Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kuti amai amvetsetse amuna, ngakhale kuti maganizo awo savuta kukhala ovuta monga momwe akuwonekera. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti amuna ndi achilendo komanso osavuta! Mwachidule iwo ali ochindunji kwambiri ndipo samakonda kulimbikitsa chirichonse, ndipo kawirikawiri amakhala mosiyana kwambiri ndi akazi - izi ndizovuta!
Tiyeni tidziŵe zomwe zimapangitsa munthu kukhala ndi maganizo abwino, kuphunzira kumvetsetsa amuna ndikuphunzira momwe angayankhire bwino khalidwe lawo ndi zochita zawo.
Makhalidwe ndi maganizo
Amuna amadziwika ndi kukhudzika ndi kukhwima, kuleza mtima ndi kukwiyitsa, ndipo angathe kukana. Iwo amanyadira mphamvu zawo ndi kutsimikiza kwawo ndipo nthawi zonse amayesetsa kupambana ena - chifukwa ndi zopanda pake ndipo zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuthana ndi kupambana. Ndipo ngakhale kuti sasonyeza kusonyeza kwawo momasuka komanso momasuka monga amayi, amakhalanso ndi mantha, kukwiya ndi kukwiya. Chiwonetsero cha nkhope zawo zokha chimakhalabe choletsedwa ndipo mwazizindikiro zosadziwika, munthu akhoza kuganiza kuti mwamunayo ali ndi vuto loipa. Nchifukwa chake maganizo awo kwa amayi ndi ovuta - angamvetse bwanji kuti munthu akukhumudwa kapena akukhumudwitsidwa, ngati sakusonyeza? Choncho kumbukirani kuti chilichonse chomwe chimakhudza kudzidalira kwake chingamukhumudwitse.
Kudzikuza ndi kunyada
Kutsutsidwa ndi kutsutsidwa, zikumbutso za zolakwitsa ndi zophonya zimapweteka kwambiri chikondi cha anthu. Choncho, mutanena chinthu chosasangalatsa kamodzi - kutseka mutuwo ndipo musabwererenso. Pambuyo pake, amuna okhawo amachita izi - atadziwonetsera okha kutsutsana kapena kutsutsana, iwo salinso kukumbukira izo.
Iwo ali odzipereka payekha - ndikofunika kuti iwo amvere ufulu wawo ndi ufulu wawo. Ndipo samachotsa kudzidalira kwawo, ndi kudzidalira nthawi zambiri amatsutsidwa, koma popanda iwo sangathe kuperekedwa ndi ogonjetsa ndi apainiya.
Koma pamene iwo amagwirizana kwambiri ndi malingaliro ndi mayeso a ena, iwo enieni ali osamvetsetsa kwambiri kwa iwo. Mzimayi wasintha tsitsi lake, kapena amavala mikanda yatsopano, posachedwapa akulira kapena nkhawa zake - mwina sizingatheke kwa munthu, ndipo ziribe kanthu momwe zingamvetsetse - ichi ndi kuwerenga kwa amuna!
Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kumvetsa munthu akukambirana?
Palibe chophweka - chifukwa munthu nthawi zonse amanena zomwe amaganiza, ndipo ngati ayesa kunyenga, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zoonekeratu. Izi ndizovuta nthawi zonse kuti amuna ambiri ndi owerengeka. Pamene chirichonse chiri mu dongosolo - iwo samawona kuti ndi kofunika kukambirana izi. Chabwino, ngati chinachake chikuchitika chomwe chimafuna kuchita mwamsanga kapena kuchita, amuna amakonda kuchita bizinesi m'malo moyankhula. Chifukwa chake, zimakhala zovuta kwa iwo panthawi yachisokonezo kapena zoopsya kwambiri: iwo akukumana nawo komanso akumva zonse, koma ndizosavuta kuthetsa mavuto kusiyana ndi kulankhula za iwo. Kuchokera apa tingathe kunena kuti kukhala chete kwake sikutengeka kapena kusayanjanitsika, sadziwa zomwe anganene.
Maganizo a amuna ndi maubwenzi: momwe amamvetsetsa kumverera kwa amuna
Amuna samakonda akazi. Chikondi chawo sichingatanthauze maluwa ndi kuvomereza kokoma tsiku ndi tsiku. Iwo amakhulupirira moona mtima kuti mawu omwe alankhulidwa tsiku limodzi ndi okwanira. Ndipotu, anthu samakonda kulankhula zambiri. Kotero samayang'anitseni zomwe munthuyo akunena, koma zomwe iye akuchita.
Munthu amene amakukondani adzanena kuti ndinu mkazi wake. Iye sangabise ubale wanu ndikuti - "Uyu ndiye bwenzi langa," kapena "Mkazi wanga," kapena "Mkwatibwi Wanga," kapena "Wokondedwa wanga."
Ndipo ngati kuli kofunikira kuti mumve zomwe akukuganizirani - funsani molunjika, amuna samakonda mfundo. Musathamangire kukakhutira ndi mau a banal - achifundo, aluntha, okongola ... Funsani - nchifukwa chiyani ndi zabwino, ndizolondola, ndi chiyani chokongola kwambiri mwa inu? Ngati wothandizana naye sangathe kuyankha - akukumana ndi zina mwa zolinga zake ndipo mwinamwake sakumva ndi mtima wonse. Munthu wachikondi angakuuzeni momwe amakuchitira iwe ndi zomwe amakukonda.