Ngati mukudziwa chilankhulo cha thupi, mungathe kudziwa ngati munthu akumva chisoni kapena ayi. Zizindikiro, mawonekedwe a nkhope, kuyang'ana, zonsezi zikhoza kunena za chifundo chobisika cha mwamuna kwa mkazi.
Zizindikiro zomwe zidzati zokhudzana ndi zotheka:
- Ngati mwamuna nthawi zonse akukhudza tayi, kolala kapena tsitsi, mungakhale otsimikiza, iye anakonda inu.
- Ngati munthu akukambirana nthawi zonse amachepetsa mtunda, mukudziwa, amakukondani.
- Kukhudza kuwala kumasonyeza chifundo cha munthu kwa mkazi.
- Ngati nthawi zonse amaganizira za chiwalo chogonana, mwachitsanzo, amasunga manja ake pa lamba, mwachiwonekere amamva chilakolako chogonana.
Zizindikiro za chifundo cha munthu kwa mkazi:
- Mchitidwe wa munthu yemwe amamvera chisoni mkazi ndiwodziwika chifukwa cha chidaliro chake. Mapewa ake ali olunjika, mutu wake ukuleredwa pang'ono.
- Mwamuna wachikondi adzapatsidwa kuyang'ana kwake, momwe chidwi ndi ulemu zimayesedwa. Ngati akumvera chisoni, ndithudi adzaponya malingaliro olakwika mumayendedwe anu. Mu maso otseguka mudzawona kukoma mtima ndi kukhumba.
- Liwu la mwamuna yemwe ali ndi chidwi ndi mkazi nayenso amasintha. Zimakhala zochepa komanso zowonongeka.
- Zizindikiro zooneka bwino za chifundo cha munthu kwa mkazi ndizo manja ake. Kukhudza kwake, stroking, chirichonse chimayankhula za chidwi.
- Kumwetulira moona ndi chizindikiro cholondola, chomwe chimasonyeza chifundo.
Nthawi zina mwamuna ndi wodzichepetsa kwambiri moti pamsonkhano woyamba sitingathe kudziwa ngati mumamukonda kapena ayi. Pankhaniyi, pali njira ziwiri zomwe mungatenge: mutengepo sitepe yoyamba (yomwe nthawi zambiri imakhala yokwanira), kapena dikirani zochitika zina.
Ngati mumaphunzira kusiyanitsa zizindikiro zonsezi ndi zizindikiro, ndiye kuti mungathe kukuthandizani mosavuta.