Ukwati wauzimu

Ukwati wauzimu ndi mgwirizano wovuta kwambiri, momwe anthu omwe ali kutali kwambiri ndi momwe iwo amaonera moyo ndipo mbali zonsezo ndizokwanira bwino kwa wina ndi mzake. Zolingalira pankhaniyi zikhoza kuwonjezeredwa ndi zowona ndi zina zotero. Wolemba nyenyezi Gregory Kvasha amakhulupirira kuti ukwati wauzimu ndi wotheka kwa anthu ena okhawo omwe amaimira nyenyezi za kummawa, kumene ntchitoyi ikuperekedwa osati mwezi wa kubadwa, koma kwa chaka chake.

M'njira yamakono, banja lauzimu limaonedwa kuti n'zotheka mwa awiriwa awiriwa:

Mutha kuona kuti mwa kufanana palibe mapepala okwanira a Monkey - Njoka, Hatchi - Boar ndi Tiger - Mbuzi, ngakhale zili zosiyana. Malingana ndi Grigory Kvasha, palibe mgwirizano wina uli ndi ufulu wotchedwa ukwati wauzimu, okhawo, owerengedwa mwachindunji.

Ndi njira yomwe imakhala yovuta kwambiri kukhazikitsa, monga zikuonekeratu pambali yomwe abwenziwo ali osiyana, ndipo kenako ndizotheka kuona kuti pamtanda iwo amathandizana bwino. Njira yopita ku mgwirizano wotereyi ndi yovuta komanso yosokoneza, koma iwo omwe angathe kufike pamapeto akupambana.

Monga lamulo, maukwati auzimu amathera pokhala akulu, koma nthawi zina munthu akhoza kukumana ndi banja lachinyamata. Pankhaniyi, moyo wawo wamtendere sungathe kutchedwa: Pambuyo pa masautso, mikangano, mikangano, ndipo nthawi zina ngakhale kugwirizana kwathunthu. Ndipo Amuna okha omwe amatha kukambirana nawo, osati kutsatira zofuna zazing'ono zawo, adzakhazikitsa ukwati wotere ndikukhalabe okhutira. Miyoyo yawo ikhonza kuphatikizidwa m'modzi mwa magawo apamwamba a kayendetsedwe kameneka, koma mpaka pano adzayenera kudutsa zovuta zambiri.

Muukwati wauzimu, chikondi ndi chofunikira, koma chifukwa cha mphamvu izi mgwirizano wotere udzasungidwa. Mu mgwirizano wotere, nkofunika kuiwala kuti zosankha ndizotheka - ayi, muli ndi munthu ameneyu ndipo muyenera kukhala naye, muyenera kumvetsetsa zakuya kwake ndikudzimasula nokha. Ndikofunika kukhala pamwamba pa zonse kuti muthe kumvetsetsa chikhalidwe cha mnzanuyo ndikumanga naye maubwenzi omwe mungathe kukhala nawo mgwirizano wauzimu.