumbiro lachikondi ndi kukhulupirika, "zida za chikondi" zimamangiriridwa pa mipando, ndipo mipango iyi imasungidwa mu moyo wonse wa banja. Inde, kupatula mipango, mukhoza kuganizira za mphatso zina.

Kodi mungapereke chiyani pa tsiku loyamba la ukwati?

Dzina la chikondwerero choyamba cha ukwatiwo chimaphatikizapo tanthawuzo ndi chizindikiro cha holide, yomwe ingakhale yochokera pa kusankha kwa mphatso. Okwatirana kumene angapatsane wina ndi mzake chirichonse chomwe chimaphatikizapo chikondi ndi chifundo, kufunitsitsa kuthera limodzi moyo wawo wonse. Choyamba, ndithudi, zomwe mungapereke kwa chaka choyamba cha ukwatiwo zimadalira zofuna za okwatirana, pa njira yawo ya moyo ndipo nthawi yapadera idakhala pamodzi. Mukhoza kupatsana komanso kuyenda, komanso ulendo wokondweretsa. Koma ndibwino kupeŵa mphatso zothandiza, chifukwa chochitika choterocho chimachitika kokha kamodzi pa moyo, ndipo, chifukwa chake, mphatsoyo iyenera kukhala yachilendo kwambiri. Kwa alendo oitanidwa ndi achibale, funso la zomwe mungapereke kwa tsiku loyamba la ukwati ndi losavuta, chifukwa cha miyambo yosiyanasiyana. Zachitika kuti lero lino ndi mwambo wopereka zitsulo, matebulo, apironi. Ngakhale masiku ano sikuli koyenera kuti iwo ndiwo mankhwala okhaokha, koma m'masiku akale amapereka zonse zomwe zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi nsalu iyi. Mphatso yokonzekera tsiku loyamba laukwati ikhoza kukhala yeniyeni, mwachitsanzo, zovala zopangidwa ndi zithunzi za okwatirana. Alendo angapange mphatso yothandizira, mwachitsanzo, kusindikiza magazini kapena nyuzipepala yeniyeni, kumene padzakhala nkhani kuchokera ku moyo wa achinyamata, zochitika zozizwitsa kuyambira ubwana, chibwenzi chokwatira, mbiri yaukwati, komanso malangizo othandiza kwa okwatirana. Mungasankhe chithunzi cha okwatirana kumene, omwe amawoneka mwachikondi wina ndi mzake, ndi kuthandizidwa ndi zithunzi za makompyuta kuti akule zakale, osasintha malingaliro awo. "Chiwonetsero cha tsogolo" chimenechi chingakhale chikhumbo choteteza chikondi kufikira ukalamba.