Ngati ntchito yanu ndiyo kuchotsa munthu amene akusowa mtendere, ndiye kuti malangizo athu owopsa ndi opangidwa mwachindunji pa izi. Koma ngati mukuzikonda, musamatsatire malingaliro omwe adzakambidwe pansipa.
1. Yerekezerani ndi yoyamba poyang'ana yachiwiri
Nthawi zonse tchulani mawu monga: "Koma wanga wakale ..." ndi kuyerekeza mu chirichonse komanso nthawi zonse. Monga mukudziwira, pafupifupi abambo onse ndi kumvetsera zina za mpikisano wawo safuna ndipo sangatero. Ngati muchita mwanjira imeneyi, ndiye kuti munthu amatha kapena kuthawa.
2. Khalani odzikonda
Inde, munthu ali ndi chidwi chodziŵa za inu chidziwitso chirichonse, koma sakufuna kumvetsera kwamuyaya. Ngati mukudziimba nokha ode, mwamunayo adzatsimikiza kuti ndinu wodzikonda komanso wotsutsa. Phunziro lokhazikika ponena za iyemwini ndi njira yothandiza kuti amuchotsere yekha.
3. Yawn ndikusowa poyera kukambirana
Chitani zonse zomwe zingatheke kuti interlocutor amvetsetse kuti simukukondwera ndi kusokonezeka. Pakukambirana, khalani osokonezeka nthawi zonse, osokonezeka, akukuta, ndi zina zotero.
4. Malingaliro akuti ndibwino kuti adzisokoneze yekha ...
Mosakayika, chiwerengero chanu ndi chabwino (mosiyana ndi icho), tiuzeni zomwe zakudya zinagwiritsidwa ntchito kuti zikwaniritse zotsatira zake, ndi masewera otani omwe anali nawo. Mumulangize kuti atenge uphungu pa kulemera kwake kapena akulimbikitseni masewera olimbitsa thupi , ndiyeno ... (apa mungathe kukumbukira fanizo lokongola la kale).
5. Khalani wonyansa komanso woipa
Uzani bamboyo momwe mumadana ndi bwana wanu, momwe mumayendera pansi pa galimoto, momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito pantyhose, momwe anthu amakhumudwitsidwa, momwe mungakhalire osamvetsetseka kukhala m'dziko lino, ndikukweza mitengo, ndi zina zotero. ndi kulimbitsa nkhope yonse ya nkhope ndi manja . Gawo lalikulu la zolakwika lidzakuthandizani kuchotsa chibwenzi chokhumudwitsa.
6. Khalani osasamala ndipo mukuwoneka kuti mukupezeka
Inde, amuna amakonda kuganizira amayi azisanu ndi amaliseche mu zithunzi, koma sakufuna kuti mukhale chithunzi kwa ena. Valani molakwika, makamaka pamene mumakumana ndi anzanu, mukuwanyengerera, muzichita zambiri kuposa zomwe simukuziletsa.
7. Khalani mayi ake
Amuna onse ndi ana akulu ndipo amafuna kuti pakhale maphunziro opitiliza. Ndemanga pa mawu ndi zochita zonse, ndipo potsirizira pake, yambani njira yayitali ndi yovuta yokondweretsa. Mwachidziwikire, palibe chifukwa chopanga kusankha kulikonse, chifukwa ndi okhawo amene mukudziwa njira yeniyeni yothetsera vutoli.
8. Musamufikire
Iye ndi mwamuna, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti iye adzayesera kuti apindule nawo. Sonyezani kuti alibe chidwi ndipo nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti ndinu diamondi ndi pamwamba pa ungwiro, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti zidzakhala zovuta kukwaniritsa.
9. Kuchitira nsanje ku chipilala chilichonse
Ngati akuyang'ana atsikana ena (kapena kutsogolo kwawo), onetsetsani kuti mukukonzekera nkhanza ndi kumumenya. Kumbukiraninso za ambuye ake akale ndi olembapo pa mwayi uliwonse. Chifukwa chake ndicho chenicheni cha kukhalapo kwawo. Lowani malo ake apadera: fufuzani foni nthawi zonse, funani kupeza malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, azondi, ndi ena. Bzalani izo
10. Iwe uli ndi pakati
Pangani nthabwala ndikuwuzeni mwamuna wanu kuti muli ndi pakati, izi zingakhale zopambana-phindu ndipo mwinamwake mudzawona zidendene za wokonda kale yemwe adzathawa mofulumira kwambiri. Ngati izo sizigwira ntchito, nenani kuti simukudziwa kwenikweni kwa yani.
Nazi mfundo zina zosavuta zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuchotsa munthu kamodzi.